WHAT DO I DO!!!!!, I have never felt this way before |
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 Mar 20 2004, 12:14 PM
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 I run this town.  Group: Member Posts: 582 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,867  |
Ok Ok...Yes what you are about to read is shockingly true but Tal_Dara does have some strong feelings for a significant other. I need some advice though as to how to approach my situation, so please guys I am desperate for some help.
Well I have been friends with this girl now for a little while and it seems that the more and more we get to know one another I realize that "Wow!!! This girl is something that is totally amazing and perfect for me." We have so much in common and I can tell her anything without her being judgemental about it. Its like I have this feeling inside my chest all the time that makes my heart want to leap out when ever we talk or when ever she is around. Even in times when I have felt so distant from her I have never felt so much closer to someone. Whenever I see her I just melt.   Hmm...The only problem is this, I don't want to end a good thing that we have going on right now. We talk and laugh so much that I do not want those times to end as well. Its like if I tell her how I feel she might be sort of weirded out by it or it will change the way how our friendship already is and we will never talk the same ever again. I rarely have feelings like this for someone and it feels really good, but at the same time it hurts because this person will never know how I actually feel  . Like I said this is so complicated I don't know what to do. I would love to get some feedback though and see what you guys think over here. I appreciate it, and you guys are all the best. |
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Mar 20 2004, 01:02 PM
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 woady woady Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,376 |
thats exactly the same situation my friend is in rite now, except theyve been best friends and he told her that he likes her, and now they dont talk at all. like at all, so what I would suggest is for u to find out how she feels about u via her best friend/friends or maybe just tell her, but i dont no if ur gonna b in the same situation as my friend is in rite now. or maybe just dont tell her at all until u become really close and u r seeing signs that she likes u. good luck!
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Mar 20 2004, 02:17 PM
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 that girl is poison. Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,511 |
i think i've found a non-assical guy! lol. thatz so cute~ i totally understand what ur feeling but i would tell her. if she's really how you described i think she'll understand if doesn't like you. i might be kinda wierd in the beginning but it'll turn out okay~ ^^. and if she likes you then it all good right? hahha 
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Mar 20 2004, 02:55 PM
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 Spaz Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,376 |
I went thro the same thing when my boy friend and I were talking about getting together cuz we had been Such good friends before and didnt know how things might change after our relationship changed. But in the end, we have only gotten closer. I think you should start hinting things to her to let her know you're interested, and if the reaction is positive, then talk to her about maybe seeing eachother in a romantic way. You have to at least have some communication going so you have a chance
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Mar 20 2004, 02:58 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Ask her best friend who she has feelings for. If it's you, then you got lucky. If it ain't you, then there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Or you can just tell her, I don't think she'll be weirded out or anything! |
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Mar 20 2004, 04:04 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
awwww i understand how you feel .. butsometimes you have to take chances .. you never know .. she may have the same feelings for you .. casually bring it up one day about your feelings and see what happens .. i'm sure it'll turn out okay .. good luck!!
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Mar 20 2004, 06:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,174 |
yep...im in this situation too only...i'm a grl and i i'm talkin to a guy...so...yeah...anyway, i'm not gonna say anything just DONT TELL HER ONLINE!!!...thats the worst thing u can do...
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Mar 20 2004, 08:36 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
hmm... is she the type that would like you back?
 goota see that first. aww... dasss sooo adorable tho how you care for her so much.  if ur that caring to her, im shure she wont be able to reject... so just try asking her. if your afraid, ask her best frend to like ask her if she would go out with you in a normal convo so she wont get suspicicous. well good luck!!!
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