thank you notes, the dreaded after effect |
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thank you notes, the dreaded after effect |
| *tweeak* |
Dec 26 2004, 12:52 PM
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so christmas has passed, and now its time to send thankyou notes to all those unwanted relatives youd forgotten you even had, and now youre being forced against your will to waste your valuable time to write stupid notes to them. sure, gift cards ar always appreciated, but i dont want to have to pretend to like the stupid presents, like hideoous initial purses, and epescially not write the notes the day after christmas. theyre such a pain in the ass. do they piss anyone else off to?
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Dec 26 2004, 12:56 PM
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Change Gon Come ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
i didnt get presents from my relatives. But it would suck to write all that stuff.
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Dec 26 2004, 01:04 PM
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![]() creepy heather ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
um its the thought that counts
id write a thankyou note if my relatives sent me gifts. god forbid you have to take 30 mins out of your day to get THAT shit together |
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| *tweeak* |
Dec 26 2004, 01:12 PM
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now i know you have to write them, its just a pain. i actually have stuff to do. i was supposed to be home an hour ago, but my stepmom is being a bitch and making me write this crap, so by the time i get home, my mom is going to be mad. its not necessary to write them the day after. it was very nice of them, but...
oh i dont know, im not so whiney and bratty as i was acting earlier now. sorry. i was pissed. nothing is sounding the way i meant it. i was mad at the way my stepmom was acting, and so i made a thread about it. why? i dont know. because im a dumbass. |
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Dec 26 2004, 01:29 PM
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![]() 白人看不懂 !!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
I'm gonna send ppl pictures of the person and I instead of thankyou notes. =] much more memorable!
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Dec 26 2004, 01:58 PM
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![]() crushed. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
i don't send thank you cards..i call the people who gave me the gift
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Dec 26 2004, 02:10 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
same w/ me i dont send notes i just call them all up & say thankyou
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Dec 26 2004, 02:13 PM
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![]() whatever d00de ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
i e-mail them saying thank you and e-mail them a greeting card or something
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Dec 26 2004, 02:28 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
usually i call and chat with them ask htem about their holidays, how they're doing just for a minute or two, then thankt hem for the gift. it saves me the trouble of having to write those dreaded thank you notes, and it means more to them!
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Dec 26 2004, 02:37 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i don't write notes... my parents just send them E-mails with the cards i made and there you go.
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Dec 26 2004, 03:05 PM
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RiKACHANtEL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i dont have to send those. i just say thank u when i get it..or call if i dont see them
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| *tweeak* |
Dec 26 2004, 03:34 PM
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i do call, and then my btch of a stpmom still makes me write. and rewrite the entire thing for a 1 letter typo. but im all better now.
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Dec 26 2004, 03:47 PM
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![]() BANNED ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
QUOTE(Heathasm @ Dec 26 2004, 11:04 AM) um its the thought that counts id write a thankyou note if my relatives sent me gifts. god forbid you have to take 30 mins out of your day to get THAT shit together Same here, I never get gifts from extended family. Only my parents get my gifts, so I never had to write a 'thank you' note in my life. QUOTE(tweeak @ Dec 26 2004, 11:12 AM) i really dont appreciate them that much Then give them back or give them to charity. God don't be so whiny. It's the thought that counts and no matter how much you hate it, appreciate it. At least your family remembers you and takes the time to choose something. Jeez. |
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Dec 26 2004, 03:51 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
We've never written " thank-you " notes..
To those relatives that live 10,000 miles away, we send cards. We send cards... they send cards.. To those relatives who've given presents to us personally, well... I'll tell you when it happens cause these past 13 years, none of my relatives have given me a present.. not that they don't like us or anything, but they all lives across the world or either 5 hours away... |
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| *tweeak* |
Dec 26 2004, 04:03 PM
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QUOTE(inlonelinessidie @ Dec 26 2004, 3:47 PM) Then give them back or give them to charity. God don't be so whiny. It's the thought that counts and no matter how much you hate it, appreciate it. At least your family remembers you and takes the time to choose something. Jeez. you werent supposed to quote that part QUOTE sorry. i was pissed. nothing is sounding the way i meant it. i was mad at the way my stepmom was acting, and so i made a thread about it. why? i dont know. because im a dumbass. there. im not as bratty, selfish and whiney as all that sounded before. really |
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Dec 26 2004, 05:56 PM
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Ugghhh.
I hate writing them, but it's a really good thing to do. I'm just lazy. |
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Dec 26 2004, 06:20 PM
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![]() dizzy me up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
oh i don't write them haha
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 26 2004, 06:31 PM
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It's okay. It's nice to rant sometimes.
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Dec 26 2004, 06:34 PM
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![]() ApunBindaas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
I don't think you "have" to give out thank you cards for Christmas. A simple thank you is good enough
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Dec 26 2004, 06:54 PM
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![]() skaters gonna skate. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
It's the the thought that counts ;). I dunno, I don't write thank you notes. I just tell them thank you when I see them.
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Dec 26 2004, 07:26 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
I don't send or write thank you cards, I call them up long distance on the telephone. This year I only got one present from one of my relatives, so it saves me phone calls.
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Dec 26 2004, 07:34 PM
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[*]i AM your star!![*] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
I dont send out thankyou notes, I make the call and then Im on my merry way
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Dec 26 2004, 07:49 PM
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![]() boo. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 567 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,376 |
i don't write thank you notes. but my mom makes me call them and say thank you.
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Dec 26 2004, 09:01 PM
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i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
i'm making a christmas card for people...heh i dont mind that at all hehe
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Dec 26 2004, 09:16 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 |
I didn't get any presents from anyone other than my mom, so I don't really have to deal with that, but that would definately suck
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Dec 26 2004, 09:42 PM
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shit! this reminds me of how i didn't call my aunts and cousins and granparents and fcuk i'm scerwed.
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Dec 26 2004, 11:56 PM
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
well i personally never write thank you notes. because not many relatives sned me things. mostly i see them and they give me the present and if they do send me something i just call them and say thanks.
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Dec 27 2004, 12:34 AM
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![]() say maydayism. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
Well probably I call them, but yea, I don't write thank you notes.
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Dec 27 2004, 01:06 AM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Yeah, they take for ever, and they're so HARD and ANNOYING! Lol, but I guess I should when people spend the time to look for gifts... even if they are urkiful.
It's so hard to think of what to say after you say thankyou, too. |
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Dec 27 2004, 01:59 AM
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
.. I've NEVER written those thank you cards for Christmas.. I tell the people 'thank you so much!" when they hand the present to me in person.. but i don't get much gifts anyway, so it wouldn't really matter..
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Dec 27 2004, 02:54 AM
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![]() Oh you'd be surprised ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
i didnt get any presents.
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| *salcha* |
Dec 27 2004, 03:55 AM
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ummm...okay, well christmas isnt really about getting, its giving.
mmm, im sure they would appreciate a thank you card |
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| *stephinika* |
Dec 27 2004, 05:51 AM
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yeah i don't do thank you cards...i just say thanks when i get it or if i see them later on but soon after xmas y'know?
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| *Weird addiction* |
Dec 27 2004, 07:13 AM
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i didnt get presents from any relatives and even if i did im not gonna send thank you notes! eww
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| *mona lisa* |
Dec 27 2004, 02:50 PM
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i don't write thank-you cards.
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