wat do i do?, im way ova my head here Options

[LoST SouL]

like i mentioned in another post, i have a best friend n hes sooooo sweet and a adorable... in another post i mentioned tat i like him n he replyed n sed e does 2.. but c heres my probelm i relly relly like him n im startin 2 flirt wit him a lot.. n like wen i was wit a group of friends n he wasnt there n they were tlkin n everytime his name komes up i get all xacited n happy wich is odd....id like 2 go out wit him but i kant... 1. beacause i have a b/f (as u kan tell from my other post) and 2. beacause hes my best friend n i dun wanna mess up tat relationship wit him... i love bein round him hes soo kool n we get a long n hes relly funny n since i dun wanna mess up our relationship ive been trin 2 supress or hide sorta how i feel 4 him but tass been kinda hard n uncontroallable at lest wen i start 2 flirt wit him.. sumthims i dun even realize im flirtin... so idk wat to do... he knos how i feel bout him but he also knos tat i relly relly relly love bein his friend.. its one of the few thins i akre bout in life... n i wud neva give tat up 4 the world... if u have ne advice comments plzzz tell me mayb itll help me on thins...

[*krnxswat*]

Sometimes you have to risk things in order to get what you want. Well that's what I think. Anyways, tell your boyfriend, break up, do whatever. But don't leave him blindlessly liking you when you don't really like him in return.

[LoST SouL]

tass the thing i love my b/f im jus like my best friend

[*krnxswat*]

tass the thing i love my b/f im jus like my best friend

So you like two people at once?

[LoST SouL]

its confusin i like my best friend n i love being round him n i love my b/f n hes fun 2 b round 2 i guess

[darkestdesire]

but who do you like more? your b/f or your friend?, well i say to go with your own thoughts. Go your own direction...

[Mireh]

Well, first things first. You have to find out who you like mroe - Your F or friend. Then you can take it from there.

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

well if you really like him that much .. you have to see if you'd rather go out with him than your current boyfriend .. if he makes you happy like that it seems to me that it's something better for you since you aren't as happy in your current relationship .. and if you guys started out as best friends it can have it's ups and downs like everything else in the world .. you'll have a lot more in common and it's easy to talk about things .. communication, love, care, and trust is all there and it helps .. if things don't work out later there's always a possibility that the friendship won't feel the same in the future .. so you have to weigh the consequences with the positives and see what is worth it .. good luck!!

[*CEP*]

First of all, and we should get this straightend out, you DONT love your boyfriend if you like some other guy. It's just wrong and impossible.
Now that we've got that out, you should really think about who you like more. But think about it really hard. We don't want anything turning sour now.
Once you made a decision, take the intiative and go for him. You'll never gonna achieve anything by doing nothing.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[wayne]

im not good at descisiuons like this, every1 already knows my story....

[LoST SouL]

First of all, and we should get this straightend out, you DONT love your boyfriend if you like some other guy. It's just wrong and impossible.

you could like sum1 ova n ova again... but u kud neva stop lovin sum1

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

First of all, and we should get this straightend out, you DONT love your boyfriend if you like some other guy. It's just wrong and impossible.
Now that we've got that out, you should really think about who you like more. But think about it really hard. We don't want anything turning sour now.
Once you made a decision, take the intiative and go for him. You'll never gonna achieve anything by doing nothing.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

he makes a very valid point .. stick with your decision and don't look back because you won't get anywhere .. and you definitely don't love your boyfriend as much as you claim if you find yourself liking your best friend this much .. so you should really sort things out for yourself and see what you really want ..

[LoST SouL]

u make a valid point but y do i like my best friend is it kus hes relly relly like sweet and caring or is it kus my relationship w/ my b/f is fallin or do i liek him kus tis is the 1st time in the 15 yrs ive been alive i have sum1 who actually supports me n kares bout me.. or is it all 3?

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

it may very well be a little of everything .. he probably is the one person who knows most about you since he's your best friend .. things aren't going well with your current relationship and so it's a good reason to have feelings for him .. but then that makes you see that you have choices and you have the chance to be happy .. but you have to choose what you want to do .. you can't try to hold both .. it isn't fair to you or either of them .. so you have to figure things out for yourself and see who you'd rather be with .. it's really up to you based on how you feel .. none of us can really tell you who to choose except taht you choose based on what's best for you .. make yourself happy .. stop being depressed and all .. there's so much to experience and you're holding yourself back if you're letting yourself stay confused and not moving anywhere .. hope you choose wisely .. good luck