what happens when you break up?, =\ |
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 Dec 27 2004, 07:12 PM
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what happens to you and your bf/gf when you guys break up? do you still talk to each other, chill as friends, hate each other or ignore each other? just curious =\
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Dec 27 2004, 07:24 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i still talk to my first nd third ex. not much tho. once in a while. as for my second ex we hate each other so we don`t even talk to each other at all even tho we go to the same school. nd i got back with my last ex so of course i talk to him
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Dec 27 2004, 07:42 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
i talk to my ex whenever he's online, but i don't go out of my way to call him like i used to when we were dating. we're still on really good terms.. which is surprising because i took the breakup really badly.
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Dec 27 2004, 07:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
I haven't had an ex but if me and my bf break up I have a feeling we WILL still talk because we were really great friends before we got together
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Dec 27 2004, 09:26 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Well, the first ones never spoke to me again...and most recently, we are still talking. It hurts to only be her friend, but as they say (so cliche) there is someone out there for me.
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Dec 27 2004, 11:00 PM
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 042304<3 Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,231 |
well my ex and i wasnt really on good terms. kinda ignored each other bcuz i guess it was too hard to talk to the other. ehh i dunno..then somehow we got back together and we've been talking like crazyy ever since :)
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Dec 27 2004, 11:20 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It depends on the break-up.
If it was bitter, you probably won't talk. If it was a mutual decision, you two could remain friends. |
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Dec 28 2004, 01:25 AM
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 Turn your lights down low... Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 |
It depends how things happened and why you broke up. With most of my my exs i try to be friends. But its never the same as b4 u went out.
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Dec 28 2004, 01:43 AM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
my ex and i didnt turn out so great. we dont talk anymore. maybe one day we can talk again. its just plum awkward
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Dec 28 2004, 01:51 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
well my last ex hated me for about a month and all of his friends that were my friends stopped talking to me and hanging out with me. but then we talked about it , and how immature it was of us to not talk so now we are friends and talk and all that good stuff.
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Dec 28 2004, 02:15 AM
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i guess it depends on how you break up, y'know? i'm lucky enough that i'm friends with all of my exes (though there are only 3) and its not awkward at all.
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Dec 28 2004, 09:31 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I've never broken up with anyone but,
I think you should be friends with them  The more the merrier.
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Dec 28 2004, 09:41 AM
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 ApunBindaas Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
It all depends on how you guys broke up....if it was him who broke up and you still love him a lot then you would only hurt yourself or have wishful thinking that you guys will be back together....and vice versa if there are still feelings but if it was a mutual breakup - why not be friends?
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Dec 28 2004, 12:22 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i'm still freinds with my exes tho we don't talk as much anumroe... and now my bf don't wnat me talking to them again...
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Dec 28 2004, 12:28 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
You go your seperate ways...at least thats how it happened with me. My ex left, tried to keep coming back and I told him to get out for good. We never see each other. I guess it does all depened on how mature the both of you are if you can stand to be friends afterwards and what not
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Dec 28 2004, 12:31 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
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Dec 28 2004, 01:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,827 |
im friends with my ex we still talk to eachother everyday.
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Dec 28 2004, 01:14 PM
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Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Dec 28 2004, 1:31 PM) HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH wtf was that for? i'm just wondering whats so funny >____<" |
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Dec 28 2004, 01:20 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,359 |
well my first ex, me and him are like the best of friends! he's always there for me when i have a problem and is the first person to cheer me up if i'm done. he's totally cool! my 2nd ex well at first he was mad at me cause he thought i had cheated on him which i didn't. but after about 3 months we started talkin again and i still go to his orchestra concerts at his school and he goes to mine. as for my last ex, we don't talk at all. last i heard from him he wanted to beat up my 2nd ex bf and then kill me and then kill himself. i'm the one who broke up wit him so he didn't take it too well. i'm just glad we go to different schools. but other then that i useally keep friendships wit my Exs. but as for my bf now i doubt we'd be really close friends if we break up, just for the saying as we don't talk as much as me and my other bfs did and he doesn't really seem to be into this relationship so..yea..
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Dec 28 2004, 01:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 775 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,754 |
One ex boyfriend, one less person I talk to now. At first we didn't talk after we broke up, than we were friends-ish, and now we don't talk. It's sad in a way. We were realy close and now we don't talk. WHatever though. Everything happens for a reason.
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Dec 28 2004, 03:12 PM
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 ::i love jesus ramirez:: Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,957 |
my ex and i are still really close ... he still comes over to my house and sutff likd that
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Dec 28 2004, 04:59 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
ehh, me and my ex never talk, and he ignores me whenever he sees me.
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Dec 28 2004, 05:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,153 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,193 |
it depends on how the relationship ends i guess. my last boyfriend of two years, i DESPiSE. He keeps trying to call me to the extent that i had to change our home number. Its a long story, but i hate him so i ignore him .. obviously he`s still tryin to get back with me.
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Dec 28 2004, 08:39 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
well i have had a lot of things happen like my first one we didn't talk to each other for a long time but now we talk some times and then a lot of my others we just don't talk any more really. and then the one that i kind of still love she hates me and doesn't talk to me. but my most recent we are still good friends and she still really likes me but she had to think about some things.
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Dec 28 2004, 09:28 PM
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 i love you <3 Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,884 |
i still talk to two of my exs...i talk to one of them like everyday and were good friends...but the other one i still really like but now were just friends..its kinda hard to b friends..but i guess its better then never talking to him..
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Dec 28 2004, 09:32 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
depends. for instance, one of my bf's was my best friend before i went out with him. then, when we broke up, we remained best friends. another instance, i was really good friends w/ this one guy. we went out. now? he doesn't even talk to me. when we do talk though, he makes me feel so inferior to him. even when i try to start up a conversation w/ him, he looks at me and goes "that's stupid" or something. sometimes, i wish we never went out so i could still talk to him. he was a good friend.
 lol sorry for the short essay here. i guess it all depends on the personality of both parties.
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