holla, to mah ladies!, be yerself, dun let no man control you |
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 dun let yer guard down one bit until yer ready aii ladiez? you shouldn't cuz if you do, you gonna get yer heart broken and you gonna feel sry dat you ever felt that way about him.  ...and dun ferget that a man cant tell you wah to do, how to feel, and how to be in front of him aii? dun let yer guard down until yer absolutely sure cuz den in the end, everything will turn out great, you got yerself a loving man.   ...aii? so holla back form da ladies!!!!
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Mar 18 2004, 06:29 PM
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I personally think it's good when one starts dating at a pretty early age, maybe 8th grade? Or maybe even a little bit longer.. I don't know. They can get an idea of what a relationship is like, or atleast get a sense of it. That way they can get stonger emotionally and mentally and learn important lessons, thus one doesn't make the same mistake twice when they finally meet "the one."
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Mar 18 2004, 07:08 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(cthroughangel @ Mar 18 2004, 4:04 PM) dun let yer guard down one bit until yer ready aii ladiez? you shouldn't cuz if you do, you gonna get yer heart broken and you gonna feel sry dat you ever felt that way about him. ...and dun ferget that a man cant tell you wah to do, how to feel, and how to be in front of him aii? dun let yer guard down until yer absolutely sure cuz den in the end, everything will turn out great, you got yerself a loving man. ...aii? so holla back form da ladies!!!!you can never be too careful. despite all warnings and the situations you constantly see going on around you .. it's never enough for you to be able to avoid the bumps along the way .. everybody will go through them at one point or another .. you'll eventually let your guard down for someone special that'll change how you see things .. but it still may end up not working in the end .. heart break is almost inevitable .. but you shouldn't let it discourage you from future experiences or regret having gone through it .. it's all a part of learning and LIFE. i agree with krnxswat .. it's definitely good to have early exposure because you'll have more room for comparison for future experiences and it helps you mature as time goes by .. |
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Mar 18 2004, 07:14 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
My parents certainly don't agree with krnxswat .. lOL .. but I Do!!
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Mar 18 2004, 07:44 PM
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Well, I don't agree with Krn really, because its sick to see people at school kissing and hugging.. it feels weird and disgusting.
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Mar 18 2004, 07:59 PM
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I agree with krnxswat.
And cthroughangel, you're a good person. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Mar 18 2004, 09:38 PM
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he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Mar 18 2004, 7:44 PM) Well, I don't agree with Krn really, because its sick to see people at school kissing and hugging.. it feels weird and disgusting. i don't really think that's what krn was referrign to at all .. just because you start having experiences with relationship early doesn't mean you should have excessive displays of affection in public .. in general that's not needed in relationships .. you can have your own private time to do what you like behind closed doors .. in public it isn't really right for any one to go all out because it's disrespectful and rude .. holding hands and light kisses on the cheek are always cute to see though :) |
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Mar 18 2004, 10:31 PM
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It's NOT like every couple is making out at school (well some are.. eewww.... too much ><) I mean, silly lil kisses and hugs show affection =) I know that people, especially admins AT SCHOOL and stuff would get really mad about PDA (Public Display of Affection), but some people, they can't help but show thier love. Of course, making out and "fondling the wrong way (as in groping O_o")" is too overboard. I agree with KrnxSwat about beginning in 8th grade because it won't seem like a scary thing NOR will it seem like a big rush when you enter high school. Probably 7th grade sounds like the YOUNGEST, because that's when one would become a teenager. You should get some experience, but not too much.
And it's great to have fun in a relationship, just not giving your heart away yet and NOT giving your virginity away very bad! Good thing I never did that. Sadly, krnxswat has polluted my innocence when he stated that his talent was of "bouncing his boobs" O_o"
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Mar 19 2004, 01:16 AM
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i dont agree with krnxswat... in certains ways.
yea, dating at an early age has its advantages in which you learn more about relationships and the opposite gender... BUT, dating at an early age can have a HUGE influence on your future relationships as well, and if you arent too careful on who you go out with in the begining and how you control urself, how you chose the "man/"gurl", etc, you could might as well lead urself into a bad start which could make you learn the "wrong" ways of dating and break ur heart at an early stage of ur love life... and also, dating at an early age steals ur precious time of being single and flirting with other guys and liking guys in a naive and pure, innocent way... (meaning like "oh he's cute, OMG") those thingys... yea... and you could lose ur bond with frends sometimes if you arent too careful  and another thing, i think to date, you need to reach a certain degree of maturity and understanding. i mean, i made the mistake of dating too soon and i messed up my whole 6th grade year dating several guys which only lasted like 2 weeks each. YEP! dont let ur gaurd down gurls! i agree with that. but also, sometimes you guts to let ur gaurd down or u could end up hurting urself... literally... haha ^^
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Mar 19 2004, 07:15 AM
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QUOTE(xjjajeengx @ Mar 19 2004, 1:16 AM) i think to date, you need to reach a certain degree of maturity and understanding. I think you start to mature and understand through dating. But that's just me. 
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Mar 19 2004, 09:22 AM
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i agree with krnxswat, but thats just me
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Mar 21 2004, 08:18 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
like my 'ate' (where are all my filipinos at?!?!) said...
'jus wait anak...watch and learn...' LOL |
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Mar 21 2004, 08:44 PM
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i agree with seonho in that we need to experience it to see what its really like. for me, it only took one relationship for me to see that high school relationships aren't worth it. that is just my preference.
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Mar 21 2004, 11:03 PM
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witch Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,367 |
just become a nun and then you don't have to worry about it...
lolor a vow of celibacy... |
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