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 Dec 21 2004, 06:52 PM
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Well, see, my bf was going to buy me something I love for Christmas. Just then, I told one of his friends that I like someone else. And his friend, I couldn't trust, told my bf and now it's this whole confusion of chaos. Well, his friend started cursing me out and said that I RUINED HIS CHRISTMAS. MY BF'S HIS AND MY BF'S FRIENDS. and now i feel so damn guilty
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| *Azarel* |
Dec 21 2004, 06:54 PM
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Um. Good job.
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Dec 21 2004, 06:58 PM
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I guess you should feel a little guilty.. but you should have never told ur bf's friend in the first place.. that right there was a bad move and starts complete chaos
 .. just try to set things striaght and if you like someone else thats just the way it is
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Dec 21 2004, 07:08 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
O_o;; you told your bf's friend you like someone?!?!?! sorry but that wasnt a very wise thing to do.
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 21 2004, 07:13 PM
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Wow. You deserve it.
Santa, this bad girl doesn't deserve any presents this year. |
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Dec 21 2004, 07:28 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
You should.
In the first place, you shouldn't have liked someone else. Should've let Michelle "that whore" take your crush, and you go be all happy happy with your boyfriend. |
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Dec 21 2004, 07:39 PM
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Why tell??? That was a really stupid move, watch, now you're going to probably lose your bf. Have fun, feel guilty, you did it. Not us.
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Dec 21 2004, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(tyedyefroggy @ Dec 21 2004, 7:39 PM) Why tell??? That was a really stupid move, That was a stupid post. What do you mean "why tell???" You're saying she shouldn't have said anything and just let him think she still liked him when she really didn't? She should have broken up with him when she didn't have any feelings for him anymore. |
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Dec 21 2004, 07:52 PM
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What does "Well, see, my bf was going to buy me something I love for Christmas. " have to do with anything? Are you sad because now you're not going to get the gift?
It's good that you told him you liked someone else because the guy doesn't deserve any of this. If you like someone, break it off with your boy. |
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Dec 21 2004, 08:40 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
you're getting a big bag of coal for christmas! and you're on the naughty list forever!
 
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Dec 21 2004, 08:44 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Dec 21 2004, 7:52 PM) What does "Well, see, my bf was going to buy me something I love for Christmas. " have to do with anything? Are you sad because now you're not going to get the gift? It's good that you told him you liked someone else because the guy doesn't deserve any of this. If you like someone, break it off with your boy. Well, that's when I thought I should break it to him. And for the other people, i know that was a stupid thing, but he rarely hangs out with my bf and he's one of my friends. =\ But my bf kept begging him to tell him so yah.. Now this whole thing started and I dragged my friend and my crush into it =\ |
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Dec 21 2004, 10:16 PM
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 SHUT UP, FIG NUTS! Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,161 |
QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Dec 21 2004, 7:28 PM) You should. In the first place, you shouldn't have liked someone else.  Its never anyones fault if you like someone.. It just happens, no matter how much your in love or not.. It's an infatuation and she should have let it pass.. and if I didnt, she should have told her guy straight up and NEVER through a friend. They turn it around..-.-; life sucks |
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Dec 21 2004, 10:20 PM
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 BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
i hope u die!..no jm..u never should've said that!...thats gay!..god
ur ignorant...jm i don't knoe peace out ~ the one who posts just to type this |
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Dec 21 2004, 10:31 PM
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You shouldve kept this "crush" a secret, or just break up with your b/f. You should've told your b/f first, not his friend... But too late now. You should try to explain to him what you explained to us.
Good luck. |
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Dec 21 2004, 11:54 PM
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It's Ok. Actually, it's not..you're not supposed to care what you get because the gifts are supposed to come from the heart..don't ask what you do not need. Besides..be happy your boyfriend is thoughtful and say listened to you the first time....don't change your mind......about gifts or anything like that.
The only thing you can do is call him up and apologize for what you did...cause confusion?? and changed your mind and say how unthoughtful you were...and beg for forgiveness...meh, just buy him what he wants for christmas and make a card that puts everything you want to say to him..[damn...this was so long.] |
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Dec 21 2004, 11:56 PM
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QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Dec 21 2004, 11:54 PM) It's Ok. Actually, it's not..you're not supposed to care what you get because the gifts are supposed to come from the heart..don't ask what you do not need. Besides..be happy your boyfriend is thoughtful and say listened to you the first time....don't change your mind......about gifts or anything like that. The only thing you can do is call him up and apologize for what you did...cause confusion?? and changed your mind and say how unthoughtful you were...and beg for forgiveness...meh, just buy him what he wants for christmas and make a card that puts everything you want to say to him..[damn...this was so long.] It's not about the gift. It's about another guy. |
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Dec 21 2004, 11:58 PM
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...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
screw the last comment..damn..mistake someone with something...*sigh*..ok...but here goes: first of all, are you crazy??telling your boyfriend's best friend you had another crush...err..liked someone else...that umm wasn't
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Dec 22 2004, 12:00 AM
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...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I kinda realized that....
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Dec 22 2004, 12:01 AM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
you deserve the guilt and you also need to offer an apology
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Dec 22 2004, 05:38 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Dec 21 2004, 11:58 PM) screw the last comment..damn..mistake someone with something...*sigh*..ok...but here goes: first of all, are you crazy??telling your boyfriend's best friend you had another crush...err..liked someone else...that umm wasn't he wasnt his best friend.. it was just a friend he never hung out with UNTIL THIS SITUATION STARTED. now i have this whole friggin relationship problem. I'm hoping that I can break up with him... O_O he loves me so much and I dont love him back as much and that made me feel so damn guilty. |
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Dec 22 2004, 05:43 PM
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wow. thats a bigggggg problem. i say that you really messed up. but good luck with it?
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Dec 22 2004, 05:49 PM
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what's love anyways.? Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,198 |
tihs happens... learn to deal with it without messing things up even more... ur mess, ur situation, ur solution...
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Dec 22 2004, 07:12 PM
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You deserve it. Why didn't you just break up with him before in the first place if you don't like him?
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Dec 22 2004, 09:25 PM
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that's not a very good thing to do.
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Dec 23 2004, 11:54 PM
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Should of broken it off sooner.
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