What to do when you're rejected? |
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 Dec 24 2004, 02:03 PM
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i hope there isn't a topic like this already, but ok, if you're rejected by a person you like, how would you react? What would you say to him/her afterwards??
I would've probably just went "ok, well that's cool." and try to keep it cool and be friends with him. |
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Dec 24 2004, 02:38 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I'd try to hold back tears.. yeup, I would.
I'd just be like, "Ohhh... well, okay. See you later....  "That's basically how I'd act. >< That would, er, really suck.. that's probably why I never ask guys out, eh? |
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Dec 24 2004, 02:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 24 2004, 2:38 PM) That's basically how I'd act. >< That would, er, really suck.. that's probably why I never ask guys out, eh?[/font] same here, i'd probably die |
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Dec 24 2004, 04:43 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i would probably pretend to act but is really disappointed on the inside.
probably just stay friends with him. i think that's how i would act. well you wouldn't really know how it feels or how you would act unless youve been rejected before |
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Dec 24 2004, 07:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later.
And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. " |
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Dec 24 2004, 07:54 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
aww i would b like well its okai i under stand u dont like me that way but i hope this doesnt change anythiogn and den walk away ...
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Dec 24 2004, 08:32 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Drink chocolate shake. It's yummy...!
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Dec 24 2004, 08:33 PM
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just poo and relax your self
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Dec 24 2004, 10:08 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
sry but u got to learn to move on~ >< even if it's painful... but soon there will be someone else better?
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Dec 25 2004, 12:18 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I think I would say:
Sucks for you because I just won the lottery and now I'm a millionaire, suckkka. heh.. I really don't know. Probably with a simple I understand.. hope we can still chill as friends 
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Dec 25 2004, 12:21 AM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Dec 24 2004, 7:50 PM) Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later. And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. " hahaha i agree =] |
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Dec 25 2004, 12:48 AM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
i don't know how it feels to be rejected by some one. im really telling the truth. i've never been turned down in all my years.
but i would just say "yeah thats aight. i guess ill later or some thing?" and then walk away crying and running.  j/k
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Dec 25 2004, 12:58 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Mmm, I'd probably be ex[ecting it anyways, and be like "Oh... 'kay, well... nevermind this... just forget that it happened... and yeahh... hope we can still be friends?" Lol, well I've never asked anyone out or anything... so I dunno really.
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Dec 25 2004, 05:14 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I would just move on.
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Dec 25 2004, 04:40 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I guess I would move on??
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Dec 25 2004, 04:47 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
lol..that happened to me..for the first time.. a few weeks ago.. I guess I j/ can't take a no..lol.. But yeah.. it later got to me that he really didn't like me, b/c he would always flirt..mess around w/ me..fool around w/ me...etc.. I guess I j/ fell for that.. or his hair..
but yeah.. be friends w/ him.. like what you said
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Dec 25 2004, 05:04 PM
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I'd be sad. But I wouldnt show it in front of him.
btw.. I'd never ask a guy out, the guys ask me out >_< but my crush NEVER asks somebody out unless he seriously likes her. =\ so i have no chance
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Dec 25 2004, 06:49 PM
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 BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
ide be like." I was kidding u knoe...like i'de ever ask you out...!".....jm...ide move on...
i don't even guys out...WHY AM I ANSWERING THIS?! |
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Dec 25 2004, 07:06 PM
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QUOTE Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later. And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. " true that hon. add in a few
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Dec 26 2004, 12:18 AM
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kick him in the balls
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Dec 26 2004, 12:50 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
if he's a guy at school, i'd skip it. suicide? die of embarassment?? oui.
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Dec 26 2004, 01:24 AM
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 .h o p e l e s s. Group: Member Posts: 327 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,137 |
I'd deal with it.
Either that or become depressed. Depends. 
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Dec 26 2004, 02:51 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I would say: Mm..Okay.
I couldnt think of anythin else to say .. yeah. |
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Dec 26 2004, 03:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
a lot of you probably misunderstood, what i meant was that how would you react RIGHT AFTER the rejection, like right after the "no", this is not my personal experience since i can never get myself to ask a guy out, i am just setting up this scenario so i can be prepared for the rejection if i do ask some guys out.
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Dec 26 2004, 03:12 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
well for me, being a guy, i would be like 'oh..ok..i understand..see ya later' try to keep cool and all. but if i really really really liked this girl and thought she felt the same i'd be really hurt inside.
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Dec 26 2004, 04:04 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
QUOTE I would've probably just went "ok, well that's cool." and try to keep it cool and be friends with him. That is what i would do. I wouldn't cry though. |
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Dec 31 2004, 07:27 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,262 |
just do ur best 2 b friends 4 then, n mayb u'll get back 2getha
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Dec 31 2004, 08:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Keep your cool & say, ohhh, well .. i'll talk to you later.
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Dec 31 2004, 08:25 PM
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QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 24 2004, 2:03 PM) i hope there isn't a topic like this already, but ok, if you're rejected by a person you like, how would you react? What would you say to him/her afterwards?? I would've probably just went "ok, well that's cool." and try to keep it cool and be friends with him.  Yeah i keep my cool, but im too sensitive, so i end crying in front of him or sob throughout the day, then after i did that, i sliced myself, and told myself that im ugly. |
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Dec 31 2004, 08:29 PM
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 mmm....beer.... Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,854 |
...I would...break her legs or something.
nah i would probably...be like..."w-t-f? but i thought you liked me..." then i would say bye, and avoid them for the rest of my life. but like this other girl i just met rejected me i later found out she really did like me but she was "waiting" for someone else to like her. So i kinda don't like her anymore. |
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Jan 1 2005, 03:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,359 |
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Jan 1 2005, 03:58 AM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Bury them.
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Jan 1 2005, 04:27 AM
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i guess it depends on how much i liked the person or HOW i was rejected. If i liked them a lot, yeh i`d be really disappointed but i know i`d just try to suck it up and get passed it. If i was rejected in an insulted way i would be PiSSED and hurt
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Jan 1 2005, 06:01 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
hmmm..I'd probablly be all"Oh..that's fine..I understand" act like I didn't care [: hmm...yes..but if it was an insult..I'd tell him off
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Jan 1 2005, 10:45 AM
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 dudeee! Group: Member Posts: 873 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,897 |
i'd just be like.. ok.. fine... and move on with my life..
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Jan 1 2005, 10:54 AM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
well ive never been rejected (
) but if that happened, it really all depends on howmuch i like that person.
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Jan 1 2005, 06:41 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i'll be hhurt but i won't show it nd just moveee on cept i might just avoid them too ><
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Jan 1 2005, 07:01 PM
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I'm too afraid of rejection.
I'm so afraid that my fear has held me back from ever liking anyone. Yeah, I'm pathetic. |
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Jan 1 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I say "oh ok, thats cool"
then walk away and stay in the bathroom till i think the humilation is over |
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Jan 1 2005, 10:14 PM
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i wouldn't give up that easily, i'd keep going at it until he says "f**k off! i've had enough.. i told you already! I DON'T WANT YOU!" then i'll go plunge into the nestea waters and make myself feel better.
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Jan 1 2005, 10:31 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i would never ask a guy out... if i like dhim, i get hom to like me so that he would ask me out and IF i like him and he liked me... why would i have to ask him out? and if he's not aksing me out then he probably doesn't wnat to be a relationship or is not ready... hwy push it.
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Jan 2 2005, 08:42 PM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Dec 24 2004, 7:50 PM) Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later. And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. " haha...me too.... |
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Jan 7 2005, 03:53 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i would probally say: oh okay...thats okay with me
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Jan 10 2005, 01:59 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I would do that same thing too.
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