i hate my friends, a testimonial thread Options

[*tweeak*]

i hate my friends. who else hates their friends? testify here

[inthemudhole]

I hate some of my not-so-close friends from time to time.
I basically don't like this one friend of mine that moved away from us.. on purpose.
She got all preppy, and gahh. She doesn't even care about us anymore.

My two best friends are good.. except for the one with the boyfriend. She's still basically pissing me off. ><

[*x____duckii*]

I don't see how you can hate your friends. If you really hate them, then I guess they're not really friends?

[DaTru KataLYST]

I love all my friends. They wouldnt be my friends if i hated them.

[inthemudhole]

I don't see how you can hate your friends. If you really hate them, then I guess they're not really friends?

It's more like you hate some of the things that they do.. or you hate the way that they're acting to you at this particular date and time.

[*tweeak*]

I don't see how you can hate your friends. If you really hate them, then I guess they're not really friends?

but that would leave me utterly friendless. i hate the way they diclude and neglect me. the way the lie to me about it. the way they always seem so fake an hypocritical.

[jambaJUICE]

i don't really have friends.

[*tweeak*]

exactly. theyre friendly, but are they in fact friends? doesnt seem like it

[Saeglopur]

What kind of friends do you have if you hate them so much?

[aznplayaz]

i hate some of my friends but theres everyone hates there friends at some point

[DaTru KataLYST]

why would you be friends with someone if you hate them? ppl who are friendly to you are acquaintances, no?

[demolished]

i hate my friends, i hate most of them, i mostly dislike people around me, i hate people's attitude and the way they react ! Their stupid retarted people that got no heart !


i dont mean like . i hate every single one of you ..

[ichiban]

I hate my friends except one. Okay, well since I don't think you can exactly "hate a friend," I'll say I hate the people I hang out with.

Okay. Let's see why.

One of them is a freaking b*tch. There's no other way to describe her. She's just a big attention seeker. Everyday she's all like "I'm so lost!" but she really isn't. She just wants attention and people to say "Aww, feel better" and sh*t. She gets too dramatic and it pisses me off. She thinks her parents hate her just because they don't let her go to the mall alot. When you talk to her about your own problems, she just makes this weird high-pitched noise like she doesn't give a damn.

The other "friend," she f*cking lies to me and she thinks I don't know. She's frucking 13 years old and she goes like "Beer in the morning tastes so lovely." I mean, c'mon. I KNOW SHE DOESN'T DRINK. I dunno whats her problem. Does she want attention or what? And oh yeah, in the summer she kept lying to me about what the guy I really liked thought about me. She kept saying "He really likes you, he told me" but I later found out it was just a big lie. I don't even know why I'm not telling this to her face. I'm just not teh type of person to do that.

Next person, he's freaking immature. I don't have anything else to say.

And I just realized that all my "friends" except one treat all their more POPULAR FRIENDS better than they treat me. That's so f**ked up.

[azn hunni xox]

but that would leave me utterly friendless. i hate the way they diclude and neglect me. the way the lie to me about it. the way they always seem so fake an hypocritical.

I hate those kind of people Aww, hmm, just forget about them. Go and find some new friends. I know it's not easy... but they don't exactly seem like the people you wan't to be friends with. And besides, you'll be so much happier with other friends.

Hmm, I can hate some of my friends sometimes. It seems like sometimes they use me for things... but hmm, they do listen to me, and they do include me... I know they care =] Hehe, I can never stay mad at them.

[*Azarel*]

Reminds me of this thread. It's an old one. >_>

I hate my "friends." The ones I actually see in real life, anyways.

[*tweeak*]

alright, i dont hate them hate them, i was just really pissed off because they always do stuff together and forget about me. they threw a surprise goodbye party for one of my friends, and im decently good friends with everyone there, yet no one told me about it, and now theyre all either lying or acting like it doesnt matter. well maybe it wouldnt matter if that kind of shit hadnt happened all last year, but they discluded me then too. im just so annoyed right now. why cant i have any real friends who actually live in this state?


by the way, has anyone else noticed how hard it is to portray sarcasm in a xanga entry?

[inthemudhole]

by the way, has anyone else noticed how hard it is to portray sarcasm in a xanga entry?

God. Ugh, yes.
Sometimes it's even hard to portray sarcasm offline.. OFFLINE.. where you can show the body language and your tone of voice.
I hate stupid people like that.
They say something, you be sarcastic and make a little joke, and they're like NO. I'M NOT REALLY THAT. or whatever.. <_< If you get my point.

[gigiopolis]

Ugh. Sometimes I hate my friends too...sometimes they get uber annoying. But I haven't had feelings of being left out in a long time, it's only happened in elementary school.

Actually, one of my friends hates me right now because she thinks I criticise her all the time. I don't mean it...some of the time I'm joking. But it's like she expects me to have the same opinion as her all the time, because she gets all defensive whenever I have my own opinion...but what am I supposed to do? Totally change myself for this one person?

Ugh.

[loveylovely]

i sometimes hate my friends, but we eventually works things out.

[*Weird addiction*]

u cant hate them and call 'em your friends

[swe3ttemptasian]

I love all my friends. They wouldnt be my friends if i hated them.

same..

[DaTru KataLYST]

by the way, has anyone else noticed how hard it is to portray sarcasm in a xanga entry?

sarcasm may be the hardest form of expression to portray on the internet. and light-hearted joking.

[tooeffingcrazy]

i hate my friends. who else hates their friends? testify here

You don't "hate" your friends. If you do, then they won't be your friends in the first place. Your probably just really angry with them. Or just despise them for the moment.

[*Kathleen*]

That's why I just...choose about one or two friends that I enjoy spending time with that actually share many of my views on things. Meh. Overall, people suck. I can't blame you for hating your friends. Get new ones.

[silver-rain]

eh, i don't exactly hate my friends. sometimes, i don't like them when they don't include me or whatever. but, eh. most of the time, i love my friends though.

[me1issaaaa]

i agree w/ just about everyone else in here.

overall, people in general are just bad. there are very few you can actually trust your life with, and i'm very grateful to have found a few that i can truly say i love and appreciate enough to give my life for. hopefully everybody will find friends that will be there for them like i have.

and remember, nicki, i'm always here for you if you ever need to talk. because you're just the coolest band buddy i could ask for! <3

[*tweeak*]

thanks everyone. its probably just my paranoia again =/

and melissa, youre so sweet :lub: i definitely have to meet you sometime!

[*x____duckii*]

alright, i dont hate them hate them, i was just really pissed off because they always do stuff together and forget about me. they threw a surprise goodbye party for one of my friends, and im decently good friends with everyone there, yet no one told me about it, and now theyre all either lying or acting like it doesnt matter. well maybe it wouldnt matter if that kind of shit hadnt happened all last year, but they discluded me then too. im just so annoyed right now. why cant i have any real friends who actually live in this state?

Anyways, you don't deserve friends like that. I mean, if they were really your friends, wouldn't they have remembered you and actually invited you to the surprise goodbye party instead? My friends used to be the exact same way to me, but eventually they stopped. If you friends keep on making you feel like shit all the time, then you shouldn't even consider them 'friends.' I personally think it's better to be alone than to hang out w/ bad friends.

[*tweeak*]

Anyways, you don't deserve friends like that. I mean, if they were really your friends, wouldn't they have remembered you and actually invited you to the surprise goodbye party instead? My friends used to be the exact same way to me, but eventually they stopped. If you friends keep on making you feel like shit all the time, then you shouldn't even consider them 'friends.' I personally think it's better to be alone than to hang out w/ bad friends.

exactly. thanks. but i am alone, and its getting old. i talked to one friend about it who was there, but isnt exactly friends with most of them, and she said they tried to reach me. except that i have caller id, and i saw no such thing...oh well, im pretty paranoid

[*x____duckii*]

^ Well, I hope you feel better.

[*tweeak*]

thanks =]

[me1issaaaa]

i hope you feel better too. *hands you a cool peanut butter cup thing.* cuz peanut butter's yummy, no?

[Shattered_Hope]

I don't exactly hate my friends....I don't like them that much either. Sometimes they have a tendency to piss me off...so I guess I'm in-between.

[*tweeak*]

i hope you feel better too. *hands you a cool peanut butter cup thing.* cuz peanut butter's yummy, no?

peanut butter cups are good!

so are cell phones!! woohoo!

[krispy_kreme333]

people suck

[lilxroxy]

ehh.. i don`t hate them..i jst can`t stand them frm time to time... :\

like my bfte liz-- she becomes big headed when she knws that 3 guys like her at the same time..

and my other bfte jackie-- she thinks she is too popular for everyone..

but again. no one is perfect.. so i guess i bear with them as they bear with me..

[*wind&fire*]

if you hate your friends then they are no longer your friends... find others

[edit] oh shit its tweeak...aww ill be your friend... tell me who your frenumies are and ill bash the shiat outta them

[*tweeak*]

[edit] oh shit its tweeak...aww ill be your friend... tell me who your frenumies are and ill bash the shiat outta them

should i be flattered, scared, or offended?

[xj_liana_tx]

i don't hate most of my friends, but there are some bitchy ex friends who really piss me off, i don't want to start.. it's a long story

[ApunBindaas]

I won't say I "hate" my friends but they do get on my nerves but that's a part of learning to cope with them.

[lovescream]

Count me in. I only love a few of my friends.. Not a few. I guess only two.

[wonmin]

i hate my friends. who else hates their friends? testify here

i hate your friends too. at least we have something in common

[*wind&fire*]

should i be flattered, scared, or offended?

i say all of the above, and throw in few more in too...

[jennyjenny]

I despise my friends. They would never stick up for me. Never buy me anything for any occasion, even if I do, they all try to make me jealous, never talks to me, can't trust, and backstabbers. There's probably only 2 that i even like...

[ANG33ZY]

I don't like some of my so called " friends ". Some of them are so into the Label ish. Some of them are so into " TyPInG lYkE dIszh ". Some of them are liars, backstabbers, copycats, and they can also be conceited sometimes too. Sometimes I wonder why I still call them my friends. They should be known as " someone I know " from now on.

Out of all these people, i'm not sure who are my true friends anymore. Maybe because I don't have any.

[*tweeak*]

i say all of the above, and throw in few more in too...

oh well, just so long as it results in the bashing of my "frienumies"

[miss barnes]

i loooove my friends

[sharerol]

I barely have any friends. I hate many people, and I dislike even my close friends.

[cmgchica717]

I use to be really close to all of my friends in high school. Then...after we graduated, some started to get married, and some had babies. I do not talk to any of them anymore and I hate that. I do not actually hate them. Its just sad how we grew apart.

[*tweeak*]

ok, kids, ive had one xanga semi-apology, and no calls on my new cell phone yet, so lets continue to rant about these bitches

i did get invited to a new years party, so kudos to erin. but im not really even friends with her anymore...

[cmgchica717]

ok, kids, ive had one xanga semi-apology, and no calls on my new cell phone yet, so lets continue to rant about these bitches

i did get invited to a new years party, so kudos to erin. but im not really even friends with her anymore...

Dang at least you got an invite to a Party...I havent yet

I sent out Xmas Cards to all my friend guess how many I got back.....Big fat 0

Nice

[Intensity]

not that i dont have friends or i hate them.. its just that i dont have many that i can really trust..

[*tweeak*]

Dang at least you got an invite to a Party...I havent yet

I sent out Xmas Cards to all my friend guess how many I got back.....Big fat 0

Nice

that sucks.

[xTINAA]

i hate the way some of my friends act and the things they say and such but i guess i don`t really hate any of them, although some of them constantly piss me off

[whywasisostupid]

i hate everybody

[*stephinika*]

if i hate a person, i wouldn't call them my friend.

[audory]

well sometimes i hate what my friends do, but i don't hate them. or they wouldn't be friends. lol.

[jr0h]

as we grew into teenagers me and my friends all went different ways. changing. i always say i hate them but i still talk to them. i guess i say that i hate them cuz they annoy me. they all cahnged into like..gangsters ballers and hiphop. its not my type..lol

[Heathasm]

its seems like when youre upset you say things that you really shouldnt 8l

[*tweeak*]

its seems like when youre upset you say things that you really shouldnt 8l

i think for the most part youre right (assuming youre referring to the other thread, sorry about that *cringe*) but in this case, this has been the case for quite a while. not a real hatred, but i hate the way they treat me. they barely are friends, but theyre more than acquaintences, and without them id have no one.

[*tweeak*]

cant i have any decent friends? %$&$#&@$#!

[chaoticchrissy]

LOL! hahah i dont think you can hate your friends, they really wouldn't be your friend...

[Spirited Away]

I don't hate them. I get extremely annoyed at times, but I don't hate them or else they wouldn't be my friends. I don't make myself miserable by hanging with people I hate.

[PinAy_Sk8Er]

I don't hate my friends.
Why would you hate your friends?

[*tweeak*]

and how many times have i explained this now? id love it if people would try reading the threads every so often

now im just confused. i hate people in general. it doesnt help that im a social retard. with acute paranoia.

[lilJdawg]

I hate some of my friends otherwise i don't.

[*tweeak*]

i kid. its not them i hate, its me. sorry about that, ive cleared it up with myself. gaaahh this pisses me off.

yeah, i fully intend to use this forum singularly for whining

[*Kathleen*]

if i hate a person, i wouldn't call them my friend.

Exactly my thoughts on this matter. If they do that to you, they're not your friends. Trust me, I was alone for awhile until I actually found my two best friends. It's okay. Being alone isn't that bad, though - you become independent. But yeah, I'm sorry. I wish I could do something to help...like ship off an awesome friend to you in a big box as a late Christmas present.

[*tweeak*]

Exactly my thoughts on this matter. If they do that to you, they're not your friends. Trust me, I was alone for awhile until I actually found my two best friends. It's okay. Being alone isn't that bad, though - you become independent. But yeah, I'm sorry. I wish I could do something to help...like ship off an awesome friend to you in a big box as a late Christmas present.

thanks, im just so sick of the hypocricy of people

[sheepy]

i don't like some of my friends cus they're so fast into judging me.. but then again they arent my real friends but i love my true friends ^___^

[me1issaaaa]

*hugggggg* i've said this many times, but you know i'm always here for you, nicki. god i need to come pick you up and give you a big pretzel. that you won't choke on this time. and peanut butter. because it rocks. <3

[beautifulfalling]

i dont hate my friends.
but they all are pretty lame.

[xGlovex]

How are they your friends if you hate themm..

[miss barnes]

damn. u hate your friends? If you hate them then why do you call them friends? Maybe you should let them know because if not then isnt that being two-faced?...well you're not talking behind their backs but,..nvm

[KissMe2408]

I hate my friends. lol, honestly. When they talk to me, they're only talking to me so they can dump their problems on me. And if they're not dumping their problems on me, then their either backstabbing me or f**king one of my boyfriends or doing somethan stupid like that...yah i really need some new good friends. Yah, their still my friends because i keep forgiving them, and they keep taking advantage...it has nothing to do with being two faced. u can only understand what i mean if you've been through it

[*tweeak*]

*hugggggg* i've said this many times, but you know i'm always here for you, nicki. god i need to come pick you up and give you a big pretzel. that you won't choke on this time. and peanut butter. because it rocks. <3

thank you! i needed that. i think my way into holes. and i do like pretzels! im slightly addicted. and i havent choked since then!!

damn. u hate your friends? If you hate them then why do you call them friends? Maybe you should let them know because if not then isnt that being two-faced?...well you're not talking behind their backs but,..nvm

no, it isnt two-faced, because theyre the ones who are fake with me. besides which, theres nothing to do in norcross except talk about each other. and apperently get drunk, but thats not my thing

[heyyfrankie]

i like my friends...i guess.

[miss barnes]

no, it isnt two-faced, because theyre the ones who are fake with me. besides which, theres nothing to do in norcross except talk about each other. and apperently get drunk, but thats not my thing

[/quote]

how are they being fake w/ you? What happened to make you hate them so much?

[*tweeak*]

theyre fake with me all the time, and its not a true hatered, its a result of being constantly discluded, lied to, ignored, and underappreciated.

im actually having a good day, so ill edit this and go into specifics when im actually in a bad mood

(ahahahahahaha melissa all the ads are for pretzels )

[burnoveride]

yeah i dont hate my friends i hate some of the things they do :)

[burnoveride]

yeah i dont hate my friends i hate some of the things they do :)

[espionage]

you suck at getting friends.

[kellyannie]

I hate my friends right now Well, actually, they hate me. And for a reason that I'm not aware of because they won't tell me! I tried apologizing but they wouldn't listen. Now only one of my friends is talking to me, and I don't get to see him

[giggl3s]

the only friend I have and need is my man, everybody from HS was dropped from my life

[xsweetxcandyx]

there are a few people i act like friends but hate them

[ghetosmurph]

There are some times that I do hate some of my friends, I mean i have friends but not really any good friends , all my friends are people i talk to at school but other than that never hang out with, and only talk with on IM. Most of the time i am on my own, studying, playing guitar, or working on the comp. But the people at school who really piss me off are the peole that are nice to me so that they can get me to help them with test reviews and questions on hw and stuff but then just shun me. (I am currently our class leader in grades since my friend Keith, whom i was competing with developed a brain tumor last June and is still on chemo and cant come to school, he was a good friend tho) I think the biggest reason why i don't really have any good friends is b/c i am on a completely diff. level from the rest of the kids in my grade. I am in 9th grade and this year i am taking Algebra2/Trig. and Chemistry. Keith had been the only kid that was in my advanced classes from my grade, so i get the worst of the 2 worlds, the kids from my grade are behind and every time i mention something about one of my classes they are like "You are in that class! woah! oh yeah you said that before! wow you must have a bunch of frinds from your classes" and i really don't relate with them much, but the kids from my advanced classes are upperclassmen and don't talk with me much especially when thay are pissed b/c i got a higher grade than them (They are all like,"why dont you g hang out with the kids in your own grade"). So I am stuck in the middle, w/ no way out b/c the door is closed on either side. Yippee. welcome to my life. So yeah, I do get mad at my friends sometimes but i have prettymuch learned to accept the fact that I am discluded and tht is just a fact of my life :satisfied: . No I dont feel sorry for myself an you shouldn't feel sorry for me either, if you want to feel sorry for someone feel sorry for Keith who is stuck at home teaching himself Alg.2/trig this year.

[*tweeak*]

i can understand that. theres 3 kids in my grade who are taking ap stats or calc or something sophmore year and one of them took chem and waived his way through algebra 2 freshmen year, so now he has to go back and take bio with the freshmen, so he has some classes with freshmen, seniors and freshmen. however, they dont have a problem making friends because 2 out of 3 of them are in marching band, and they have friends through that too. the other girl doesnt count as she paid her way into higher level classes amoung other things. so you may try doing something like band to meet people who dont care about your grades so much. nearly all my friends are in band, as frustrated as i am with them.

[KELLYYY]

The other "friend," she f*cking lies to me and she thinks I don't know. She's frucking 13 years old and she goes like "Beer in the morning tastes so lovely." I mean, c'mon. I KNOW SHE DOESN'T DRINK. I dunno whats her problem. Does she want attention or what? And oh yeah, in the summer she kept lying to me about what the guy I really liked thought about me. She kept saying "He really likes you, he told me" but I later found out it was just a big lie. I don't even know why I'm not telling this to her face. I'm just not teh type of person to do that.

If you hate her so much, then go and say it to her face.I know how you feel, I felt the same way too about this b*tch that tries to copy my life.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I don't exactly hate. Just dislike some of my friends, but not the close ones of course. Just the...*takes bat out and smacks them* those kind of "friends"...does that make sense?

[sadolakced acid]

they're my friends, right? if i hate them, then they're not my friends.

but yea. my friends can get annoying.

[xtreme_<3]

yeah ..i kind of hate my friends too ..it's like ..you never know if they're really you're friends or just pretending to be your friend ..my so called "best friend" is always talking about other people ..even though she hangs with them and say they're her "friends" ..one minute shes all buddy-buddy with them and the next shes all up in their face and saying shit about them ..there aren't very many people who you can trust these days but if you do find one ..then you're one lucky person ..
sorry but i've got a lot bottle up inside and i guess right now i just gotta let it all out ..

______[friends name],
I HATE YOU! YOU'RE ALWAYS SAYING YOU'RE MY "FRIEND" OR ACTING LIKE IT BUT IT'S REALLY HARD TO TELL!! YOU NEVER HANG OUT WITH ME ANYMORE AND GAHHH ..I JUST WANNA RUN YOU OVER WITH A CAR OVER AND OVER!! IT'S NOT THE FACT THAT YOU DONT HANG OUT WITH ME THAT MUCH ANYMORE ..ITS THE FACT THAT YOU ACT LIKE I DONT MEAN ANYTHING AT ALL! I KNOW THAT PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS MAKING NEW FRIENDS BUT ..YOU AREN'T SOMEONE I'D CALL A "GOOD" FRIEND! YOU'RE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE AND YOU KNOW WHAT? I DONT THINK ANYBODY REALLY LIKES YOU AT ALL ..THEY'RE JUST YOUR "FRIEND" BECAUSE YOU KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE AND SHIT! UNDERNEATH IT ALL ..YOU'RE JUST A BITCH! GAHH I HATE YOU!

taking a deep breath* ok ..i'm calm now ..i'd never actually say that to her face but ..that kind of helped ..it's not that shes a bad person or anything ..it's just that ..sometimes ..she acts like a real bitch and i just wanna strangle her to death .. sorry if i'm off topic or something but ..i guess i just kind of snapped ..you know whats sad ..i'm going crazy and no one even knows ..

[roberts_pink_dru...]

i actually noticed that my friends that are guys treat me with more respect and give me more attention the my girl friends do.

[shortiiex]

i love my friends but i hate a few things about them

[to-devastate]

i don't really have friends.

yeah. if i kinda hate some my friends too -- so i guess you can say i don't really have friends.

[*tweeak*]

brr im very, very cold

ehem

and otherwise, i act like a complete dumbass around other friends

but what am i saying?

[*tweeak*]

ive figured out my reasoning behind this.

ive always been separate from everything, but now everything is changing around me and im left in the same position because im not terribly good with change. thus, the end result is that im very unhappy with what my friends are doing because i still consider it wrong

[daintyme]

if you hate your friends, then it probably time to get some new friends. you don't deserve friends that treat you like crap.

i don't think i've ever hated my friends, i just didn't like them.

[Rachel]

I hate myself more than my friends.

Actually, I hate moving more than my friends and myself combined.

[illuminessence]

I disapprove some of the things my friends do or how the choose to act, but I don't really hate any of them. Otherwise, I wouldn't call them friends. I call them acquaintances.

[antix10_kos]

hmmm...let me see.

No, I don't hate my friends per se....I just don't like them much sometimes...

There's my best friend, who's been a total bitch to me every since my boyfriend and I got really serious. She's just jealous that I have someone in my life and she doesn't...gah....

There's my other best friend, who I only see about once a month or so... We're a lot alike and she's a very busy person. Also, she likes to party and smoke pot and other things that I don't do anymore because who honestly needs that sh*t in their life...

There's my net friends, who are all-around weird and f*d up...there's the drama queen, the attention seeker, and the "I'm too cool for u" friends...

that's all for now.