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 Jan 2 2005, 05:34 PM
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 SHUT UP, FIG NUTS!  Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,161  |
In June last summer my mom kicked me out.. and I had to stay with my friend for a while.. But evetually moved in with my dad in Florida (im from ohio). Since she forced me to move, it messed with a lot of people in my life and even changed how I act now. I dont have a relationship with her, I dont call her (she doesnt call me either).. We have no relationship. I feel really bad that we dont even try to work this out (we have once but she messed it up and put all the problems on me).. Basically, since it's been a LONG time since, I was wondering if I should give into my pride and be the bigger person or just let it be since she isnt trying either? I dont know and im clueless because im still angry with her for kicking me out. what to do to fix this?
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Jan 2 2005, 07:28 PM
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Go to her house, bring her flowers & talk to her. Tell her that you miss her & tell her your feelings.
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Jan 2 2005, 07:29 PM
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If it didn't work the first time, what makes you think it'll work this time?
- Solipsist |
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Jan 2 2005, 07:36 PM
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SHUT UP, FIG NUTS! Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,161 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 2 2005, 7:28 PM) Go to her house, bring her flowers & talk to her. Tell her that you miss her & tell her your feelings.  ...she lives in Ohio and I live in Florida now... that idea would be hard ^-^ |
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Jan 2 2005, 07:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
well, call her up, write her a LONG letter.
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Jan 2 2005, 08:51 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you already gave it a chance, it's her problem for being stubborn...let it go and move on with your life, just because she's your mom doesn't mean you have to apologize and make everything perfect, some things are unforgivable
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Jan 2 2005, 10:05 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you already tried, what do you think this time is different, well you could probably give it another shot.
good luck |
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Jan 2 2005, 10:05 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
order her flowers to be delivered at her door..and then with it send a note..It'd be great if this note was a long letter saying that you're sorry for being a jerk and upsetting her..that it was all your fault and that you hope that she'll forgive you..
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