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 Dec 28 2004, 05:02 AM
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 boo  Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765  |
ok, i have this close relative who doesn't trust in me. i noe that sounds kinda lame but yea. i've tried proving myself to her. but she still treats me like a small baby, a baby who needs help in everything she does. everytime i try to do something for myself, she'll be lyk, make sure its the "right side up". or she'll say sumthin lyk, "maaybe i should ask somebody to look after you, just to check if you're doing it the right way" it just makes me so sad sumtyms to thing that she doesn't trust me. =[ . im 13, for god's sake.
and she doesn't want to talk to me whenever i try to confront her bout this. any ideas or views? |
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Dec 28 2004, 05:55 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Ermm.. maybe she treats you like a kid cause you don't know how to spell...
Hmmm.... If it's really something that concerns you, you should sit her down and be like "Look, we need to have a SERIOUS talk and don't ignore me cause it hurts me. If you care about me, you should listen to what I say and talk to me about it." then tell her what you need to, but if she still does the same things to you, then just tell her your 13 for god's sake and since she doesn't seem to care about/trust you, then tell her to just leave you alone and forget about it. |
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Dec 28 2004, 08:22 AM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
just talk to her. solve it out. dont let be stuck in there.
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| *Weird addiction* |
Dec 28 2004, 08:31 AM
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u have to talk to her,if she trys saying no,just persist! good luck
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Dec 28 2004, 08:47 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
1. talk to her or yell at her???
--talk stuff like, you don't like getting treated like a baby --that you're a grownup (even tho you spell bad..lol) --that you can do everything ok well you know im same as your close relative friend. she's just a worrywart like me. so yeah if you dont like her treating you like a baby, then run away from her..like ignore her--dont talk to her. if you can't do that, then LIVE WITH IT. |
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Dec 28 2004, 08:56 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
talk to her about it
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Dec 28 2004, 09:16 AM
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i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Dec 28 2004, 5:56 AM) talk to her about it yeah that's one of the best solutions... please dont tell me that you're stupid enough to ask this question? i mean the only best solution is to talk to her about that person..  i mean we dont know your close relative.. so yeah.... if i knew your close relative, i can help you lots and give you more advices but yeah.
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Dec 28 2004, 09:26 AM
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 ApunBindaas Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
Yeah just talk to her because she may feel the same about you
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Dec 28 2004, 04:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
sit down & talk to her about it.
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| *stephinika* |
Dec 28 2004, 05:05 PM
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yeah just talk to her. but you don't sound like the most mature person seeing your spelling...but that doesn't really matter. the point is, just talk to her.
and shouldn't this be in relationships? meh. |
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Dec 28 2004, 05:39 PM
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QUOTE -that you're a grownup (even tho you spell bad..lol) hmm, "though" you mean |
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Dec 28 2004, 05:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
well you ARE a child, but just ignore her
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Dec 28 2004, 08:05 PM
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boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
ok, thanx bout the advice. im gonna try. and sorry bout the wrong spelling. =]
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