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te quiero  Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678  |
i'm so tired of people wanting romantic, intimate, loving relationships that always end up in the ground.
i think i'm gonna want my life to be full of fun, no-obligation relationships. happy loving, man. that's the way to do it. the thought of marriage scares me. come to think of it, why in the world am i even thinking about things like this. i don't know. my friends say that it's a sign that i'm irresponsible and reckless.  what do you think?
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Jan 10 2005, 01:18 AM
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Jan 10 2005, 01:20 AM
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^ spammer.
I think those no-obligation-&-no-emotional-attatchment relationships are the best. Too bad I've always gotten to emotionally involved.
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Jan 10 2005, 01:27 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
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i hate getting hurt. |
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Jan 10 2005, 01:34 AM
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 wannabe an official member! Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 751 |
i think getting hurt is inevitable but luckily I haven't found myself in that situation for a while...let me not jinx what I have.
anyway, its okay to think about not wanting to be committed, you're probably still young so i guess, have fun! |
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Jan 10 2005, 03:02 AM
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QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 10 2005, 1:16 AM) i'm so tired of people wanting romantic, intimate, loving relationships that always end up in the ground. i think i'm gonna want my life to be full of fun, no-obligation relationships. happy loving, man. that's the way to do it. the thought of marriage scares me. come to think of it, why in the world am i even thinking about things like this. i don't know. my friends say that it's a sign that i'm irresponsible and reckless. what do you think? I agree with you. I had two very fulfilling relationship in the past four years...but they both fell apart. When you pour so much love affection into a relatioship, it hurts a hell of a lot worse when you get burned that if you're in some relatioship that you're not expecting to really last. In the long run, I don't see myself getting married. Marriage simply isn't that high on my priority list. Now...friends with benefits I can live with... 
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Jan 10 2005, 03:32 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
but if u dont love / has feelings for the person u're having a relationship with, why have a relationship? and yeah.. marriage is about being commited.
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Jan 10 2005, 06:05 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 10 2005, 1:16 AM) the thought of marriage scares me. come to think of it, why in the world am i even thinking about things like this. i don't know. my friends say that it's a sign that i'm irresponsible and reckless. what do you think?i don't think it's a sign that you're irresponsible and reckless, i guess it just shows that you're not ready for such a commitment yet |
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Jan 10 2005, 11:14 AM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 10 2005, 6:05 AM) i don't think it's a sign that you're irresponsible and reckless, i guess it just shows that you're not ready for such a commitment yet Agreed...How old are you anyways? If you are under the age of 20 wth would you be thinking about marriage right now. I was with my ex for 5 year, got engaged, tried on my wedding dress...however once we were looking at invitations he left me...I was 19. Bastard. However now I am in a great relationship, not even mentioning marriage and we a completly happy. like everyone else stated I do not think its because you are irresponsible and reckless, I think your mind is just telling you that you are NOT ready for that type of commitment. Dont rush it! 
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Jan 10 2005, 04:27 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jan 10 2005, 10:14 AM) Agreed...How old are you anyways? If you are under the age of 20 wth would you be thinking about marriage right now. I was with my ex for 5 year, got engaged, tried on my wedding dress...however once we were looking at invitations he left me...I was 19. Bastard. However now I am in a great relationship, not even mentioning marriage and we a completly happy. like everyone else stated I do not think its because you are irresponsible and reckless, I think your mind is just telling you that you are NOT ready for that type of commitment. Dont rush it! actually i don't "think" about marriage. just casually, when talking about things and if relationships ever come up, i'm like "i'm not getting married". the same way people say when they're young "i'm never having kids" or "i'm gonna be a millionare when i'm an adult". it's not a really serious thought yknow. |
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Jan 10 2005, 04:54 PM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
im just having fun now, when im 20 or so i will hope to have a serious relationship. right now i know trying to get serious wont work
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Jan 10 2005, 05:30 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah. I agree.
I'm going to start to get a bit more serious by college, or so.. I guess. 
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Jan 10 2005, 08:07 PM
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yehh its all about keeping a promise for the rest of your life!1 i dont think i can do that!..but its worth a try if i get marride!!
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Jan 10 2005, 08:29 PM
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 Afflicted: Hurt. Group: Member Posts: 443 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,295 |
Isn't that a one night stand? IDk. i just want to enjoy it.
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Jan 10 2005, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(bad_girl @ Jan 10 2005, 3:32 AM) but if u dont love / has feelings for the person u're having a relationship with, why have a relationship? and yeah.. marriage is about being commited. yep...agree with her... yeah, i admit, its nice having "attention" but if you dont WANT it to last...then DONT DO IT! |
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Jan 10 2005, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(Despise @ Jan 10 2005, 5:30 PM) Yeah. I agree. I'm going to start to get a bit more serious by college, or so.. I guess. College is the wrong time to be getting a bit more serious, at least in my opinion. There are waaay too many options in college, besides you'll still be young. College is a time to have fun and test the waters. But yeah, I don't see myself getting married right now. I'm almost 19, that's a bit young to be thinking long term, relationship-wise. |
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Jan 10 2005, 09:08 PM
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 Dance Monkey. Dance. Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,002 |
i think i'm literally incapable of having a love-free relationship of any kind. seriously, i tried it. i fell hard. its not cool! i'm a bit of commitment freak i think
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Jan 10 2005, 09:14 PM
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happy sex? o ya melissa
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Jan 10 2005, 09:24 PM
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i don't know.. i guess you have your points but ierno im a hopeless romantic.. ahhh noo your boogling my mind!
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Jan 10 2005, 10:13 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE([X]poised @ Jan 10 2005, 1:27 AM) =/ i hate getting hurt. you can't prevent yourself from getting hurt...you'll eventually get sick of the one night stands and miss having someone who truly loves you...like on valentine's day... i'm only 16 but i have a loving relationship with my boyfriend, i wouldn't want to trade that in for a few guys i won't see again... |
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Jan 10 2005, 10:40 PM
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Like most of the people...I agree with what you say...non committed relationships are way easier than committed one. You don't expect it to last so if it does end, you wont be in such a bad situation. Meh, single and noncommittal is the way to be.
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Jan 10 2005, 10:42 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Jan 10 2005, 8:14 PM) happy sex? o ya melissa yep, mercedes. CAREFREE, NO-OBLIGATION, HAPPY SEX. |
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Jan 10 2005, 10:48 PM
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Don't get married until YOU think your ready & don't have sex 'til YOU think your ready. simple as that.
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Jan 10 2005, 11:01 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Watch out for the STD's.
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Jan 10 2005, 11:53 PM
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BOOTY CALL!
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Jan 11 2005, 12:26 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(AzNbUbZ @ Jan 10 2005, 10:53 PM) BOOTY CALL! haha. it seems like only a few people are taking this like i was taking this. this wasn't meant to be a serious-sounding topic, guys. |
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Jan 11 2005, 01:15 PM
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i just hate the THOUGHt of even getting hurt/...
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Jan 11 2005, 06:29 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i think that thinking about marriage is alright. you might be a little young but if you want to settle down, that is your choice. as for the sex part, do it for fun!
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Jan 12 2005, 12:24 AM
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hate to bust your bubble, but having those non-obligational romances or whatever hurt you even more. plus, you should face this marriage and love thing. don't be scared of it and run to the nearest bed (that happens to have a guy in it) lol...just chill and be patient...
getting hurt in relationships is inevitable. but stop being a baby and being scared of being hurt again. Cuz it will just make life even worse for you. trust me, i've been in your place and it's not fun |
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Jan 12 2005, 04:33 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Jan 11 2005, 11:24 PM) hate to bust your bubble, but having those non-obligational romances or whatever hurt you even more. plus, you should face this marriage and love thing. don't be scared of it and run to the nearest bed (that happens to have a guy in it) lol...just chill and be patient... getting hurt in relationships is inevitable. but stop being a baby and being scared of being hurt again. Cuz it will just make life even worse for you. trust me, i've been in your place and it's not fun um... i don't really lean towards serious relationships and non of of my non-obligation "romances" have ever hurt me. most of the time, we still end up friends. i've only been emotionally hurt once, but that was a year ago and i'm over it. i seriously don't view love and guys as any big part of my life, so it's not like i'm "scared" of it.. like you're saying. |
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Jan 12 2005, 04:50 PM
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QUOTE(emptyminded @ Jan 10 2005, 8:29 PM) Isn't that a one night stand? IDk. i just want to enjoy it. ehhhhhhhhhhhhh? well i'm 22 now and i remember when i was 16,17,and 18 it's hard to hold something so great when your still in high school. the besti can tell you is dont worry so much about the relationship because i know how hard it is to manage that school and a little crummy job it's hard to balance those things all at once and it get's streeful and you goto that person for comfert and it makes things better but trust me wait till u start to goto college things slow down a bit so you have a bit more time to deal with someone else in your life :) take it slow... |
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Jan 12 2005, 04:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
It starts at such a young age nowadays....one of my friends, she's a freshman, she is already "engaged" at 14. It's kinda funny that she thinks they'll still be together..but who knows? I'd rather just casually date someone. Nothing serious!
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Jan 12 2005, 09:42 PM
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QUOTE(burnoveride @ Jan 12 2005, 2:50 PM) well i'm 22 now and i remember when i was 16,17,and 18 it's hard to hold something so great when your still in high school. the besti can tell you is dont worry so much about the relationship because i know how hard it is to manage that school and a little crummy job it's hard to balance those things all at once and it get's streeful and you goto that person for comfert and it makes things better but trust me wait till u start to goto college things slow down a bit so you have a bit more time to deal with someone else in your life :) take it slow... i couldnt agree with you more...i feel bad for those kids who are in highschool relationships that take over their lives...  dont you want to experience different people?!
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Jan 12 2005, 10:26 PM
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well not everyone is into marriage. dont be forced into somethin u dont want but dont hurt anyone be straightforward
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Jan 12 2005, 11:03 PM
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I think it's just not time yet.
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Jan 13 2005, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE I think those no-obligation-&-no-emotional-attatchment relationships are the best. Too bad I've always gotten to emotionally involved. So it's kind of like friends with benifit. Hmm. if i wanted to go into a relationship, i would want it to be serious. |
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Jan 13 2005, 08:19 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I have those all the time... But, in the end it seems that someone always gets hurt... *shurgs sholders* dont know why! hehe
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Jan 13 2005, 08:53 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
^^Maybe to you it's a fling, but to the girl it's not?
I did have a fling once. The result was Geena.
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Jan 13 2005, 08:57 AM
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I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
^^ Sowee I dont mean to do it...
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Jan 13 2005, 07:04 PM
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have fun for now.. *cough* F?ck buddies*cough*
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