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 Jan 12 2005, 06:35 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 82,407  |
My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about half a year ago and I still can't let him go. Everywhere I go, SOMETHING reminds me of him. I can't help it. He was my first love. What should I do? I really want to let him go.
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Jan 12 2005, 06:45 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
My suggestion is that you DO move on.. maybe start to like another guy and that will take your mind off of him.
You'll eventually get over it. I know it's hard to get over your first relationship.. but you'll get over it. |
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Jan 12 2005, 06:53 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I can't get over a guy i used to like. well we weren't in a relationship, but at that time we were really really good friends .. and whatever. and now even though i like a new guy im still not exactly over him.
dont worry youll move on, even if it takes awhile |
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Jan 12 2005, 06:56 PM
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First, untie the rope.
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Jan 12 2005, 07:00 PM
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 omw to be an offical member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,817 |
well see everybodys "first" love is hard to let go because thats your FIRST LOVE :) just take it slow and try and let go because thats the best you can do, it sux yes we all know that and im sure we have been threw the samething i know its hard just try your best and let go and take it easy.
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Jan 12 2005, 07:15 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
the time it takes for a person to get over another is different than the time it takes for another..the emotions that one feels are all different from one another...Time will tell when you get over him...
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Jan 12 2005, 08:11 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
i know what you're going through- after my ex and i broke up, i was like that too. but, i found someone else, and my ex is pretty much forgotten. so, i suggest just wait it out, you'll get over him eventually.
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Jan 12 2005, 09:06 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
do other things so you won't have to think of him...like start knitting or something...do something productive, play some sport, go shopping, those kinds of things
 i don't think you should try to get over him by liking another guy...in my opinion that's the worse way to deal with it because what if that relationship fails? you'll do the same thing and bounce around from guy to guy on the rebound or like your first love again? i've been through this kind of thing...
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Jan 12 2005, 09:10 PM
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 wannabe an official member! Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751 |
you just gotta give it time, all your emotions aren't gonna disappear in one day so hang in there!
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Jan 12 2005, 09:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
You gotta' move on. Focus your mind on other boys & your friends, that might take your mind off him for awhile & eventually you'll forget about him.
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Jan 13 2005, 04:45 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
easy peasy, get a second love!
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Jan 13 2005, 05:44 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
find something else to obsess over.
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Jan 13 2005, 11:37 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 12 2005, 9:29 PM) You gotta' move on. Focus your mind on other boys & your friends, that might take your mind off him for awhile & eventually you'll forget about him.  agree, if you do this. you will forget him for a while but you dont have to forget him in order to move on coz his been a part of you already. even how hard you try to forget him or drive him out of your system, the more you got hurt. why dont you just let him stay there. He was your first love right. lt was really hard to forget our first love. l never forget my first love after 6 years have pass, l stil love her. she will always be with me until l die. |
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Jan 13 2005, 12:43 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
slap urself and get a hold of urself :O . Theres a reason why there are such things as a "First Love" , Meaning that there could be a second,third,la la la and a last love lol.... There are billions of people around this world, just keep dating or wait until that special someone comes to u,cant just give up finding someone that makes u happy and feels great after one try. Get over him, find someone new, and start building a bond between u and the new person. ill come back and edit this into a more considerate reply later ><; i r go
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Jan 13 2005, 12:46 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
I think you should try to move on. Maybe go out to a party with some friends, or ask one of your friends to introduce you to some guys. I know how you feel....I broke up with one of my boy friends because we had a long distance thing going, and after I broke up with him, I still had feelings. I just started to talk to guys and stuff, and eventually got over him.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:57 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Time heals everything
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Jan 13 2005, 04:32 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
if u want to move on, then you move on. Just listen to music that DONT remind you of him and dance or somethin. act crazy. thats what I do and I moved on from one serious bf. haha sugar helps too
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Jan 13 2005, 05:10 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
spend more time with your friends [distract u], or try and interest yourself in someone else ;-/
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Jan 13 2005, 07:17 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
try to move on... focus yourself with thing that would keep you busy
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