How do you..., kiss?? Options

[AznVi3tGrl]

This is just so embarressing. i just dunno how to kiss. my b/f today i just gave him a peck on the lips and he was like come on and things and he said why is it b/c you dunno how and stuff. but i do wanna kiss him. i do alot! but i just dunno how! please i need major help. like not make out but just a kiss. or is it the same thing.. please please help!

[emmalie]

that kinda stuff just comes out natural..just take it slow and take a breath mint ;)

[murderwaltz]

honestly, i've never kissed before. BUT i do know something. there is no right or wrong way to kiss someone remember, a lot of people have different styles to kiss. just don't worry about it. but don't open your mouth wide enough for you to suck him in. AND don't leave your tongue doing nothing 'cause then, thats worse.

[ghjgfkgfk]

bite. hard.

[AznVi3tGrl]

can you give me steps please. we've been gon' out for a while and he wants a kiss so bad. and things it's just i dunno how

[you suck]

dont do it at any old time. do it at a "sexy" time. just kiss how ever. n there IS a bad way to kiss someone. dont shove ur tongue in his mouth. gently kiss his top or bottom lip. suck on his lip that feels good. if u want to tongue him lick his lips. go slow n keep ur eyes closed. n no groping!!!!!!!!!(yet)then u just do w/e. i believe there is an article in cosmogirl for dec/jan for this.good luck n dont forget a mint.

[mouse_3k]

its not that hard. make sure u dont drool and keep wiggling ur tongue in his mouth.

[ghjgfkgfk]

i believe there is an article in cosmogirl for dec/jan for this.good luck n dont forget a mint.

i bought that issue. because i'm a loser.
but anyway, do you want me to type it up for you?

[AznVi3tGrl]

would you please? i really want to but this just stinks!

there were alot of guys that wants to kiss me and i want to kiss them but i didn't know how so yea

[icyflame]

I am not so experienced at kissing. Usually my b/f kisses me.

sure, i am not just standing there still . instead, i may touch his hair softly, or hold him tenderly if he is giving me a gentle kiss.lol.

and what if it is a passionate and deep kiss?
....
well, just be cooperative; learn the way he kiss you and kiss him back.

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[lilJdawg]

it just comes out naturally. take it slow (: breathmints & no drooling haha.

[moralsdecayaway]

am i even supposed to be here?? since im a guy and all?? who knows.. but anyway.. im sure he wont mind whatever you do as long as you dont drool on him.. drolling.. is the worst.. and i donno but me personally.. i dont like lip gloss and stuff on the girls lips.. am i weird for that?? oh well.. but yeah.. just.. let it flow.. its natural.. i remember i was just as nervous as you the first time.. but after a few times.. and couple of girls tellin me i was a good kisser ( ironically i had no idea what i was doing ) youll tend to build up confidence after a while.. so dont worry about it too much.. :P later

[lee lee babiee]

you just do it.. theres no wrong or right way.. just dont be 2 sloppy.. gross

[heyyfrankie]

you kinda massage(sp?) your two tongues together. it is kinda hard to explain. it is kinda like sex: there are many different ways to do it but it is all the same.

[_confuzed_]

well, it should come naturally, but if you're really desperate (and i don't blame you) then you just make your lips into a kissing shape, maybe tilt your head, and go for it. don't worry about frenching, THAT should definitely come naturally and not forced. ;) oh yeah, and maybe you should practice on the back of your hand or your mirror xD

[ghjgfkgfk]

would you please? i really want to but this just stinks!

there were alot of guys that wants to kiss me and i want to kiss them but i didn't know how so yea

i didn't proof read this so yeah...

"There's is amazing, electric moment when your lips touch his and suddenly your entire body feels like melted chocolate. So why does it seem like everyone is in a huge rush to get past kissing-as if it's some kind of warm-up exercise? A kiss-doen right-can be mind-blowing then any other kind if physical intimacy. So live in that melty moment: Focus on making each and every one feel so good you won't want to go futher...you'll want the kiss to last forever!"

"Five new kisses to try this weekend
Check out these hot tips from William Cane, the expert behind the Art of kissing books and DVDs.

1. THE STATUE KISS For one minute, your guy has to let you kiss him without kissing you back or even moving. Kiss him the way you'dlike him to kiss you. Then switch!
2. THE MIRROR KISS Kiss him front of a mirror, with your eyes open. (It's the PG-13 version of videotaping, with no permanent evidence!)
3. THE COUNTING KISS Ask him to pick a number from 1-20. Then kiss him (on any spot on his face or neck) that number of times, varyingthe pressure, lenght of time, and wetness of each kiss!
4. THE SPELLING BEE KISS Make him guess what word you are spelling out with the tip of your tongue in his mouth. If he's wrong, he has to kiss you for as long as you want him to!
5. THE SOUL "KISS" Lock eyes and hold your gaze for aas long as you canwitahout looking away. (Some couples say this kiss is the most sensual.)

"HOLLYWOOD'S hot kisses. we get fashion tips from the stars- why not kissind tips?

Lindsay and Wilmer
It can be sexy to show restrainment by leaving some space between your bodies.
Will and Jada
Placing a hand on his cheast for balance overcomes a height difference. Tiptoes are hot!
Drew and Fab
A goodbye kiss (like at the airport should be memorable. Pulling his face and shoulders to you says "come back soon."

KISS AND TELL
'Put one hand on the back of his neck and play with your hair as you kiss. Then suck his bottom lip...When you pull away, he'll beg for more' -Stephanie, 18, Hattiesburg
MA
'When I want a guy to kiss me, I get really close to him, hand his hands, look into his eyes and give him my cutest smile. It works every time!' -Robin, 19, Los Angeles, CA
"Prep your lips: My boyriend loves when I put on yummy lipgloss before we kiss. It makes the whole thing much more fun for both of us!' -Ashley, 18, Monrovia, CA
"I tease my girlfriend by going from pecking on the lips to fench kissing and back again. I caress her back, butt, belly, and chin with one hand' -Tesslyn, 20, Ceres CA
'Whenever I start kissing a guy, I make sure that I lightly run my finger up and down his back. It's kind of like masaging him.' -Angelise, 15, Minneapolis, MN

*50% of CG!s have made the first move to a guy.
*43% like to have their ears kissed
*7% put their hands on a guy's butt while kissing him.
40% have gotten a hickey.

guy's wish list
When it comes to kissing, giving a guy what he wants simply means he'll have to repay the favor!
>"Use your hands: Run them down his shoulders and over his arms, and pull him into you by his elbows." -Ben, 22, Washington DC
>"Don't forget about his nest and ears-lighty kissing both itckes in a crazy-good way."
>End a hot kiss by nibbling on his upper lip. Just a light bite! Lick his top tip between tongue motions."
>Tilt your head back to let me know you want me to kiss your neck and to say you're into making out"

"KISSING CRISES-SOLVED"
The real secret to being a grate kisser is knowing how to handle those not-so-sexy moments that occasionally crop up. So take his expert advice from Willam Cane:

YOUR COMPLAINT
"He's such a sloppy kisser, I get all wet!"
THE SOLUTION
Try a little humor. Pull away, wipe your face in an obvious way, and make a sweet, light joke so he won't think you're blaming him: "Woah- we're drenching in each other!" or "We're such goofballs- let's ease up on the saliva!"

YOUR COMPLAINT
"He jams his tougue way to far back into my mouth!"
THE SOLUTION
Put distance between his tougue and your tonsils by subtly pulling back. Pause, otu your hands on his shoulders (to keep hi ma bit far away), then restart teh kiss so that he's not mashed into you and you're the one guiding things/

YOUR COMPLAINT
"I can't get him to make the frist move to kiss me!"
THE SOLUTION
Some guys are too shy to take he initiative. To get things going-with out intimidating him-invite him to watch a romantic comedy with you. When a kissing scene comes on, lean over to him and say, "We should try that."

[*jeanna*]

wow, you're a whore.

[kitkat2008]

"best friendz can be forever it all dependz on the way u treat eachother"

ok just relax and when he comes towards u and start just open ur mouth slightly enough for his bottom lip and maybe his tongue lol and just kind suck and move ur head a lil side to side and tilt ur neck just follow as he goes and then back away after a min that way he aint the one to back away first and if he likes it then he will come back in for more lol yeah if u dont get that then i dont know cause it is kinda hard to explain lol ok well have fun and good luck!!! once u kiss once u cant wait to kiss again lol byebye

[ghjgfkgfk]

ok just relax and when he comes towards u and start just open ur mouth slightly enough for his bottom lip and maybe his tongue lol and just kind suck and move ur head a lil side to side and tilt ur neck just follow as he goes and then back away after a min that way he aint the one to back away first and if he likes it then he will come back in for more lol yeah if u dont get that then i dont know cause it is kinda hard to explain lol ok well have fun and good luck!!! once u kiss once u cant wait to kiss again lol byebye

why does it quote me?

[kitkat2008]

i dont know

[fallen_angel1137]

AznVi3tGrl.....maybe you should learn how to make sentences and spell A LOT before you kiss someone...otherwise, like everyone says, it comes naturally. Like the first time my boyfriend kissed me...i wasn't expecting it and didn't have time to think "OMG! WHAT IF I DON'T KISS RIGHT!?" It just happened and was great... A good kiss isn't something you plan for............

[aznxdreamer]

suck the life outta him

[blah1234567]

...dunno...never kissed

[cmgchica717]

Just start kissing opening your mouth and let your tounge in...

it will eventually be a piece of cake for yah!!

[christiee_nax]

what ive learnt from my past experience is dont put your tongue in his mouth and not move it like its a dead fish. pretend that you're looking for something in his mouth. and your hands, it really all depends but what i think i do most of the time is either run them thru his hair or put it behind his neck or hold his hand or pull him towards me. and breath through your nose! and i dont know bout the rest of the guys but my boyfriend (and my pasts) liked it better if i didnt have anything on my lips. so it wont be messy.

oh please make sure your breath smells good. no one likes stinky breath!

[*ilalaloveyou...]

yeah....wat everyone else..said...i never kissed before..

actually i have but the last one didn't count cuz the guy made it such a gay moment... =|

[iloveyourname]

uh.. just wait for the right moment. Like someone already said there is no right and way. I personally like the guy to make the move then go with it. Good luck with you and your boyfriend, kiss kiss..

[*Kathleen*]

Um. Just wing it.

[stephenmatthewg9...]

Sorry but I believe she said.. uhh.. not making out, just kissing..

[Angel_Cece]

that kinda stuff just comes out natural..just take it slow and take a breath mint ;)

yup.

[perdyperdybirdy]

im pretty sure it comes naturally...just relax

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

its not that hard. the first time i kissed i didnt know what i was doing, but the guy did, so i copied what he did and it came out perfect :)

[mouse_3k]

wing it

[supergurl559]

like everyone said..it comes natural... my first kiss recently happened too...at first i was really scared cause i knew wat he wanted to do..haha...so i guess i let loose and just did wat i thot i should..slap him..haha jk..but really...first i just pecked him on the lips like you did...and hes all like...you dun kno how to kiss huh?!...haha i got kinda embarass..but then i tried it again..and guess wat he said?! he said that i was pretty good at it...hehe!!...

[leeniex3]

i think its supposed to cum naturally to yu .. it did for me X: .. mai bf gave me mai first kiss on mai birfdai ^^v <3

[177emories]

be relaxed, don't forget to breath... put your hands on him (neck, cheeks, lap, arms) and just GO WITH THE FLOW i dunno how many time si have to say that... odn't worry you don't have to lead... follow him

[jr0h]

um i never kissed.

if you dont want to make out then i dont know what youre asking for. cuz a kiss is just a kiss. unless youre kissing like a little baby.

[xxslithr0atxx]

um my ex just opened his mouth and i opened my mouth and yeah the tounge goes in...


that is, if you want toungue.

yeah basically, it just happens naturally. haha yeah take a breath mint. i hate it when bad breathed guys kiss you and all. its nasty