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 Jan 20 2005, 09:49 PM
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I'm Clean!  Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,517  |
should it be normal for someone to have a relationship in high school? i've been thinking about this and i just thought that it would be a bad idea. i mean, after high school you might not see each other again for a while and this might... disrupt things?. anyway what are your thoughts on this?
\\edit// is it worth it? Is probably a better question. |
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Jan 20 2005, 10:48 PM
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Yea, it would be normal for highschoolers to have a gf/bf. i don't really get your question. i mean you can still see them unless they go to another school/state it's a real hassale. if you don't really need a gf at the moment try to concentrate on school.
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Jan 20 2005, 11:16 PM
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It's always normal for someone to have a gf/bf in high school. Even though some of you may go off to college, there's still a phone to call each other and stuff.. Iono, I'll get back to this.
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Jan 20 2005, 11:37 PM
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 lil______d00ks Group: Member Posts: 508 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,538 |
yeah im in one right now. im currently a junior and my bf is a senior...although its nice now, i kinda regret getting into the relationship cause i know that it wont last. hes going to the military in july...thats only 6 months away. we wont have been going out for a year. to some 6 moths might seem like awhile, but for me it isnt. i duno, i guess you could say high school relationships are kinda pointless, but it at the time it seems ok..until it ends of course
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Jan 20 2005, 11:57 PM
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there were many cases where high school couples got married, well it doesn't matter, people grow from their experiences
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Jan 21 2005, 12:05 AM
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 rockstar Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,140 |
relationships you build in high school could last a life time...its all based on whether your ready for that kind of seriousness in a relantionship or you still just want a grl to m/o w/ at the movies...its all a ? of...realtin maturity i guess?
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Jan 21 2005, 01:30 AM
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 asiu Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,760 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Jan 20 2005, 8:57 PM) there were many cases where high school couples got married, well it doesn't matter, people grow from their experiences  yep... totally agree |
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Jan 21 2005, 11:09 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
high school relationships are normal.. its good to have relationships in high school relationships are a learning experience and its good to have experience.
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Jan 21 2005, 03:37 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
It's normal. It's okay. I mean it would be a great experience to actually date someone during your high school year. I mean I would be okay with that haha. I know some people be separtated after high school graduation, but some get to see each other. You just need to have all the luck you can get it. I really like someone, but I'm afraid that he'll move to different college like out of college. He might even go to Los Angeles, California
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Jan 21 2005, 04:10 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
highschool relationships are good experience for later life
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Jan 21 2005, 04:11 PM
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my middle school relationship cynicism has yet to wear off and thus i am still bitter and single
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Jan 21 2005, 04:25 PM
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Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
what middle school relationship cynicism. are bryce dykes and alex graveline still together?
just catching up on the gos |
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Jan 21 2005, 04:27 PM
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high school relationships are normal
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Jan 21 2005, 04:27 PM
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nooooo
actually, i forgot they ever were alex has some older boyfriend whose letter jacket she wears. so steryotypical. no telling about bryce, but he is actually quite hot (and you know how much it pains me to say that. yesterday nicki and i wore the same shirt, by the way. people found it funny. it got old rather quickly) the middle school cynisism that came from thinking those relationships were pointless as for the most part they didnt do anything at all or who knows, it could just be my typical bitter singleness as usual |
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Jan 21 2005, 05:42 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
that is just a chance you will have to take. if y'all love each other enough, you will most likely find a way to see each other.
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Jan 21 2005, 06:53 PM
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the thought that you might not see your significant other after high school shouldn't stop you from having a relationship...besides..you don't exactly know that you will never see them again either...
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Jan 21 2005, 07:19 PM
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^^
well said. i agree. 
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Jan 21 2005, 07:31 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
high school relationships are normal. eh, sure there's that doubt about life after high school, but if you two really care about each other, then there's always the phone and stuff. eh, i'm in a high school relationship, and my boyfriend is a senior, and i'm a junior. and sure, i'm not sure what'll happen when he goes off to college, but hopefully we'll still be able to see each other.
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Jan 21 2005, 10:17 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(xHalf nHalf @ Jan 20 2005, 11:37 PM) yeah im in one right now. im currently a junior and my bf is a senior...although its nice now, i kinda regret getting into the relationship cause i know that it wont last. hes going to the military in july...thats only 6 months away. we wont have been going out for a year. to some 6 moths might seem like awhile, but for me it isnt. i duno, i guess you could say high school relationships are kinda pointless, but it at the time it seems ok..until it ends of course if you think that they're pointless then why do you have one...?  i think it's completely normal to have a relationship in high school, if you really love your significant other and have faith in your relationship you shouldn't be worrying about the future |
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Jan 21 2005, 10:36 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
very normal.
i mean. if two people really like eachother, don't you think they should take a chance and go at it? |
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Jan 21 2005, 10:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 |
Of course it's normal. My mom and dad were high school sweethearts and they ended up getting married =)
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Jan 21 2005, 10:38 PM
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its fine...i think..unless you know the persons phone number or house adress or something like that
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Jan 22 2005, 05:55 AM
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Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE its fine...i think..unless you know the persons phone number or house adress or something like that What? how can u go out with someone if u dont no there number or where they live? confused |
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Jan 22 2005, 07:50 AM
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Regardless, you learn and grow from relationships
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Jan 22 2005, 01:28 PM
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 nOW wHY tHE hELL aRE tHEY bLINKIN'!?! Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,739 |
uhh.. ive had boyfriends in highschool.. i mean im still in 9th grade,, my first year in highschool.. but usually its the memories and stuff.. so its not a bad idea.. you learn things from relationships...
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Jan 22 2005, 06:28 PM
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yeah of course, for the experience--so you won't be too clueless in college. but it's also okay if you don't choose to have one. it's totally up to you.
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Jan 22 2005, 08:35 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i know there is a very little chance; they'll get married and all. but it's worth the try right? very little percent doesnt mean there isnt any. and yes it gives you exprience anyways.
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Jan 22 2005, 10:43 PM
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 Afflicted: Hurt. Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 |
It's fine but some relationships are eck. They think they are all lovely dovey but when they break up it's like their world fell to pieces.
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Jan 22 2005, 11:37 PM
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 you wish... Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 273 |
it is a proven fact that.. i think 97%? of high school relationships end up breakin up.
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Jan 23 2005, 12:04 AM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(wonmin @ Jan 22 2005, 11:37 PM) it is a proven fact that.. i think 97%? of high school relationships end up breakin up. for some reason i doubt that the percentage is so high...it can't be in the 90's
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Jan 23 2005, 12:15 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
its ok to have high school relationships. whats wrong w/ them? they usually dont last past high school but, thats ok
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Jan 23 2005, 08:40 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
yes it's normal. and they can be serious relationships too.
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Jan 23 2005, 11:22 AM
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 tower over me Group: Member Posts: 1,190 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,717 |
QUOTE(Frankie_08 @ Jan 21 2005, 5:42 PM) that is just a chance you will have to take. if y'all love each other enough, you will most likely find a way to see each other. Totally agreed. |
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Jan 23 2005, 09:29 PM
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you wish... Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 273 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 23 2005, 12:04 AM) for some reason i doubt that the percentage is so high...it can't be in the 90's its above 95%.. thats for sure. |
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Jan 24 2005, 01:18 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,723 |
i say, most high school relationships dont last, however, its always good to experience relationships to help you grow as a person. and what not
so yeah!
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Jan 24 2005, 02:53 AM
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yeah its not bad to have relationships in highschool.. you can learn from your mistakes for the future after high school.
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Jan 24 2005, 09:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 404 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,663 |
ditto.
however anyone who gets married right out of high school is crazy. |
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Jan 24 2005, 09:51 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 23 2005, 8:40 AM) yes it's normal. and they can be serious relationships too. agreed! lts normal to have a gf/bf during high school year. l know some who are stil inlove to each other even after high school and they go in different university. They dont see each other very often but they keep it up whenever they have a free time. Why dont you try it, maybe it may work out. There is nothing wrong in trying 
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Jan 24 2005, 02:54 PM
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well you could gain some relationship experience... i'm in HS by bf's in 2nd year univ and were working out fine a year in feb.
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Jan 24 2005, 07:57 PM
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I'm Clean! Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,517 |
actually i didn't really mean to say "normal", i meant more of a... is it worth it?
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Jan 25 2005, 01:03 AM
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QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Jan 21 2005, 4:53 PM) the thought that you might not see your significant other after high school shouldn't stop you from having a relationship...besides..you don't exactly know that you will never see them again either... yup! |
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Jan 25 2005, 01:04 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,236 |
QUOTE(emptyminded @ Jan 22 2005, 8:43 PM) It's fine but some relationships are eck. They think they are all lovely dovey but when they break up it's like their world fell to pieces. i hate those dramatic breakups when you never knew the ppl were going out or if they were all PDA! |
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