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leeniex3
post Jan 11 2005, 04:45 PM
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okay meh and my bf have been goin out for 6 months ... this month is goin to be our 7th .. anyways .. we used to talk on da phone every night, talk to each other on aim if we couldnt talk on the fone, lets just say we tried to do a lot of things to be wtih each other .. so now its starting to stop, no more late night calls.. hes always busy playing games or talking to his friends, i dont know what to do .. i mean i just stay quiet because me complainin will make things worse ... i dont know what to do! we got a couple ring and he lost that too ... i dont know T>T help ):
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 04:56 PM
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Well sometimes, it's best to talk to him even if it means stirring up an arguement. A lot of relationships slowly start to lose the cutesy-romantic stuff after a while. Try doing something together that will show each of you how much you really care for each other. Like...try spending the day together somehwere-just the two of you
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 04:58 PM
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thats really hard ... because well .. i dont get to see him a lot .. as much as i want to like other girls do .. and also ill feel bad bc my dads friend's DAUGHTER is now living with me, she just came from korea .. and iono i guess i cant DITCH her?...
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 05:16 PM
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I think you should basically tell him what you told us.
That you're worried about things.

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Good luck.
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 05:16 PM
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talk to him and tell him you really miss what you two used to do last time
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 06:31 PM
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well since you guys been together for so long.. i think you should tell him how you feel. i mean thats part of the relationship; having trust and not being afraid to speak your mind.
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 08:09 PM
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try something new for a change ...since its been so long urrmmm i guess you should spend time together by making a date on a friday lol...try it nd then talk about whats been going on with you two
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 08:11 PM
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Well, to be simple, you're basically screwed.
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 09:19 PM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 11 2005, 5:16 PM)
talk to him and tell him you really miss what you two used to do last time
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yes, be upfront about things...or write him a letter explaing how you feel about all of this and what it was like in the past...

i read in cosmopolitian that it seems like your boyfriend doesn't care because he already has you, in the beginning of the courtship, he had to "woo" you, but now you're already together, guys don't really think that girls need much else
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 09:35 PM
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yeah, talk to him, explain how you feel.
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 10:26 PM
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Tell him what you told us..that you want to know what happened to the late night calls..etc..tell him what happened and if you two can go back to being what you were once in the beginning...this sometimes happens when like after a few months ..lack of interests come in and so you two aren't that close anymore...meh, it'll get better. console.gif
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 10:30 PM
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Maybe he is doing this to you on purpose. It might be a hint that he doesn't want you anymore. Confront it with him, and ask him why he's doing this. Good luck! =]
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 10:32 PM
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u guys dont always have to be mushy mushy together forever etc, 24/7. have ur own lives. Be independent for a while.
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 11:24 PM
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im going through the same exact thing as you are. take my advice and talk to him, tell him how you feel. if only i had done that...
 
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post Jan 11 2005, 11:46 PM
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tell him how you feel. if he understands, then things will work out. if not..then..well..looks like you'll have to break up..
 
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post Jan 12 2005, 12:11 AM
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mhmm....this happens in every relationship...and i'm sorry to say, that everytime it happened to me the guy was either 1)cheating on me 2)about to break up with me or 3)just plain bored with me so we broke up neways. lol and 7 months is a long time...so why don't you just talk to him about it.
 
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post Jan 12 2005, 03:12 AM
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it seems like he's starting not to care...
i mean, loosing a ring that should mean that much???
and.. at least he's hanging with his friends, and not with another girl, right?
 
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post Jan 12 2005, 09:35 PM
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Told him what you told us. You have to work things out with him.
 
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post Jan 12 2005, 09:39 PM
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tell the boy whats on your mind! say your feeling neglected and that if he doesn't want to lose you, he needs to shape up...sing him that grease song

"you better shape up...because i need a man and my heart is set on you...you better shape up, you better understand...."
 
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post Jan 13 2005, 07:18 PM
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i see X: thanks for the comments some were kinda harsh T>T butt lets just say .. things have gotten better ^^v
 
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post Jan 14 2005, 03:17 PM
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dont worry, distance makes the heart grow fonder. (emtional distance in this case, not geographic)
 
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post Jan 14 2005, 05:55 PM
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try to cozy up with him, see how is feeling about you
 
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post Jan 14 2005, 11:35 PM
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QUOTE(travnewmatic @ Jan 14 2005, 3:17 PM)
dont worry, distance makes the heart grow fonder.  (emtional distance in this case, not geographic)
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your right ... the distance does make the heart grow fonder .. because ive seen other couples being with each other TOO much ... but i guess we dont spend TOO much time .. but not really too LITTLE time .. right? hehe well i guess things are going better now .. because i told him about how im feeling ^^v thanks <3
 
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