Girl+Boy? Options

[SantaClause'sGF]

:-( what do i do??

[AznVi3tGrl]

depends if you want to if you do say yes but not like right away say it slowly and if you don't say you rather be friends supporing it with other htings

[inthemudhole]

...Jesus Christ.
Just say what comes to mind.
Don't be so pathetic as to wanting to sound "cool" when accepting or declining a request.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

uhhhhhhhh i dont rilly get it but i would jus say da answer...? is that a answer?

[Shattered_Hope]

I suggest you forget about being cool before the guy thinks you're stuck up.

[*xcaitlinx*]

what kind of a topic is this?!

[x shootingstar x]

...Jesus Christ.
Just say what comes to mind.
Don't be so pathetic as to wanting to sound "cool" when accepting or declining a request.

I suggest you forget about being cool before the guy thinks you're stuck up.

i agree ^^

anyway.. to ur question. i understand.. but it really depends on how the situation is and what type of person you are and all that.. sometimes.. saying yes right away is "cool" and sometimes it's not..

It actually doesn't matter.. do you even like that guy?"

[SantaClause'sGF]

yeah A LOT...

[SantaClause'sGF]

Sorry for such gay polls...

[LeSLiE]

Well, if you want to then say the word "YES"
If you don't want to, then say the word "NO"
I'm glad I could help

[inthemudhole]

They're not "gay" and please don't double post.
I just don't appreciate people who try to impress guys and then ask us about the "cool" way to accept or decline a request. A.K.A. say "yes" or "no" to a guy asking you out.

[mouse_3k]

the hell with being *cool*. gosh, being cool isnt the one important thing in ur life...try being honest and true for once and tell him the damn truth. if u dont want to go out, just say no or somethin.

enough with being "cool"

[unfortunatekiwi]

this topic is....interesting. what i do is...is i say "i'll think about it" and then the next day i'll randomly hand them a paper that says "to: (whatever their name is) from: Ariel" and then inside you write yes or no....like in napoleon dynamite. hahaha. or if they come up to me and say "do you have an answer?" i tell them it. it's really not that hard. i don't think there is a "cool" way to do it.

[xTINAA]

it`s simple. i`ll walk you through it.
if you want to date the guy, say "yes."
if you don`t want to date the guy, say "no."
it`s as simple as that. and don`t worry about being cool or anything. i mean obviously this dude already thinks you are pretty cool since he asked you out and wants to be with you, yeah?

[Too Asian To DIE]

this is an odd topic.... someone should close it

[kellyannie]

yes if you want to and no if you dont.. its not that hard

[ANG33ZY]

There isn't a coolest thing. gee, just be yourself and say whatever comes to your mind.

[iheartsimba]

well depends on how you like him.

i dont like the say maybe one...its ok if your confused, but it you do like them isn't that just mean to mess with them?

if you liked him, you wanna say yes. not "sure" or "ok" cuz that just sounds dumb.

if you don't...be nice about it. say the reason...and if the reason is mean theres always "i just don't wanna bf now" or "i dont wanna lose you as a friend"

[br0ken smile]

say what you want, how you really feel. be nice though

[*Weird addiction*]

if i really like him,ill say yes immediately,i aint losing my chance

[sheepy]

um well if you like him say yes... if you don't say no..

[lee lee babiee]

well if u like the guy then say YES immediatly but if u dont really know say u need time 2 think about it or something..

just do what your heart tells you..!

[xj_liana_tx]

your so lucky, just say yes and grab onto your loverboy

[leeniex3]

if you like the guy yu shuld just say yes .. no point of making him wait nd making a guy think l0lz they mite think yu dont like him or sumthing sooo just get to the point nd say yes ^^v

[angelrevelation]

...Jesus Christ.
Just say what comes to mind.
Don't be so pathetic as to wanting to sound "cool" when accepting or declining a request.

i agree

[xSqueekyMexicanx]

it doesnt matter how you say it ... y whould u wanna be cool lol he already asked you out so just say yes

[miss barnes]

say yes right then but wait a couple seconds...i always make sure he's not joking aroung cuz niggas here like to do that

[XxXAnimeLuvahXxX]

Be yourself. Say whatever you think is right.

[jr0h]

it depends who the guy is

[angel-roh]

I would say--- maybe and act different probably.

but... if you do really like/love him, I would probably be like "Really? Aww... I don't know what to say, but to say yes---because i really like you!!" hehe

[HelloSunshine]

say what comes to mind..like someone said before...[= gl

[remini]

does it really matter how "cool" you sound...? I dont think the other guy would notice either way... And I've said maybe before, but it just gets the guy's hopes up. He'll appreciate a simple yes or no. A "yes" doesnt sound cooler than a "no", or vice versa.

Just say what you mean.

[StarryEyedSurpri...]

just do as you feel at the time

[lilJdawg]

haha, i would say uhhh ... yess orr maybee?

[*stephinika*]

why are you worrying about sounding cool or not? just answer how you want to.

[chopstix-ninja]

wow, go easy on the kid.

[KissMe2408]

lol, just say "yeah sure" and act all non cholant and then talk about what ur going to do on ur date...i mean it's not bad if u show a lil bit of excitement. don't worry about acting "cool" just be urself

[HelloSunshine]

^
lol, exactly...don't really think about it too much or the wrong thing'll come out

[w1nkzItseSt3r]

what does yer heart say? x_O

[chongalicious]

when i heard girl+boy i thought of girl+boy=new babY!

[177emories]

theres no such thing as whats "cool" -_______-"

[babiipnay]

I think it depends who he is and if you like him.

[bad_girl]

i kno this isnt much of a help but.. if u want to say yes, then say yes. i mean, nobody's stopping u. and it's less kool if u say maybe and actually wanted to say yes.

[dorkiixmae]

if u reli like him, say yes but if u dont, turn him down as nice as possible dont wry bout bein cool. lol if u wait, it'll wry him lol

[TootsInTraining2]

Give him something to remeber.
I've heard they recognize smell so wear something simple, like vanilla
And SMILE as u say "yes!"

[*salcha*]

...Jesus Christ.
Just say what comes to mind.
Don't be so pathetic as to wanting to sound "cool" when accepting or declining a request.

haha i know, if you like him..say yes. straight to the point.

[Animelover113]

do whatever floats your boat.....it doesn't matter if you're cool or not....just follow your heart and say whether you like the guy or not.....be honest

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[danishcookiez]

i agree

[angel-roh]

I would probably.... umm... not accepted it. It depends on who they are... and their personality. Um anyways you can't say what to make yourself cool on the decisions you have to make if they ask you out! eck just tell the truth. that's what i would do.

[DanielleMaria05]

Depends on if u like the person or not, and theres no reason to "act cool" because if they ask you out, they already like you, so, would say, just answer them. Straight to the point

[perfectxflaw23]

I don't think that there is a "coolest" way. You say what you feel.

[parallel]

Don't immediately say yes because it makes you sound desperate...or like..that person has been waiting too long or something..just wait a moment..like hesitate..and then say yes..don't go "OMG YES!" Cause it sounds like "WHAT THE HECK TOOK YOU SO LONG!?"..heh..hoped that helped..

[EmmalieV]

...Jesus Christ.
Just say what comes to mind.
Don't be so pathetic as to wanting to sound "cool" when accepting or declining a request.

[blah1234567]

for me it depends who it is... i will most likey say yes just as long its not some kind of weirdo or loser...

[boredperson]

Say "Yes" if you like him, "No" if you don`t, or "I`ll think about it"..
Cool has nothing to do with it..

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

i choose nul wote because i mean it depends if you liek the guy. why is there always a "cool" way to do things. cant peopel just be strait forward

[HoodieObsessed]

this is an odd topic.... someone should close it

just cause it's odd you want to close it? what kind of reasoning is that? are you totally against change or something?!

...although I must admit it is kinda a lame topic

[rOckThISshYt]

It doesn't matter what's 'cool.' It matters how you feel.

If you need some time to think it over, you say maybe. If you definatly want to go out with him, you say yes on the spot. I mean, it really has to do with what you think and not what we think.

[sammehmyst]

There is no cool way to accept or decline a question. :l

[ch33sylici0us]

If you reply "I'll think about it"
1. he'll be thinking about you thinking about him (which will make him happy, and want you more)
2. he won't think your easy
3. if you do say yes, (give it at least a day) he'll respect you more for saying yes b.c you've thought it over and its not just like a yea..w.e thing.

BE HONEST whatever you do. You don't ever want to give him false hope if he really doesn't have a chance.. thats just going to hurt him more in the long run. If you really don't like the guy, don't take long to say no, but if you do like the guy dont be too quick to say yes. Simple, right?

[d0rkbaby]

just follow your heart =)

[yukichan]

it`s simple. i`ll walk you through it.
if you want to date the guy, say "yes."
if you don`t want to date the guy, say "no."
it`s as simple as that. and don`t worry about being cool or anything. i mean obviously this dude already thinks you are pretty cool since he asked you out and wants to be with you, yeah?

exactly what i was going to say..

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I`m not sure i understand this topic do you mean like gf+bf or like date or something?
LMAO nevermind im so stupid i fergot to read the topic thing.

[shortiiex]

play hard-to-get.....and tease him

[vampireduster]

just be like sure.. be yourself

[dELiRiOUS8o8]

just smile and let him figure it out! :].... that is if you wanna go out with him.. if not just tell him nicey thats you dont. he'll understand .. (i think :]!!)

[dancingkait]

hows this? if you like the guy say yes. if you don't say no. easy enough? lol how you feel should judge what you say

[BELLA_RAGAZZA]

haha i usually joke around with it. make the guy get all like think.. "ahh what is she going to say!" hehe it's kinda hard to explain. oh well.. whatever it does works.

[whomps]

Depends on how you feel?
Why is it necessary to even.. accept the request in a certain "way" to act "cool" when you're going to say "yes" anyways?

[ITSBONKERS]

i think this is a very stupid topic.
just say whatever you feel like.
you like the boy: yes.
you dislike the boy: no.
simple.

[Joss-eh-lime]

Uh..I dont think you have to sound cool, because if hes asking u out, he thinks your cool already!! haha

Dont answer too too fast like : YES! OMG IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU TO ASK ME OUT! cuz then its freaky...

I've never been asked out tho...haha! wait thats not funny
And this topics may be stupid to people who no how handle handle this kinda stuff. but there are ppl this topic is benfiting...i think.

[Paradox of Life]

-_-;; Do what you think is right. Screw trying to be cool. Not being yourself can get you in a lot of relationship trouble.

[i_love_billie_jo...]

if u wanna go out with him jus say yes, if u dont jus say perhaps we can be friends for now... plus if he's asked u out he likes the girl u are not the "cool chick" ur tryin to be, so jus be urself n it'll work out in the end

[angelshortipnai]

it really depends if u like the guy or not...if u really don't wanna go wit him, then say no..in a nice way, u know? if u do wanna go wit him, then just smile and say yes =D

[angelluves2rock]

i think its just better if u say yes...but DEPENDIN ON DA PERSON

[ch3ch3]

jus be urself.. if ur gon fake it its not worth it