Am I actually..., .. in love? Options

[xj_liana_tx]

i never really believed in love, really.
well i had a dream yesterday about my crush, i dreamt that he was sent to the hospital because he had leukemia. And somehow i started to feel really sad, and then everyone rode their bus to the hospital to visit him, and i could't find a bus for myself, then i ran in the rain and i ran across the streets because of my desire to see him. and i didn't know what he will react because we barely even talk, and i know that everyone is going to be there and his crush (who i think is this really pretty mixed girl) will be there too and they will probably hold hands together. and i didn't know what to do, i just kept running....


that was a very weird dream, but... even so, i think i actually care for him... am i in love?

[*autumn.*]

Honestly? I doubt it.

[xj_liana_tx]

^see my point is, doesn't it mean your in love when you really care for someone and you would do a lot of things for them?

[*autumn.*]

No, because love is more than that. I feel like that for my friends, but I'm not in love with them.

[xj_liana_tx]

yeah, but i do have a crush on that guy though...

[*autumn.*]

I think it's just a crush, then. Not love.

[inthemudhole]

Probably just a crush, like autumn. said.

[sharerol]

I doubt you're in love. Love is between two people. You don't know if he feels the same way about you.

[sunissed14127]

that was just a dream...i highly doubt u r in love. its just a crush.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

yea its jus a dream. .. dreams dont tell u if ur in love if ur in love u would NOE u r in love

[bad_girl]

if u say it's a crush, then it is. haha, why do i keep confusing myself today?
it's a dream.. dreams lie, dont they?

*ex. i dreamt i was chased by barney..

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a heart is not a play thing, a heart is not a toy; but if u want it broken, give it to a boi...
if it wasnt supposed to heart ..it wouldnt b called a crush

come to my site..

[ArtificialBlonde]

it was just a dream..more than likely you just care a lot about him

[*Weird addiction*]

i doubt it, if u r in love u will DEFINATELY know it! no matter what ppl say u WILL know cos there's this feeling,i dont know how to explain it but i dont think u r in love honey

[iheartsimba]

I think love is so strong, once you find it you'll know it. It might take longer to relizae if your in love...you could have known them forever. Then I guess just one day you know? bleh I've never been in it so what am I saying?

lol, you cant ask US if your in love! It's something you would know..

[sammi rules you]

*points upward* *nods*

[xj_liana_tx]

... how will I know that i am in love?? i mean, i probably care for him... and and I do like him... i mean, i never really cared for my other crushes before..

[imadorkabledxd]

i dont think so. it's just a dream.

[angel-roh]

um i dont call that a love. you're just scared that you will lose him from your life. and btw it's your dream, not the reality...so i cant really say if you are really in love lol. well in your dream.... it doesnt say that you love him. you just dont want to lose him to the other girl. if you know what i mean heh. love means sacrificial heh =]

[smthngcrprategrl...]

... how will I know that i am in love?? i mean, i probably care for him... and and I do like him... i mean, i never really cared for my other crushes before..

one of my friends told me this once "if you can explain love, you're not in it" so yeah...you'll know when you are.

[shortiiex]

well....dreams always change you feelings about someone and it is JUST a dream

[lilJdawg]

it could just be a dream. if you care for someone, it doesn't mean that you like them. it means that you are a caring person. so i don't think your in love.

[eli5e]

hmm a crush maybe?

[xj_liana_tx]

i mean, ok, see in dreams, they give you a situation, but like what you do in the dream is what you actually probably would do. So like i am thinking i care for him and i really like him so if you add them together i probably love him??

[jambaJUICE]

Sure, you love him.


As a friend.

[Just_Dream]

Personally, I just think that you care about him alot.. not enough to love. In my opinion, love can make people do crazy things, but idk.. that dream.. Think about it.. would you really do that? Would you really run in the rain to find him, and nothing would hold you back? If your parents said no, you couldn't go to see him, would you sneak out? It's all about doing anything for love.

And a dream.. Hey I've had a dream before about a guy I liked... but I never though it was love, even though in that dream, He was hanging off the edge of a cliff and in that dream I faced my fears and went to the edge to save him. Of course, that's in a dream. I'm terribly afraid of heights.

Anyway, there's a fine line between like and love. Personally, I think in a dream the situation would be more extreme if you were in love... I still think, just like alot. I believe in the phrase "Love is one heart finding it's other half." I mean, do you honestly think that he's "the one?" Maybe your dreams is telling you that you WANT to be with him, that you want to love him... And true, iheartsimba is correct: you can't ask us if you're in love.. You just know... Only if you're ready to admit that it's love.

[*Azarel*]

If you were in love, you'd know it, no questions asked.

So I say, no.

[PinAy_Sk8Er]

No, you're not really in love. Love is more than caring about the person you love.

[rueyaroo]

its just a dream..i thought people usually dream about people they care about.

[maia_dc]

i mean, ok, see in dreams, they give you a situation, but like what you do in the dream is what you actually probably would do.

Nope. Not true at all. I had a dream where I had got pregnant by some random hot guy right after I b1tchslapped him and told him I hated his guts. Not something I would do, thank you very much. =]

But, annnyway. I highly doubt it's love. It might be infatuation or friendship, yes. But considering that you said the two of you hardly talk and that he likes someone else, you can't possibly love him. It's very, very, very hard to love someone you hardly know. It IS, however, very easy to THINK yourself in love with someone you hardly know. After all, by NOT knowing them, they seem all the more perfect and you feel that you are destined for eachother when in reality, if the two of you actually dated, it might not even work out.

[mouse_3k]

jeez just remember, fi you have to ask ONLINE, then ur most likely not in love..

[*tyedyefroggy*]

Its a feeling not a acknowledgement of some sort. Dreams dont really tell you what you feel, its really up to you. But honestly, I dont think you'll in love, maybe just really crushing on the guy.

[sheepy]

i doubt it; you'll know when you're in love :]

[katybrown09]

haha hes only your crush, and you had a dream about him? i think that happens to most of us ... before you are in "love" with him, y dont you try dating him first HAHA

[*mishyerr*]

NO!
I DIDNT EVEN READ YOUR POST AND I KNOW FOR SURE IT IS NOT LOVE

it is INFATUATION. FAKE LOVE. NOT REAL LOVE.
trust me babe.

i thought i was in love pLENTY of times and had my heart broken and ripped up into a trillion million pieces.

just cause you get dreams about you caring about someone doesnt mean you're in love.

[Shattered_Hope]

hmm....you might be thinking about him too much..I don't think it's love though.

[xj_liana_tx]

^ i do think about him a lot.. i try not to but then.. well, he just pops up

[blah1234567]

no. you dont even know the guy. thats what you call a crush lol

[Skyline Drive]

Yes dear.. just a crush. I don't think you are in love with this fellow.

[blah1234567]

... it may seem like it though but you really arent. when your in love you will know when you are

[ANG33ZY]

Just a crush .. ;\

[iloveyourname]

I dont know.. I see a lot of No's but I think maybe. You CAN love a crush or have a very deep infatuation. I know that your in love if you think about that person so much, hopeing to be around them being happy when you are.. It's the thing you fall asleep thinking of and the person.. that's when you know your in love.

[xj_liana_tx]

I dont know.. I see a lot of No's but I think maybe. You CAN love a crush or have a very deep infatuation. I know that your in love if you think about that person so much, hopeing to be around them being happy when you are.. It's the thing you fall asleep thinking of and the person.. that's when you know your in love.

i guess i have a very deep infatuation, i do fall asleep when i think about him.. i am sort of happy when i am around him but i am mostly deathfully nervous

[lee lee babiee]

aww thats so sweet! i think u really really like him or you are in love

[sweetxblossomxo7]

well the thing about that is..it was only a dream. it's different from reality. i mean..if you were put in a situation like that in real life then sumfin different woulda probably happened. love is pretty much a very strong word. you can't assume it from a dream.

[toodlepops.]

i DONT think so...sorries?

[SantaClause'sGF]

Well I'm gonna spare you some time to tell you that I think you are in love. I have had dreams like that before, and soon you become obsessed.. Believe me.. I'm under that spell now. All i think about after one of those types of dreams is stephen. Well the other choice (may be mine too) is that you're so mesmerized by the dream you have you could just keep thinking and thinking about him.. i know lots of people like that.. Good Luck!

[Mireh]

i doubt it.

you just probably REALLY like him.

[chaoticchrissy]

you'll know when its love.

[yskulmate]

well i had a dream yesterday about my crush, i dreamt that he was sent to the hospital because he had leukemia.  And somehow i started to feel really sad, and then everyone rode their bus to the hospital to visit him, and i could't find a bus for myself, then i ran in the rain and i ran across the streets because of my desire to see him.  and i didn't know what he will react because we barely even talk, and i know that everyone is going to be there and his crush (who i think is this really pretty mixed girl) will be there too and they will probably hold hands together.  and i didn't know what to do, i just kept running....

its more like of stories in a movie i just watch.. --"endless love"

you know ur inlove when you always think of that person and when you read this line, and you think a person thats the one.

[yskulmate]

i guess i have a very deep infatuation, i do fall asleep when i think about him.. i am sort of happy when i am around him but i am mostly deathfully nervous

oh. me too....

[redroses85]

first its a dream
second love is not one sided
third when your in love you will know it without a doubt :)

[cleec]

Personally, I think that you just want to be in love that you confusing a strong like with love.

[skaterjswife2]

If you were in love, i think you would KNOW, not be questioning it. you juust care about him a lot.

[Fatality]

I think you just really like him.
Your way to young to even describe what love is.
In fact, it really honestly can't be described...

[nyctophiliac]

I doubt you're in love.  Love is between two people.  You don't know if he feels the same way about you.

^ I agree with you. If he doesn't really like you back like that then how can it be love? I think it's just a crush.

[*stephinika*]

yeah it was just a dream so its probably just quite a crush y'know?

[stephenmatthewg9...]

Just a VERY LARGE crush..?

[nockey]

awww well its a dream but u mite never know..i mean you'll know you in love when you feel it=]

[kyuubi319]

When you're in love, a dream won't have to tell you. You'll just know.

[xo_sweetie]

Just relying on the dream, my answer is no. That's not real and that hasn't ever happened before (unless you didn't say it). I might be more inclined to say yes if it had really happened.

[xj_liana_tx]

nvm i think i am over him.. i dreamed about this other dude the other day, haha, i now really really really like him.. (sigh when is this gonna stop?)

[yuna*]

sounds like a fairy tale..
hahaha..
'ish'

[*wind&fire*]

its infatuation...

[captured_serenit...]

that's such a sweet dream! aww...

[Rachel]

one of my friends told me this once "if you can explain love, you're not in it" so yeah...you'll know when you are.

your friend is very wise! once your in love, you just know it. you can't tell other people WHY or HOW because its just something you know. You can't ask others how you know if you are in love because its so personal and deep that only you would know. If your questioning your feelings this early and your not even in a relationship with the kid, its not love...you just like him, thats about it.

[bebebasa89]

well i think you came to the wrong place..not to sound cheesy or what not..but you cant ask other if YOU are in love...you should ask yourself....i agree your dream shows you will go through lengths for him but there`s underlying reasons like jealousy bcuz THAT girl would be holding hands with HIM ...and you wanted to be there i dont know its juts my opinion...

[yukichan]

i think its a crush...or maybe u care about him a lot..idk..

[pinkfossils]

i think maybe you're just wanting to be in love so you're convincing ur self that you are.. because alot of people that i've talked to that said they were in love all said that if ur in love with him u have to be like completely comfortable around him meaning like u could do anything around him and u'd be completely okay wth it lol this will sound stupid but like even if u farted infront of him ha


like u probably love him but that doesn't mean ur in love with him

[mouse_3k]

umm. u think ur in love with a crush..kinda naiive?

are you two even friends and stuff? if so then maybe tht will get you to the next leve but if not then it is defin. not love. maybe its just physical attraction. idk, i dont believe NE one when they say they *love* their crush..eh, maybe its possible but i doubt it..