sex help, .... Options

[krzykhmaigrl]

well for new years eve i had sex but now im afraid that i mite get pregnant...i used a condomn...but im still scared...i heard that u cant get pregnant until 12 days after ur period...but im not sure ...please help...

[*Solipsist*]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

[imm]

This is a fairly amusing topic considering that what you write here is supposed to be PG-13.

Anywhoo, you made the choice to have sex, right?

[ghjgfkgfk]

morning after pill.

[Skyline Drive]

If you used a condom you should be alright.

It was your choice to have sex, so if you get pregnant...

that's your fault. Sex isn't something to mess with.

I agree with Airam get the morning after pill.

THE END.

[Mireh]

...HOW old are you?

[mouse_3k]

what amuzes me is tht it says u were born on 1990...such a young girl to have sex now.


Lets just say tht if you get pregnant, then its what u deserve for having sex. Besides, u chose to have sex so if you get pregnant, dont be complaining..

[miss barnes]

chill out...i doubt u are..i have physic abilities

[Skyline Drive]

what amuzes me is tht it says u were born on 1990

Damn she was born in 1990 ?

Just proves that my theory about people born in 1990 and after
are a bunch of crackies.

In exception of a few.. those are the lucky ones.

[yeseulx3]

well for new years eve i had sexy but now im afraid that i mite get pregnant...i used a condomn...but im still scared...i heard that u cant get pregnant until 12 after after ur period...but im not sure ...please help...

you've had sexy...?
hmm.
but if you don't have your period, i don't think you can get pregnant...

[lilphoenix]

you chosed to do it,

so it's your responsibility.


tsk, tsk... so young.

[mouse_3k]

but if you don't have your period, i don't think you can get pregnant...

if you didnt have your period, u can still get pregnant.

[*x____duckii*]

what amuzes me is tht it says u were born on 1990...such a young girl to have sex now.
Lets just say tht if you get pregnant, then its what u deserve for having sex. Besides, u chose to have sex so if you get pregnant, dont be complaining..

I agree. You shouldn't be having sex on this age yet and sex isn't something to fool around with. If you get pregnant, then you deserve it because you chose to have sex.

[Euphoria Rose]

what amuzes me is tht it says u were born on 1990

You were born in 1990 and you had sex. What a young age.

It's your fault you had sex. You chose to do it. Take the responsiblities if you did become pregnant.

[weirdness]

wow 1990.
cha. if u get pregnant its ur fault that u decided to have sexy

[aznxdreamer]

your choice that you did it. your fault if you get pregnate.

[Comptine]

besides from the fact that you had underaged sex (which is illegal), you're scared now, after you decided to have sex. can't help you much hun but pray for the best.

[Mireh]

Damn she was born in 1990 ?

Just proves that my theory about people born in 1990 and after
are a bunch of crackies. 

In exception of a few.. those are the lucky ones.

i hope i'm one of the 'lucky' ones.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

dude. its called SEX. not sexy. wtf.

You wont find out your pregnant the day after. Use the Morning after pill just in case.

And get a spell checker. It may help your disabilities.

[leeniex3]

t.t woww kids these dais are doing it young!!!! althouh .. im also a 9o O_o i guess then they wont be kids to be .. ne waiz its yur fault if yu get pregnant t.t if yu used a condomn yall shuld be safe t.t

[Angel_Cece]

wow. how old are you? and u should check at the doctor..... i dont know..........................edit- OMG ur 14? I WENT TO UR SITE.... okay well then.. w.e

[177emories]

you used a condom!? then you wont be pregnent :P did you feel anything go inside you? besides the thing of course hahaha and unless the condom had a hold in it your fine... and i don't think its after 12 days thing i think it can be any day... it just the chnaces are higher after 12 days..

[lilJdawg]

WOW. you had sex in such an early age. You chose to have sex. so, if you get pregunate, it's your fault. good luck.

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

since u used a condom, u shouldnt worry ( i think) but if it broke, then just wait and see what's gonna happen and i heard that ur period stops when ur pregnant

[KissMe2408]

eh, well if you did have sex then it's always a risk, whether you used a condom or not, cuz they're only like 97% effective or whatever...but i mean i wouldn't freak out about it or nething. Ur probably not pregnent, but u might wanna take a test just incase, or take one of those morning after pills.

[ichiban]

ahahaha. okay .. well ..
if you used a condom you should be fine? i dunno.

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

dont forget that we're here for u though!

[lovescream]

Go to the doctors.
Wait 9 months. In fact, wait 5 months and see if you got fatter.

[i_liek_sushi]

1. Stupid question.

2. You're not old enough to have sex.

3. You can become pregnant AND use a comdom?

4. No.

[pikimoo]

1. Stupid question.

2. You're not old enough to have sex.  

3. You can become pregnant AND use a comdom?

4. No.

The answer to #3: Yes.

But.. I'm wondering.. who did you do it with?

[jr0h]

how old are you? you sound like youre not even 12 yet. WOW?

i didnt even know girls wear condoms.

you made the choice. you deserve the disappointment when you get pregnant

[rOckThISshYt]

ooo.. that can be a bit of an issue, huh? well, i thought i was pregnant once, but it wasn't really my fault. (i don't mean rape. it's a long story. don't ask.) but that's just cuz i got my period late. but you should get one of those birth tester things. they're not always 100% accurate, but yeah....

by the way... how old are you? don't worry, i won't judge you. i had sex for the first time when i was 11. (don't ask again. i swore to myself i wouldn't do that agin till i'm 15.)

[Comptine]

yeah... there are girl condoms. it's shaped like a regular condom but it a bit bigger. you slip it up the vagina. but it's not very effective. it breaks easier.

[ghjgfkgfk]

don't preach guys. she's asking for help, not if you think she made the right choice, stfu.

[*Kathleen*]

YOU'RE GOING TO BURN IN HELL!

[ComradeRed]

Pretty much, yeah.

[xGlovex]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

HAHA!! I Agree

[Angel_Cece]

good luck

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

LMAO i'm sorry. it was just so funny. well you'll see and see the consquences

[XaZnX07]

wow the girl just needs some advice i mean the least you could do is help her createblog is supppose to be a helping community so dont be so hard on her

you probably not pregnant if you are no where near having your period so take it easy


.:tonY:.

[BoyCrazyGal]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

HOLY COW!! ROFLMAOROFLMAOROFLMAO!! that was really funny!!! hahah!!

ohkay...seriously now... uhm....it was ur choice! n' u deserve what u get!! n' if u get pregnent...then i guess that's what u deserve for having sex & only being born IN 1990!! jeez!! kids these days!!

[DittotoAnne18]

besides from the fact that you had underaged sex (which is illegal), you're scared now, after you decided to have sex. can't help you much hun but pray for the best.

She didnt have underaged sex..
Did she ever say the guy was over 18?

But anyways, I'm not going to tell you you shouldnt have been having sex in the first place because i dont know you, therefore i have no right to say what you should and shouldnt have been doing.

And for all you people that are giving her a hard time, she obviously needs help, thats why she asked.

If i were you i would just take a pregnantcy test.

If you are pregnant..there are a few options:
-morning after pill (it might be too late for that though)
-abortion
-adoption
-keep the baby

[AJ14]

dude seriously, all i hear is people telling her shes too young and its her own fault. shes not asking for sympathy shes asking for advice, maybe a morning after pill would do, probly ok advice. honestly though, im sure she realizes it was a mistake i highly doubt shes stupid, but telling her shes stupid for having sex at a young age just seems pointless, she knows it was a mistake. my advice, ya you should get tested, but talk to someone you feel comfortable with, probly best if that persons an adult but they dont have to be. thats my suggestion. but even if you are pregnant, be responsible for it abnd have the baby, if you put it up for adoption thats your choice but still, my mom had me when she was 14 now im 16 and doing pretty good and i was adopted.

[you suck]

shes young, yes, and i have to admit that was STUPID. but u know she doesnt need to be scolded wenn shes OBVIOUSLY scared. so u know just relax, theres probably nothin 2 worry about if u used a condom, and if u are pregnant well then u decide what u wanna do but the outcome is ultimately up to you.
good luck and next time lay off the sex or use the pill with the condom.

[nyctophiliac]

umm you're a little young to be having sex don't you think? I hope you do get pregnant cuz you're fcuking 14 years old!

[mouse_3k]

i had sex for the first time when i was 11. (don't ask again. i swore to myself i wouldn't do that agin till i'm 15.)

uhhh...ok i wont ask..

NE who, either check urself now or just w/e..alot of little young'ns be havin sex nowadays..hey as long as you didnt have sex because u thought it was "cool" or tryin to be a slut or somethin, i guess i can congratulate you for tht?

^for kids born in 1990 or later tht had sex..yall disappoint me NE wayz..

don't preach guys. she's asking for help, not if you think she made the right choice, stfu.

well, we are givin her help too. it would have been better if she came to use before she had sex to see if she should think bout it or somethin but now tht she already did it, there aint nothin we can do. we cant just cut her open and take out her egg or somethin chill.

[Comptine]

She didnt have underaged sex..
Did she ever say the guy was over 18?

Underaged sex is when two people under the age of 16 have sex. When someone is over 18 and has sex with someone whose a minor it's viewed as statutory rape, even if consensual.

I don't want to add to her worries but it's possible for a girl to get pregnant even during her period. Oh the woes of being a girl.

So right now the best she can do is pray for the best. After morning pills work and are available over the counter to minors without parental consent. But it depends on where you are from.

i don't want to sound harsh but i've seen too many girls regret having sex too early. this is something that can be life altering and she didn't put too much thought into it.

[heyyfrankie]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

take ^her^ advice.

[audory]

Yeah, take the morning after pill,and then take the test thing. You're fourteen? mm. okay well, it was your choice. deal.

[crazeegirl411]

umm you're a little young to be having sex don't you think? I hope you do get pregnant cuz you're fcuking 14 years old!

What did she ever do to you? Just because she made that choice (I'm not going to judge whether it's "right" or "wrong") doesn't mean you can just curse her like that. If you think she's so "WRONG," then she already suffered the consequences, because she's scared. Immature.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

how is underaged sex illegal?

[*Solipsist*]

take ^her^ advice.

What the hell ever gave you the idea that I was a chick?
...
You're lucky I promised nuna I'd be good.

- Solipsist

[bad_girl]

trust the condom.

[Shattered_Hope]

It's really young for you to be having sex..but if you don't get your period this month...don't do anything stupid....becuz you're still young and sometimes the schedule will skip a month or be really really late. Don't wry so much. But yea..there's always a chance for you to be pregnant..you knew what you were getting yourself into....so if you are there's no blaming anyone..live up to the consequences that befall your actions. Meh, grow up and worry less. There are many solutions even if you are pregnant.

[candiceness]

how is underaged sex illegal?

i agree. i think it really depends where you LIVE first of all..i never heard of the "underage sex" law..i've heard of 18 year olds getting arrested for having sex with minors but theres no such thing as an "underage sex" law.

1. Stupid question.

2. You're not old enough to have sex.  

3. You can become pregnant AND use a comdom?

4. No.

1. its not a stupid question cus the girl just needs help. if you dont know or can't help then just dont reply.

2. don't judge her by her age. if she thinks shes ready for it then let her make her own decisions. you dont even know the girl so dont tell her shes not ready.

3. and yeah you can become pregnant and use a condom. there are such things as condom breakage or slippage.

5. yeah.



+++++++++++++++++

all you people responding with

"omg 14 year olds are stupid these days having sex your all dumb blah blah its your fault your pregnant i hope you do get pregnant cus your stupid blah blah what are you thinking your too young bla blah"

seriously, back off of her..my gosh. did she ASK for your opinion of whether or not shes too young? thats not the matter here. she didnt ask for your opinion she just needs some advice here. if you dont have it, or dont wanna give it, dont reply. thats not her main concern..she never said she regrets having sex here. and your replies are actually pretty cruel. back up off of her cus she just has some questions if you cant answer them..dont reply with mean things. thats not something she needs to hear in her state. and if she thought she was ready to have sex then let her think what she wants. and if she does end up pregnant then she'll learn to take responsibility. its not like her entry says "OMG I THINK IM PREGNANT IM SO STUPID HELP!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!"


and, you people act like its nothing thats happening these days. i see 10 - 12 year olds having sex. its not uncommon. i'm not judging and saying its right, but i'm saying you guys make a huge big deal acting like its unheard of. and i'm not saying just cus everyone else does it doesn't make it right. i'm just saying its common, younger people having sex. it may not be right, but its common.



anyway, back to you.
your probably not pregnant if you used a condom. but there may be that chance it broke, but thats highly unlikely if symptoms or anything didnt appear. don't worry about it but if its really getting to you you should buy a pregnacy test. either way, dont go crazy over it. if you do end up pregnant, just remember, it was your choice to do it so i hope your not one of those girls that blame the guy for getting them pregnant. but other then that, dont worry.

[sammehmyst]

If you live in America, too bad Bush is against abortions.

Have a nice day.

[Just_Dream]

well for new years eve i had sex but now im afraid that i mite get pregnant...i used a condomn...but im still scared...i heard that u cant get pregnant until 12 days after ur period...but im not sure ...please help...

That only is true if your period is regular and you know exactly when it would begin... 12 days after your period? YOu can still get pregnant... because I herad an egg drops after a week.. But then again, it really depends on the person. Nothing is for sure.

Take a pregnancy test. Yea I think you are too young to have had sex, but it is your choice. And anyway, condoms are like.. 99.7% (I think) effective.

Back in my freshman year, a lady came to my Physics class and taught us about sex ed. She said that it's illegal to have sex when you're a minor. Usually, the boy that engages in sexual intercourse is penalized. She said that it doesn't matter if the boy and girl are underaged, and if the girl said she WANTED to have sex, it's still considered illegal. I forgot what she said about how the girl is dealt with, but the boy is mainly blamed and would be sent to court and eccentera.
But hey, that's just what the lady who came into my class said. I'm skeptical about it since I've never heard of the law before, nor have I seen the law written anywhere.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

wut ur like 13 or 14 DAMN U YOUNG GURL!! WUT WAS U DOING?? if u get pregent ima laugh at u cuz u aint lisnting ....

jp jp u prob will b aiite if u do hav a baby get abortion

[angel-roh]

I heard that if you used condomns. It's a 99% chance that you won't get pregnant =] But how old are you on asking this kinds of question?

[*mSz_dOrk_anGeL*]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

Rofl
----
Uh, right, so I take it your first time and one night stand.
I don't feel sorry for you.
Use you f**king head.
If you DON'T wanna worry about having a kid, THINK BEFORE YOU f**k!
Jesus.
And your like only 13 -- 14?
Pity what this world has come to.

[islandkiss]

14 years old.

now, you are either seriously desperate and you felt like posting something really random and making something really pathetic up,. or just sexually active and idiotic for having sex at this young age.


you might not be pregnant but condoms don't fully protect you against having stds.

[sammehmyst]

how is underaged sex illegal?

Uh.. the law?

[xnastyninjagrlx]

hmm ok first of all..WTF man???? I hope it wasn't
a much older guy..but anywayzz get the morning after
pill if you want to be extra sure..it's better safe than sorry,
I hope you will consider having sex more carefully
next time..

[megan_x3]

you decided to have sex ... when ur so young . if you had decided to have sex, then you must have been prepared to get pregnate. but since u had used condom . den i guess u would be ok ... i guesss. but its just a chance . just wish and pray for no pregnacy . !!

[bby_cutie]

ur born in 1990 and ur had sex? wow...even i noe better..but neway i dont realli noe much about these things but i suggest u c a doctor

[callie828]

Holy sh*t. You're all so judgmental. It's a little sad the way you need to tool on a 14 year old to feel better about yourselves. Who cares how old she is? What's right for some people isn't always right for everyone. She didn't come in here telling everyone that they should have sex. So why is everyone telling her that she shouldn't have? And she practiced safe sex, she used a condom. So she's smarter than a lot of people my age (early twenties) who don't use any protection at all.

Either she made this up for attention, which is sad and you should feel sorry for how pathetic she is, or she is nervous and regretting a decision she made, which clearly shows that she knows it wasn't the smartest decision for her and that's also sad and you should try to sympathize with her situation. Like any of you have never done something and regretted it before. She deserves to get pregnant? Come on. That's just plain stupid. Ooooo sex is bad, don't ever have it! You'll be punished! *eye rollage* Like everyone who has sex deserves to end up with an unplanned pregnancy. Uhhh, NO. Glad you're all so perfect though.

Anyway, I hope that, for your sake, you're not pregnant. Try not to worry too much, but if it still ends up stressing you out, confide in someone and then make sure you go to a doctor and have it checked out. Good luck.


Callie

[*AngelicEyz00*]

Uh.. the law?

where does it state that?

[DittotoAnne18]

how is underaged sex illegal?

i know, exactly what im thinking?

[mouse_3k]

Its not a underaged sex law. its basically called Satitory Rape (sp?) nowadays. u know..when a person over age of 18 have sex and stuff with someone under age of 18..yah..satitory rape..i think?


For all those people saying *stop being so mean blah blah blah*, well its the truth, u shouldnt really be having sex at tht age NE ways so whatever. my opinion is tht if you get pregnant and ur 14, then thts YOUR fault. dont be complaining and all since u basically asked for it so back off of me and the other people thinkin sex at age 14 is wrong. i actually care and if it means being strong with my opinions about sex at a young age to get them sum sense, then ill doin it.

To sum it up, dont be sayin *stop saying sex at 14 is bad* to me cause ill say my opinion is i please.

[ghjgfkgfk]

well, we are givin her help too. it would have been better if she came to use before she had sex to see if she should think bout it or somethin but now tht she already did it, there aint nothin we can do. we cant just cut her open and take out her egg or somethin chill.

[i'm not directing this all at you]

this topic pisses me off. more so the replies.

you're not giving any help but making her feel guilty and regreting it even more. don't say crap like, "OMG. HOW CULD U DO DAT!!!!?? DA IZ S0 STOODPID. YOU SHOULDNT OF HAVE D0NE IT!!!!!!!!11`".
no, you have live with it whether you like it not and people have make the best out of their choices. you can't change it. you can't change society.

so what if she made a "mistake". who the hell hasn't?
when you make mistakes you learned something. maybe she'll get pregnat (which i kind of doubt) maybe she won't. she'll learn to deal with whatever has/will happened. because that's life. don't like it? boo hoo. go die. i'm sorry if one person isn't like you or doesn't agree with you but that doesn't mean they have to do what YOU wanted them too. that's stupid. that's not life.

the only way you or every other person here can help is if they answered what she wanted to know. most people here didn't. they just had to push in their damn morals and narrow minded opinions. it was HER choice. she can do she wants. people are goign to have sex anyway and it doesn't matter if it's their first time is "pErFeCt aFtEr yOu gEt MaRrIeD" like the way (or the way your sex ed teacher wants you to do) everyone wants their first time to be.

oh no. not sex! i thought i was going to die a virgin, really!!

[candiceness]

Its not a underaged sex law. its basically called Satitory Rape (sp?) nowadays. u know..when a person over age of 18 have sex and stuff with someone under age of 18..yah..satitory rape..i think?
For all those people saying *stop being so mean blah blah blah*, well its the truth, u shouldnt really be having sex at tht age NE ways so whatever. my opinion is tht if you get pregnant and ur 14, then thts YOUR fault. dont be complaining and all since u basically asked for it so back off of me and the other people thinkin sex at age 14 is wrong. i actually care and if it means being strong with my opinions about sex at a young age to get them sum sense, then ill doin it.

To sum it up, dont be sayin  *stop saying sex at 14 is bad* to me cause ill say my opinion is i please.

she never said it wasnt her fault. if she gets pregnant, then it is her fault for having sex. but like i said, no one asked for anyone elses opinion. she just asked what she would do. never did she say she didn't make a mistake. if she gets pregnant, it is her fault. end of story. she never said it wasn't her fault. and you know what? the truth is mean. but who knows if she really is pregnant or not. if you cant help her with her question then theres no point in replying in this topic. she doesn't need to hear you guys all lecture her telling her shes too young and that she deserves to get pregnant. she never complained, she asked for HELP. she's scared. she never said it wasn't her fault. theres no rule saying
"NO YOU CAN"T HAVE SEX AT 14" if she had sex at age 14 then let her. its just the consequences of her actions that are going to decide that it was her fault. i know alot of young people that had sex at age 12. You people act like its a HUGE deal these days. i know 10 year olds that had sex. its not uncommon. im not going to judge about it and say "YOUR TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX" because number one, its not like you guys know her. you people dont know if she was ready or not. if she thinks shes ready then she'll do it. im not saying i think sex at 14 is wrong or right. i'm keeping my opinion to myself. but don't judge her and go crazy saying OMG YOUR SO STUPID YOU DESERVE TO GET PREGNANT CUS UR DUMB CUS U HAD SEX. come on now. you dont even know if shes pregnant yet. if shes pregnant, then its her fault. but like i said, she never complained or said it wasnt.

[lyin_in_wait]

psstt.....you can still get pregnant even though your on your rag (<--technical term ) well since you used a condom, you may not be but then again something could have slipped...just wait untill your suppose to get your period and if you get it, your not pregnant

[LuvlyGreenEnvy91]

wow.....very young to have sex...but its your choice

[mouse_3k]

yah well ok its her choice but if she is frightened and all, then she should have thought about it before she had sex.

OK GUYS LETS ALL HAVE SEX WHEN WE ARE 12!!! uhh..no..

no one asked for anyone elses opinion.

oh well, we all decided to give it so why not. besides, she should have saw this coming NE wayz. i mean, isnt about 95% of little kids tht has sex going to have a bad rep at school sooo she should have thought about what people will think about her too before she had sex.

[lovescream]

Damn you all.

I'm 11. Not a virgin. No condom. Not pregnant.
That guy who did me was the one who gave me my period so the sperm did nothing because I never have gotten my period at that time.

Go to doctors, dammit.

[asiu1990]

yes it is young... take the "good ppl's" advice, chill and wait... hopefully you will be fine... (instead of sex, you could have masturbated :-/)

[booger butt]

holy crap...11?!

I thought 15/16 was young when we did "it".

But don't stress, if you were protected and properly succeeded...then no worries.

Take it day by day.

[apple.]

what amuzes me is tht it says u were born on 1990...such a young girl to have sex now.

oh you should be suprised ho many young ones do it.

[xsweetxcandyx]

dang.. you're the same age as me.... well i widh you luck

[redroses85]

Geez... if your going to have sex... atleast know the facts...
Yes its actually possible to get pregnanty anytime of the month, just some times you are less likely, but i wouldnt rely on that.
Also if your going to be having sex and you REALLY dont want a baby, get on more birth control than a damn condom. Go to the doctor and get on the pill. If your mature enough to be having sex, then you should be mature enough to go to the doctor and get it. After all condoms are not 100% effective and can break, i'd rather use 2 almost perfect methods than one. And finally... if your worried about being pregnant.. go buy a test... $5 walmart! No excuses because im sure everyone can find $5 somewhere.
If you have to... go to planned parenthood to get your pills, but take them correctly. They will adjust how much you pay by how much you make.

[redroses85]

Damn you all.

I'm 11. Not a virgin. No condom. Not pregnant.
That guy who did me was the one who gave me my period so the sperm did nothing because I never have gotten my period at that time.

Go to doctors, dammit.

... guys dont give you your period....

And your able to get pregnant a month before your first period even happens.

[ryfitaDF]

if you didn't have sex then you wouldn't need to worry about anything.

[dOyOOHtHINK]

you've had sexy...?

too bad she said sex and not sexy.. if she had sexy then it would be in her first post.. which it says SEX not SEXY... stop changing peopels words...

but my advice on the sex confused youngin.. stop having sex.. its not to be abused.. i kno its pleasure but there are plenty more other things you can be doing that will give you pleasure w/o a baby being involved... so.. lay off for a while.. you have your whole life ahead of you.. unless you plan on dying anytime soon?

[captured_serenit...]

I doubt you are but good luck in the future.....ok...be careful next time...

[emrzz09]

Before you had sex, you should have asked yourself, "am i willing to risk having a child?"

That's my theory. Don't have sex til you're ready to risk having a baby.

[Nugget]

um ok u shouldnt b havin sex in the first place..ur too young and u shouldnt be doing that..anyways..yea i agree wit everyone else..its ur fault that u had sex in the first place so dont complain about havin a baby..u should atleast have sex wit the opposite sex if u really love them..not if ur just gona break up wit them and u dont love them..and yes again dont mess w/ sex..not a good thing to do...

[candiceness]

um ok u shouldnt b havin sex in the first place..ur too young and u shouldnt be doing that..anyways..yea i agree wit everyone else..its ur fault that u had sex in the first place so dont complain about havin a baby..u should atleast have sex wit the opposite sex if u really love them..not if ur just gona break up wit them and u dont love them..and yes again dont mess w/ sex..not a good thing to do...

you should kinda read what you just wrote here..

"its ur fault that u had sex in the first place so dont complain about havin a baby"

she never said shes gonna have a baby, she doesnt even know if shes pregnant.

u should atleast have sex wit the opposite sex if u really love them..not if ur just gona break up wit them and u dont love them

and second, what do you mean have sex with the opposite sex..? when did she say she had sex with a girl? and she never said she didnt love him and never said she was planning to break up with him either..

[Rachel]

shes not asking for you guys to bitch and moan about her having sex. shes had it okay, you telling her shes a horrible person wont change a thing!


anyways hun, you probably arent pregnant. get tested for STDs/pregnancy, next time use condoms, and go on birth control.

[tynabyna]

man o man most of yall are talking about how shes too young to have sex man you dont even know how many young people are having sex now i mean people are starting to have sex at the age of 10 but yeah i think its from pressure ive had pressure to do it but yeah im glad im still a virgin and its gunna stay that way for a long time any ways if you used a condom you shouldnt be pregnant unless the condom broke and you should know if the condom broke or not and if you arent sure buy one of those test things they are about 20 where i live but yeah if the condom didnt break then your most likley not pregnant.

[toodlepops.]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

wow 1990.
cha. if u get pregnant its ur fault that u decided to have sexy

lmao. sexy??say what?? lmaolmaolmao.
yea, sorry.

if you get pregnant, you have to take full reposibility. coz you were the one who decided to have sexy lmao. i mean, sex.

[xGlovex]

Wait 9 months.
If a baby falls out of you, you're definitely pregnant.


- Solipsist

I cant get over that..its halerious..somewhat.

[vickiwang123]

well, if ure mate used a condom..dat would be ok 4 most of the time, but %95....it's fine but the otha percentage it's dangerous...but im sure if u had a condom dat would be ok...but id still be guilty...

[mouse_3k]

and second, what do you mean have sex with the opposite sex..? when did she say she had sex with a girl? and she never said she didnt love him and never said she was planning to break up with him either..

I think she ment that she should have sex with the guy she's in love with. i think she though that the girl was having sex just because it was new years eve but thts just my opinion

[ilauqh]

wait to see if u get ur period... if u dont, take a pregnancy test.

[topsyturvy]

good grief u people!!

the whole reason she posted this up was to ask for help.. who cares if she's too young? she needs tips, not more criticism. the point is, it happened already so now we gotta figure out what to do next.

those of you that say it's entirely her fault if she gets pregnant.. she knows. that's why she needs our help.

so stop going "oh my god, you're only 14 and you're having sex!! bad girl!!" good lord, big deal, you're only making her feel worse. WE DON'T NEED YOUR THOUGHTS IF THEY DON'T APPLY TO THIS TOPIC. THIS TOPIC IS ENTIRELY HER ASKING FOR HELP AND THAT ONLY.


okay back to you.. i suggest going in for a test. best of luck

[kyuubi319]

Gees, even i know enough to not do that.
Okay, well, if your boyfriend used a condom, then you should be okay. But even if you don't get pregnant, you could still get Syphillis, Gonorrhea, Herpes, other STDs or God forbid, AIDS. Get yourself checked for pregnancy/STDs.
For everyone that's saying that we shouldn't be bitching about her ever having had sex in the first place.. Well I don't know. I see what you're saying but it isn't like she didn't have this coming. Think about it. She's fourteen. She had sex. And she thinks of the consequences now. She really should have thought about this before she did it. I don't mean to lecture you, but really. And if the guy you, excuse the terminology, fcuked and if he's over 16 and you get pregnant.. Well, then you're both screwed. Next time, before you do something like this, think of the consequences and the people who'll be affected.
Good luck with not getting pregnant. God, that sounds stupid.

[topsyturvy]

^

okay look. she knows she made the wrong choice. she made a mistake. who doesn't make mistakes? it's just that her mistake was more serious than ours. so now she's just asking for a wee bit of guidance from us cb-ers, but nooooo, you people decide to lecture her about making the wrong choices. that's the parent's job. we're supposed to be her counsellors(sp?) here. so stop bullshitting about her "sins" and HELP HER OUT HERE.

[mouse_3k]

okay look. she knows she made the wrong choice. she made a mistake. who doesn't make mistakes?

well I wonder whats gunna happen if she is pregnant and ruin her whole life

And if the guy you, excuse the terminology, fcuked and if he's over 16 and you get pregnant.. Well, then you're both screwed.

if the guy is over 16, then I say you should sue him for all his money..hey, at least get a little bit of something outta this whole situation

[topsyturvy]

well I wonder whats gunna happen if she is pregnant and ruin her whole life

lets just consider her very very unlucky then.

by the way, it's not like i'm saying she's making the right decisions, having sex at 14 or anything. it's just that she doesn't need half as much bitching as she's getting right now.

[kyuubi319]

^

okay look.  she knows she made the wrong choice.  she made a mistake.  who doesn't make mistakes?  it's just that her mistake was more serious than ours.  so now she's just asking for a wee bit of guidance from us cb-ers, but nooooo, you people decide to lecture her about making the wrong choices.  that's the parent's job.  we're supposed to be her counsellors(sp?) here.  so stop bullshitting about her "sins" and HELP HER OUT HERE.

You know.. I'm pretty sure I helped her out some in my post:

Okay, well, if your boyfriend used a condom, then you should be okay. But even if you don't get pregnant, you could still get Syphillis, Gonorrhea, Herpes, other STDs or God forbid, AIDS. Get yourself checked for pregnancy/STDs.

Also, I'm not bullshitting about her "sins", as you put it. I'm telling her about the repercussions and consequences. And I personally don't think any of what I said in my post could possible be bullshit, seeing as how they could possibly happen.