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post Dec 19 2004, 05:59 AM
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You know.. I never knew people were actually labeled. I mean... gosh. Okay, I always hung out with one person, because she's the closest person to me wherever I school. Seeing as all my elementary friends went to another school. Anyways, she's the only one that made me feel comfortable because she was from the same elementary school but we never actually hung out til now.

Okay okay, to the point. She was leaving to this other girl's locker and I didn't wanna go. So I stayed at my locker. And there were these two really smart people. They are NICE okay? So, I started talking to them. Then somehow, they started talking about 'labels'. So I'm like, "Whadda?" wacko.gif

Okay, It began like this. There was girl that was walking across and she said "Hi" to me. So, I waved back. Then she left. And I asked those two people who were there, who she was. Seeing as I don't know her. =.="

One replied, "Oh. Her name is _insert name here_" so I was clueless, and was like, "I don't know her." Because I don't. =.=" I barely know anyone. Almost nobody came from the same school as me. Then the other was like, "She's in the cool people's group." So, I'm like blinking my eyes. I do that when I'm in disbelief, or confused okay?

Then I asked, "Why is she cool, aren't you cool too?" Then they were like, looking at me as if I'm stupid. Since I am. Compared to them. >.< Okay, Then they said, "Because! She knows how to dress. Like the latest fashion."

Latest fashion? x_x I would never wear what that so-called cool girl wore. Or should I? I like wearing what makes me feel comfortable... and the clothes that she wore didn't look really comfortable to me.. x_x
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 08:08 AM
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you should wear whatever is comfortable to you. who cares if it's not "latest style"? and yes, sadly, people tend to label others very stereotypically. and you're as cool as you think you are cool.gif
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 10:40 AM
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So you don't judge people's character by stereotypes. That's good. Keep it up, and wear WHATEVER you feel comfortable in. As long as you're comfortable with yourself, you're fine just the way you are. =]
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 10:41 AM
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i think the "cool girl" means that she is popular and teh name is just a part of her clique
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 10:54 AM
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i understand what you mean. completely. no, really.
its totally the same here at my school.. everyone's like, "omg there goes the popular girls.. can you believe what she's wearing? it's like the best shirt i've ever seen!!" and so on and so forth..
once a "popular girl" said, "god, i can't believe *name-of-wannabe-girl-here* even thinks she's good enough for us.. she will NEVER get into the popular group, okay?" like wth.. blink.gif
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 11:12 AM
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It doesnt matter what others think of you, just as long as you are comfortable with who you are and what you have in life. I dont believe in labels either haha.
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 12:02 PM
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you kn u should wear what u wanna wear if ppl lable u it probly cause their jelous or somthing like that. i mean u dont have to wear what every one says is "in style".
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 01:19 PM
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That's like those stupid shows on TV on Disney Channel.
O_O
But, fashion isn't everything. I dont go to middle school but my friend does and they dont label people that well. Only 8th graders. It's part of life...
but, you shouldn't believe in those junk and believe what you believe. but if you, do, some advice, just stick around your friends... the ones who dont care about fashion. wink.gif
like me and my friend, one minute we're total goths and the next we're total preps.
then we're ghetto... then we're.. yeah we're everything you imagine.
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 02:12 PM
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wear what u want...just because the "cool" girl was wearing whats "cool" doesnt mean you have to. just be yourself. Popularity isnt that great. just dont worry about it....labels are stupid.
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 02:16 PM
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u dont hav to b in da cool group dress how u want to dress and hang out wit da ppl u want to hang out wit
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 02:20 PM
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Just stick with your friends.

Labels are t3h stupid.
 
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post Dec 19 2004, 02:55 PM
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Meh.
Same at our school.
If you dress weird, you're the "loser"
And if you dress with all the lastest fashions, you're the "slut" or "prep".
And the people who don't dress good, gets made fun of.
Like me.
 
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post Dec 25 2004, 10:33 PM
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...and this is me..
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good for you. flowers.gif
 
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post Dec 25 2004, 11:26 PM
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none of it seems real
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Man these people are ughhh. I think you should just wear what you find comfortable. Schools always have little labeled groups. Hang out with the people you like for who they are and I guarantee you will much happier that way.
 
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post Dec 25 2004, 11:46 PM
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Turn your lights down low...
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I just hang out with my friends whoever they may be and dont worry about the labels..dress the way i like and act the way i want to act. I dont really feel like theres alot of labeling at my school.maybe there is but u just dont talk or think about it. Just hang around people who make u happy and life is much easier. _smile.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 12:27 AM
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yeah. labels kinda suck. the clique problem isn't too bad at my school but still...

wear whatever your comfortable in. i don't really care where my clothes are from. basically...i go to the mall and just go into every store. if i see something i like...i get it. no big deal. i don't have to buy all the "latest fashions" from some store that sells t-shirts for $80. that's rediculous.
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 02:41 AM
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whoa...long story. getting confused?? blink.gif blink.gif blink.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 02:55 AM
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Go up to her and stab her.
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 03:16 AM
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oh sweet pestilence
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QUOTE(ichiban @ Dec 25 2004, 11:55 PM)
Go up to her and stab her.

Haha. I'll help you.
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 04:29 AM
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Oh babyy. :d
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how is someone cool by what they wear?? ive seen plenty of people dress like hoes and be in the "cool" group. from what i know, hoes arnt cool... what i dont get is that most of the popular people at my school are hated. So why are they popular? i think thats really dumb... i wear what is comfy.

POWER TO THE LOSERS/NERDS/UN-POPULAR PEOPLE!!! shifty.gif
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 04:44 AM
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That's so sad. Like ichiban said, stab her.
 
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post Dec 26 2004, 05:06 AM
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you don't have to wear whatevers "in" just wear what you want and feel comfortable in, and if people wont accept you because of that then they are just shallow losers anyway
 
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post Dec 27 2004, 04:19 AM
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is there actually schools like that?

yea well. don't copy the "cool girl" be urself
 
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post Dec 27 2004, 07:56 AM
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because she wears the latest fashion? ohh ok... hehe well just ignore them i guess? i mean you're still a cool person if you believe in whatever it's on your mind =D
 
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post Dec 27 2004, 10:00 AM
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coolness <---> good friends.

choose.
 
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post Dec 27 2004, 02:30 PM
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just be yourself, who cares what other people wear. Also, don't judge people by their clothing. just get to know to them to see how their really like.
 
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post Dec 28 2004, 11:00 AM
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QUOTE(Mireh @ Dec 27 2004, 7:00 AM)
coolness <---> good friends.

choose.

like what Val said to you.

i rather choose good friends than getting all of the coolness from people. those people is what i call a badass mean people lOL... they probably think they are cool because they are with no reasons ehh
 
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post Dec 28 2004, 03:07 PM
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wear whatever is yourself and what you are comfortable in. im annoyed by labels.
 
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post Dec 28 2004, 03:13 PM
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that so whent over my head.....
 
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post Dec 29 2004, 02:54 PM
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wear what your comfy wearing. and be nice.
 

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