WAAAAAHHH, Help, desperately.. |
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 Dec 26 2004, 07:02 PM
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Hi, it's me again. Wow, I haven't been here 4 months! Well...my friends is mad at me again. He's been getting mad at me more and more now, and has stopped talking to me.
 I don't want to end the friendship, but I don't see any other way. I really don't know.....well, here's an example: If I don't understand something he tells me that I'm f****** up, and then I start crying.  Luckily, this is on AIM so he doesn't see me...he never did this before, usually he called me "clueless" and laugh a little, but now its way worse...and I have been getting more depressed than ever.....without him.....Please help me, what should I do???? (go easy on me...i'm kinda down right now.. )
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Dec 26 2004, 07:04 PM
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well it seems that if this guy is making you cry, you don't need to deal with his nonsense...it might taking some getting over him but, it's better than taking those insults from him. if you keep letting him, he will keep on doing it!
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Dec 26 2004, 07:09 PM
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leenie <3 Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,816 |
well .. if he cant appreciate at your help and take time to help you understand what his problems are he isnt worth it ... im sure there are many people who would love a friend like you .. so dont be too hard on you thinking that you cant be happy without him ... even though itd be hard to get over his friendship. just know you can do better ^^v
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| *basick* |
Dec 26 2004, 07:20 PM
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are you a guy?
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Dec 26 2004, 07:28 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
awwww....well it sounds like you need to get rid of this friend if he is making you cry. No person should make you feel like that.
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Dec 26 2004, 07:37 PM
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This should be in the relationships forum.
If you want to keep the friendship, you've got to toughen up and not just cry over anything this guy says.  Grow a spine.
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Dec 26 2004, 07:47 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(basick @ Dec 26 2004, 4:20 PM) are you a guy? no it's a she. but wuts wrong with guys crying, or worried about their frenship? why is he mad at you? <--- first step to having him not mad at you. Learn it. |
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Dec 26 2004, 08:56 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Why is this person mad at you? What did you do?
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Dec 26 2004, 09:54 PM
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maybe your just annoying... why else would he be like that on you... well maybe if you state the reason and stuff...
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Dec 26 2004, 09:55 PM
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QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Dec 26 2004, 4:47 PM) no it's a she. but wuts wrong with guys crying, or worried about their frenship? why is he mad at you? <--- first step to having him not mad at you. Learn it. nah nothing wrong with it i was just wondering |
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Dec 26 2004, 10:14 PM
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白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Dec 26 2004, 5:56 PM) Why is this person mad at you? What did you do? Don't jock my advice! TyVm! =] |
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Dec 26 2004, 10:54 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Don't be so sensitive. Don't let him put you down. Why do you want a friend who
says those kind of things to you? He doesn't seem like a grand friend to me , he should help you if anything. Tell him how you feel and talk it out. You seem to young to be depressed especially over something so minor. There are people in this world who live in shacks ( some don't even have shacks ) and have nothing to eat.. they should be depressed. Do you have a home ? Do you have food to eat ? Do you have a bed to sleep in ? I'm sure you do , don't be depressed you really have no reason to be. There are alot of people in other countries who have it alot worse. Goodbye. Good luck. |
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Dec 27 2004, 12:29 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
He might be mad at something and want to take it out on you. Meh, or it could be that he thinks you're acting 'clueless' personally or on purpose....Why don't you tell him that you're not and what happened to your friendship and things like that?? Get it over with. Your friendship is either gonna survive or not.
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Dec 27 2004, 12:39 AM
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 *lurks around* Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,932 |
Ehm. It's quite simple really. You should talk to him.
1. If he understands: Great. You've overcome an obstacle in your friendship. 2. If he doesn't: He isn't worth being your friend. People change. Whether we like it or not, they do. And sometimes we gotta learn to let go. Other people will become our friends. Everything happens for a reason. :shrugs: |
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Dec 27 2004, 02:48 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
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He's NOT a great friend. He treats you as a slave, and he always gets mad at you. He gets mad at everyone. But for some reason, you love him? Now why is that? It's a stupid childhood crush...But you LOVE him. How is that possible? WHY do you love him in the first place? |
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Dec 27 2004, 05:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 67,978 |
Wow, I guess u guys are right. I'm sensitive. Haha, but my zodiac sign is that fish, I know it starts with a "p" but I 4got how 2 spell it, and they are really sensitive! But I don't think that means anything. I see it now.....I try so hard to make other people happy, that I'll even harm myself in the making....sometimes I think that the best thing is not having friends. But then I realize, that they will just have 2 accecpt who I really am. Not their perfect friend.
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Dec 27 2004, 09:09 PM
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Don't be friends with him.
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