There is this boy..who i think likes me, in need of serious advice |
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 Dec 12 2004, 02:01 AM
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ashley  Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454  |
ok...so yea..this boy hugs me..and he lets me kiss him on da cheek(well..other girls too)and he gets sad when i dont give him a hug and then i got mad at him for something and he wrote a leter calling me a slut and a b*tch and then when i said sorrie he said sorry too...and then i called him a couple of nights ago and he was like talking to me ya kno..and he said"i am gonna take my grandpas truck,and i will come down to Oakland and pick you up frum your aunt and uncles house and then we can joyride and we can push the truck in the river and walk all the way home(sacramento) and we can go to the river and party and today i called him and he said "can i have your aunt and uncles fone number so i can call you"and my aunt said no cause she didnt want him prank calling...just in case he did..and then he said 'well call me back in 20 minutes ok"and then i called him back 20 minutes later and i said"hey..u wanted me to call you back in 20 min"and he said"quit calling me" and i was like WTF...y not" and he hung up
i really like him and he knows that..i mean...he is da first boy i have actually LIKED THIS MUCH..all of this stress made me cut and he was like(this was like a month ago) you had better stop cutting yourself...NOW" like he reallie cared ya know" and he caused me to get depressed and lose about 10 pounds cuz of depression...please help me... |
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Dec 12 2004, 02:16 AM
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 hardcore procrastinator =] Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,340 |
I don't think you should get so depressed over a guy.
Also, it doesn't sound like he's the nicest person, considering what he's done. Maybe you should try to move on? Although, it's your own decision. Good luck. |
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Dec 12 2004, 02:19 AM
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ashley Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454 |
i did move on..for a cuple of weeks..but i heard his voice and i liked him all over again..idk...i really like him and he is the only boy i have liked in like 4 years..i mean..he connects wit me.but he can be a jerk..
thanx for your post |
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Dec 12 2004, 08:00 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
he doesn't sound like a very nice person after all he asked you to call him in 20 and when you did he asked you to quit calling him. thats just plain mean.
and i don't think its good to get depressed over a guy and hurt yourself. you can go for him if you want to or just move on. Good Luck 
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Dec 12 2004, 02:24 PM
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 unique Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,394 |
two things. cutting is detrimental to your health, express your pain in a journal entry, poem, or letter to that boy, but causing physical pain isn't allways the best outlet and expression for all that emotion. second thing, either you tell that guy that you like him, or you move on. the worst thing he could say is that he likes you as a friend.
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Dec 13 2004, 12:25 AM
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 D>V>8 Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,620 |
QUOTE two things. cutting is detrimental to your health, express your pain in a journal entry, poem, or letter to that boy, but causing physical pain isn't allways the best outlet and expression for all that emotion. some times physical pain helps like... alot, i usually go mosh alone in the woods with the trees or punch the walls til my fist bleeds....but i do agree that cutting isnt good.... if your gonna do it you mine as well do it rite and go all the way or stop doin it.. guys are a$$holes... belive me i am a guy and thas just how we aer and how we joke around... i try my best not to be an a$$hole but somtimes it just comes out.. if you like him this much just be like yo... how you feel bout me?.. and see wut he says... outz* |
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Dec 13 2004, 01:45 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(lollers @ Dec 12 2004, 11:24 AM) two things. cutting is detrimental to your health, express your pain in a journal entry, poem, or letter to that boy, but causing physical pain isn't allways the best outlet and expression for all that emotion. second thing, either you tell that guy that you like him, or you move on. the worst thing he could say is that he likes you as a friend. couldn't have said it better myself 
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Dec 13 2004, 05:18 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,372 |
man.. that guy's just plain mean.
 just go out with your girlfriends and have a good time to try get that dude off your mind. andd.. STOP HURTING YOURSELF! |
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Dec 13 2004, 02:07 PM
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ashley Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454 |
u guyz have all helped me wit this...i am gonna stop cuttting...and i am over this guy..and guess what NOW HE WANTZ ME TO CALL HIM
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Dec 13 2004, 04:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
QUOTE(pozer13 @ Dec 13 2004, 3:07 PM) u guyz have all helped me wit this...i am gonna stop cuttting...and i am over this guy..and guess what NOW HE WANTZ ME TO CALL HIM  yay dont cut!ur too young (like teen? heh im being a hypocrite. hehes) to be in a SERIOUS relationship n yea.. he sounds like a freak. lol sry. 
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Dec 13 2004, 04:51 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Go to San Fran and turn lesbian. It's your destiny. Just look at your State Seal:
 What kind of straight female holds a spear and shield while watching ships? |
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Dec 13 2004, 05:39 PM
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hardcore procrastinator =] Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,340 |
Congrats on getting over the guy.
I know it hurts...:( |
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