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 Brown hand smash  Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582  |
l have a friend who has a very loving, kind and sweet girlfriend. Yeah l like her girlfriend alot but l dont want to steal her from my friend. thats not good. l saw my friend last week in a party, flirting with somebody else and it makes me mad, really mad. l was so pissed off that l walk out from the party. Then yesterday l saw him once again with that same girl at the party. My friend is cheating the girl of my dreams. l can sleep thinking about what l've seen. Today l was with my friends girlfriend, l feel guilty for not telling her what l've seen. l dont want to broke her heart coz l know that she love his boyfriend very much. Then my friend came like nothing really happen and treat his girlfriend just desame. l want to punch him in the face and beat him up but again l walk away. Tonight she came to my house and ask me why l walk out. l really want to tell her that her boyfriend is cheating on her but words dont come easily. All l say to her is that l dont feel well and l need to rest. What should l do? l cant hide these things forever, but l dont want to broke her heart. And l'm afraid that if l told her the truth, she might not believe me and call me a liar.
l badly need your help me guys. |
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Jan 22 2005, 10:07 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well, is he a close friend or what? if you're close, maybe you should confront him first. if not, i think you should tell her.
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Jan 22 2005, 10:20 AM
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Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
yeah, his a close friend and l've already talk to him. he told me to stay out of his way and not to tell his girlfriend about it.
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Jan 22 2005, 10:22 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well then, i think you should drop subtle hints when he's not around
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Jan 22 2005, 10:30 AM
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personally i think you should tell her or just give her obvious hints. what kind of guy would cheat on his gf.
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Jan 22 2005, 10:36 AM
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Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
do you think that this will work out???
yeah, why not. There is nothing wrong in trying |
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Jan 22 2005, 11:11 AM
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 I'm not crazy.. Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,670 |
If you don't want to hurt her, you should tell her. It sounds weird..But knowing the truth is a lot better than hiding in that little corner. And for your friend, you should tell him to be a man and come clean.
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Jan 22 2005, 11:27 AM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
You should talk to your friend first. Ask him about what's going on with him and that other girl. And if he says that he likes her, you should be like, "Your girlfriend doesn't deserve that. She's a great person, and you should treat her better." If nothing's going on, you'll just have to wait for the flames to die out or something. Tell your friend to stop screwing around.
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Jan 22 2005, 01:41 PM
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The girl in your avatar is cute.
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Jan 22 2005, 01:45 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
you should talk to him first about it, saying that's not right to be doing that you know...and then you have to understand that if you and her are close friends she shouldn't say that because if you and her have been friends for awhile then who is she going to believe, but from experience it doesnt always work out so well, you just have to stand up for what you believe in, and just tell her, because if she gets mad then it's not your fault, because you did what you had to do...
understand that if she leaves you for him, know this, in only time will she find out the hard way when you gave her the easy way out...she will come back again... |
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Jan 22 2005, 02:20 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, you should tell her, or drop obvious hints. or if you see him and that other girl together, get her to come and see or something. good luck.
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Jan 22 2005, 03:35 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(j x tEARz @ Jan 22 2005, 6:11 AM) If you don't want to hurt her, you should tell her. It sounds weird..But knowing the truth is a lot better than hiding in that little corner. And for your friend, you should tell him to be a man and come clean.  i agree... |
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Jan 22 2005, 03:58 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
Tell your friend that if he doesn't tell his girlfriend the truth you will. He's being a total jerk. She needs to know. Give him the chance to come clean and if he doesn't you should tell her.
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Jan 22 2005, 04:57 PM
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Just tell her, she deserves to know.
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Jan 22 2005, 07:37 PM
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She'll get hurt both ways. you have to tell her because she has the right to know about it.
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Jan 22 2005, 08:42 PM
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You should tell her. I mean; either way- if this girl was close or not close to you, she deserves to know. This guy sounds like a jerk. He's not worth being friends with, so just tell her.
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Jan 22 2005, 08:54 PM
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if i were the girlfriend, i would want to know and yeah, if your so called friend is like that, what kind of friend is he? TELL HER!
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