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![]() You make me sad. =( ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818 ![]() |
You know.. I never knew people were actually labeled. I mean... gosh. Okay, I always hung out with one person, because she's the closest person to me wherever I school. Seeing as all my elementary friends went to another school. Anyways, she's the only one that made me feel comfortable because she was from the same elementary school but we never actually hung out til now.
Okay okay, to the point. She was leaving to this other girl's locker and I didn't wanna go. So I stayed at my locker. And there were these two really smart people. They are NICE okay? So, I started talking to them. Then somehow, they started talking about 'labels'. So I'm like, "Whadda?" ![]() Okay, It began like this. There was girl that was walking across and she said "Hi" to me. So, I waved back. Then she left. And I asked those two people who were there, who she was. Seeing as I don't know her. =.=" One replied, "Oh. Her name is _insert name here_" so I was clueless, and was like, "I don't know her." Because I don't. =.=" I barely know anyone. Almost nobody came from the same school as me. Then the other was like, "She's in the cool people's group." So, I'm like blinking my eyes. I do that when I'm in disbelief, or confused okay? Then I asked, "Why is she cool, aren't you cool too?" Then they were like, looking at me as if I'm stupid. Since I am. Compared to them. >.< Okay, Then they said, "Because! She knows how to dress. Like the latest fashion." Latest fashion? x_x I would never wear what that so-called cool girl wore. Or should I? I like wearing what makes me feel comfortable... and the clothes that she wore didn't look really comfortable to me.. x_x |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 ![]() |
you should wear whatever is comfortable to you. who cares if it's not "latest style"? and yes, sadly, people tend to label others very stereotypically. and you're as cool as you think you are
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#3
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![]() it's our chemistry ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 ![]() |
So you don't judge people's character by stereotypes. That's good. Keep it up, and wear WHATEVER you feel comfortable in. As long as you're comfortable with yourself, you're fine just the way you are. =]
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#4
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 ![]() |
i think the "cool girl" means that she is popular and teh name is just a part of her clique
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#5
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
i understand what you mean. completely. no, really.
its totally the same here at my school.. everyone's like, "omg there goes the popular girls.. can you believe what she's wearing? it's like the best shirt i've ever seen!!" and so on and so forth.. once a "popular girl" said, "god, i can't believe *name-of-wannabe-girl-here* even thinks she's good enough for us.. she will NEVER get into the popular group, okay?" like wth.. ![]() |
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It doesnt matter what others think of you, just as long as you are comfortable with who you are and what you have in life. I dont believe in labels either haha.
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#7
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you kn u should wear what u wanna wear if ppl lable u it probly cause their jelous or somthing like that. i mean u dont have to wear what every one says is "in style".
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#8
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 ![]() |
That's like those stupid shows on TV on Disney Channel.
O_O But, fashion isn't everything. I dont go to middle school but my friend does and they dont label people that well. Only 8th graders. It's part of life... but, you shouldn't believe in those junk and believe what you believe. but if you, do, some advice, just stick around your friends... the ones who dont care about fashion. ![]() like me and my friend, one minute we're total goths and the next we're total preps. then we're ghetto... then we're.. yeah we're everything you imagine. |
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#9
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I love you <33333 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 ![]() |
wear what u want...just because the "cool" girl was wearing whats "cool" doesnt mean you have to. just be yourself. Popularity isnt that great. just dont worry about it....labels are stupid.
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![]() LiLaZnGurL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 ![]() |
u dont hav to b in da cool group dress how u want to dress and hang out wit da ppl u want to hang out wit
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Brie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 ![]() |
Just stick with your friends.
Labels are t3h stupid. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 ![]() |
Meh.
Same at our school. If you dress weird, you're the "loser" And if you dress with all the lastest fashions, you're the "slut" or "prep". And the people who don't dress good, gets made fun of. Like me. |
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
good for you.
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![]() none of it seems real ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 ![]() |
Man these people are ughhh. I think you should just wear what you find comfortable. Schools always have little labeled groups. Hang out with the people you like for who they are and I guarantee you will much happier that way.
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![]() Turn your lights down low... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,472 ![]() |
I just hang out with my friends whoever they may be and dont worry about the labels..dress the way i like and act the way i want to act. I dont really feel like theres alot of labeling at my school.maybe there is but u just dont talk or think about it. Just hang around people who make u happy and life is much easier.
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#16
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,964 ![]() |
yeah. labels kinda suck. the clique problem isn't too bad at my school but still...
wear whatever your comfortable in. i don't really care where my clothes are from. basically...i go to the mall and just go into every store. if i see something i like...i get it. no big deal. i don't have to buy all the "latest fashions" from some store that sells t-shirts for $80. that's rediculous. |
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to hell with you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 ![]() |
whoa...long story. getting confused??
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![]() ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 ![]() |
Go up to her and stab her.
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![]() oh sweet pestilence ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 ![]() |
QUOTE(ichiban @ Dec 25 2004, 11:55 PM) Go up to her and stab her. Haha. I'll help you. |
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![]() Oh babyy. :d ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 ![]() |
how is someone cool by what they wear?? ive seen plenty of people dress like hoes and be in the "cool" group. from what i know, hoes arnt cool... what i dont get is that most of the popular people at my school are hated. So why are they popular? i think thats really dumb... i wear what is comfy.
POWER TO THE LOSERS/NERDS/UN-POPULAR PEOPLE!!! ![]() |
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![]() skaters gonna skate. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 ![]() |
That's so sad. Like ichiban said, stab her.
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#22
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 ![]() |
you don't have to wear whatevers "in" just wear what you want and feel comfortable in, and if people wont accept you because of that then they are just shallow losers anyway
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#23
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![]() boo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 ![]() |
is there actually schools like that?
yea well. don't copy the "cool girl" be urself |
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#24
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
because she wears the latest fashion? ohh ok... hehe well just ignore them i guess? i mean you're still a cool person if you believe in whatever it's on your mind =D
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![]() original member. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 ![]() |
coolness <---> good friends.
choose. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 ![]() |
just be yourself, who cares what other people wear. Also, don't judge people by their clothing. just get to know to them to see how their really like.
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
QUOTE(Mireh @ Dec 27 2004, 7:00 AM) coolness <---> good friends. choose. like what Val said to you. i rather choose good friends than getting all of the coolness from people. those people is what i call a badass mean people lOL... they probably think they are cool because they are with no reasons ehh |
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![]() Oh you'd be surprised ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 ![]() |
wear whatever is yourself and what you are comfortable in. im annoyed by labels.
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![]() Bohemian Rhapody adict ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,305 ![]() |
that so whent over my head.....
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![]() your sweetest sin. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 ![]() |
wear what your comfy wearing. and be nice.
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