Girl, What should u do |
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 Jan 13 2005, 10:32 AM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,641  |
What should you do if the girl has a B/F but you liked her?
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Jan 13 2005, 10:40 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
look for someone elce... or wait till their relationship breaks apart... what ever u do dont break them up cuz... she mite end up hating u for it
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Jan 13 2005, 10:45 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Umm... she wont neccesarily hate you! Ive done it plenty of times and the girl still ended up liking me... just depends on the girl
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Jan 13 2005, 12:54 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
I would just look for someone else....because if you try to break her and her current b/f up, you could risk hurting her feelings, and I dont think her current b/f would be too happy about that.
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Jan 13 2005, 02:24 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
find someone else, if she's already in a relationship you shouldn't interfere, if you were in her boyfriend's shoes, you definately wouldn't want some guy trying to steal your girl
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Jan 13 2005, 02:27 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
give her up...
there are plenty of girls in the world. why go for one that's already taken? |
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Jan 13 2005, 03:28 PM
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If you truly liked her, you would wait for her and be there whenever needed.
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Jan 13 2005, 04:29 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
skip her and look for someone else. she has a bf so back off of her before her bf will murder you.
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Jan 13 2005, 04:31 PM
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 mmm hmmm Group: Member Posts: 1,591 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,325 |
well you can always be her friend right?
 That's a good way to get to know someone. Is she already your friend? Because some of the greatest relationships bloom from friendships.
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Jan 13 2005, 05:08 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
just keep friendly with her---
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Jan 13 2005, 07:16 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
be friendly with her.. but don't hit on her.... show signs that you may like you, but show that you respect that fact that she already has some else....
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Jan 13 2005, 09:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,428 |
my personal philosophy is that just because there is a goalkeeper, it doesn't mean that you can't score.
 But seriously, it seems like you lost your chance. Take this as a learning experience and next time you find a girl that you like, make sure you express it. Confidence is more of an attractive feature than anything else for a guy! 
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Jan 14 2005, 12:14 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Well, you just got to wait 'til your turn. Just be friends with her & be there for her when her bf breaks up with her. there is nothing that you can do.
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Jan 14 2005, 01:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
kill yourself, obviously
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Jan 14 2005, 06:06 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just move on, like everyone said be friends with her.
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Jan 14 2005, 07:51 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(souldreamers @ Jan 13 2005, 4:31 PM) well you can always be her friend right? That's a good way to get to know someone. Is she already your friend? Because some of the greatest relationships bloom from friendships. agree!!! l love someone but she love someone else but that doesn't mean that we cant be friends. l am happy being her friend coz l can express my love for her through friendship. lf her boyfriend broke her heart, l will be there for her no matter what and wait for the moment that she fall for me, love me for what l am and where l came from. l dont want to force her to fall for me, l want her to fall for me naturally |
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Jan 14 2005, 02:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,584 |
wait her out. DONT MOVE IN! when you think about doing that, put yourself in the doods place, how would you feel if somebody moved in on YOUR girl. thats pretty close to the worst ever...
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Jan 14 2005, 02:56 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
u kill the other guy and be her boyfriend
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Jan 14 2005, 04:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,428 |
QUOTE(broken_lance @ Jan 14 2005, 4:51 AM) agree!!! l love someone but she love someone else but that doesn't mean that we cant be friends. l am happy being her friend coz l can express my love for her through friendship. lf her boyfriend broke her heart, l will be there for her no matter what and wait for the moment that she fall for me, love me for what l am and where l came from. l dont want to force her to fall for me, l want her to fall for me naturally disagreed... once you become best friends, it's almost hard to take the relationship to another level. It's like dating your brother or sister. It's good to be friends in the beginning, but if you want to date the girl / boy, make sure that you express your feelings soon and don't make become friends for too long... this is the most common mistakes made by guys... for many, they'd rather keep the best friend than "risk" the relationship. |
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Jan 14 2005, 05:09 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols maybe you should look for someone else...cuz you know she might be madd serious with her bf..you never know...so dont just sit there and wait for her...what if another speshal someone passes you by while your still waiting?
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Jan 14 2005, 09:52 PM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
u cant do anything.
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Jan 14 2005, 10:12 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(im2tall @ Jan 14 2005, 1:54 PM) disagreed... once you become best friends, it's almost hard to take the relationship to another level. It's like dating your brother or sister. It's good to be friends in the beginning, but if you want to date the girl / boy, make sure that you express your feelings soon and don't make become friends for too long... this is the most common mistakes made by guys... for many, they'd rather keep the best friend than "risk" the relationship. That's true. I know someone who liked a girl who was his friend.. and he never wanted to take their friendship a step further.. He was too scared that things might be awkward, that if she rejected him, their friendship might end. It's a risky situation. Sure, getting to know someone better is good and all, but it really depends. I concur with the "make sure you express your feelings soon" because if you tell the guy/girl "I want to get to know you better, I really like you," then it would be a good way to start out a relationship.. through friendship first. But anyway, I also agree with Seon Ho... Maybe you're the guy who she's meant to be with.. you never know.. If you truly care enough to wait for her, then wait. But if you like her a little bit and just want to be in a relationship, maybe you should move on and find someone else. You probably heard of this cliché many times, but I'm going to say it again: "There's plenty of fish in the sea." I LIKE PIE. </end random> |
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Jan 15 2005, 12:58 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think you should do the right thing [back away from the girl] but if you want to be a jerk and have her hate you for it..go ahead and try to break them up..eh, there are many single girls out there...go find one.
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