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well.
my parents are really restricting. they don't let me wear skirts, dresses, and cute tops like halters, tubetops, and spaghetti straps. i don't know why, and sometimes i feel left out. I've missed all my formal dances so far [5 of them to be exact]. i don't know whats wrong with it. Is there anything i can do to convince them.? |
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Dec 8 2004, 11:30 PM
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 stuck in my own little world Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,778 |
maybe you should show them that ur responsible...iono my parents were like that until they thought i was mature enough
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Dec 9 2004, 12:36 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You know, I've NEVER been to a high school dance before, so if I were you, I wouldn't be too worried. But anyway, woah no dresses and skirts? Well my mom always wants me to wear a sweater/jacket lol becuaset it's always cold in the morning and whatnot. But even so, I still wear spaghetti straps underneath. My parents used to not let me go out and go to my friend's house or any birthday parties... so my parents are strict too... but now they're loosening up.. and yea I can go out now. Best of luck with your parents! Just remember, a few more years and then you'll be 18 and you can wear and do whatever you want
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Dec 9 2004, 12:51 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
it just takes time... maybe your still young... they have to feel like they can trust you or that its not that revealing maybe they see otehr irls in those clotehs and they look slutty in it..
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Dec 9 2004, 03:50 AM
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 jellobean Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,478 |
i dun think they're being restrictive...perhaps..over-protective??they r protective..which means they care ALOT bout u..n all u should do is soak in all e care..BUT..u can also tell them tat if they dun let u wear skirts n dresses..u may become a tom-boy...(a joke..n it should depend on how strict ur parents r 2 tell them tat..)tat should scare them abit..haha..n also..try not 2 go too over if they allow u e 1st step of freedom..coz they're juz testing whether they can trust u..yea??hahaha.. otherwise...cheer up!!!they wont get b so strict in yrs 2 come..bye!
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Dec 9 2004, 04:57 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
my parents are over-protective too.
i'm allowed to wear tank tops, spaghetti straps, skirts/dresses. but no tube tops. i'm allowed to go to dances, but not sleepovers because they think i'm too old for that. but maybe you are a bit young, don't worry you're not missing out on too much. |
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Dec 9 2004, 06:12 AM
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 =) Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,624 |
They probably want to keep you a little girl forever. They're having trouble letting go of their little girl.
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Dec 9 2004, 08:45 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
Well, how old are you?
Sometimes when you're in the scene, it isn't really that special anymore. Just do your best in school to prove that you are mature enough. 400th post BTW =] |
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Dec 9 2004, 05:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 219 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,958 |
my parents are like that too, but i know they do it cuz they care and want the best for me. i've done some wrong things in the past so i guess i deserve the restrictions i get from them. the best thing to do is to build up their trust cuz eventually they'll become less strict once they realized that your growing up to become a good person. it worked with my parents. anywho good luck with everything.
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