theres this guy Options

[my world]

well theres this guy at my school, at first they had a rumor stating i liked him. that was just a rumor.. nothing more. then they had a rumor saying he likes me. and i would like to say "just a rumor nothing more".. but that i might sort of agree with.. because i sort of get the feeling that he does. hes a big flirt with girls so its hard to tell, but he flirts with me more than others. what are some signs of him liking me? its really confusing and irritating. i need help. because if he did like me.. i need to think of a way to make sure he doesnt get hurt by the way i tell him no.. because i just cant like him for the things that he has done in the past. i know people say forgive and forget. but that only applies to you if they say sorry. and the scar is still there and no appoligies. and when i say scar.. a scar on that person's face!!

[_sarcastic_]

first ask him if he really likes you, then tell him you don't like him 'that way' and hopefully he'll understand.

[my world]

hopefully... because hes really nice! .. ill ask him tomorrow in school.

[MrElsewhere]

Watch him closely. Does he often try to "sneakily" look at you? Does he smile and say hi when he sees you? Does he look at you kinda "weird?" Do you ever get "vibes" from him that tell you he has feelings for you? always trust your instincts. they're right 90% of the time. or just ask him.

[my world]

Watch him closely. Does he often try to "sneakily" look at you?
well, today im music class, he was like looking at me everytime i turned around

Does he smile and say hi when he sees you?
only online.. and sometimes in person

Does he look at you kinda "weird?"
im not sure what you mean.

Do you ever get "vibes" from him that tell you he has feelings for you?
yes.. sometimes. hes so .. really nice! .. and he likes to do things for me.. and stuff like that

always trust your instincts. they're right 90% of the time. or just ask him.
i did ask him. but he said no. but people at my age mostly deny it.. and im sure he denied it because of his rep. with mine.

[xheavenzcentzx]

i did ask him. but he said no. but people at my age mostly deny it.. and im sure he denied it because of his rep. with mine.

Woah.. you actually asked him? tehe thats awesome,i couldn't do that, go yoU!!

[my world]

lmao yea i asked him.. i was waiting for a reply.. he was like there for half an hour before he responded..

[*Azarel*]

well theres this guy at my school

Yeah, you know that one guy we met that one time? With the hair? Yeah! Totally! /end sarcasm.

I have nothing more to say.

[my world]

omg i thought of something.. and im wondering if it means i like him.. well.. me and him and a bunch of other people from school joined this ski/snowboarding club and i was hopping that he could go and i could be late so i can sit with him in the back and fall asleep on his shoulder.. thats the dream i had.. is that love? or just something because of his niceness?

[pympgangsta4real]

Prolly not love, more of a lust thing, or maybe just something that you want to try. I know that's what I did with my last girl... loved her, but not instantly. Anyway, don't bet on it being love already... love is a very powerful word. Never underestimate it, or cheapen its value. Either way, if you're thinking like that, then I say go for it with him. Hah hah this sounds like my sitation, 'cept I'll be asking the girl out within two weeks or so, I wanna talk to her and get to know her some more.