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 Dec 8 2004, 09:29 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch.  Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643  |
I used to hang out with the slightly more "popular" kids, who were all my best friends before. They could mostly relate to whatever I was feeling, like crushes or whatever. And then I don't know why, they started ignoring me, ditching me, for some reason. What, was I not good enough for them? I soon felt completely weirded out around them because I didn't feel like I was accepted. I figured they weren't really "friends" anyway so I went to hang out with my other friends, who weren't exactly "popular" and didn't have the same topics as my old friends.
I don't think I fit in with them either. Whenever I talk about some guy I like or something, they can't relate, because most of them haven't ever even thought about boys or that kind of stuff. I want to go shopping at some store like American Eagle or whatever, they're not interested because hanging out at the mall isn't "them." If I talk about a serious personal problem, they can't relate because their lives are too simple. And also, that whole group of friends have known each other a lot longer, and I feel like an outsider sometimes. It often feels like they don't want me in their group. And for some sort of reason, all my friends are at least two inches shorter than me, so I always feel like some sort of awkward pole sticking out. 
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Dec 8 2004, 09:42 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
hang in there girl. you'll soon find the 'bestest' friends you can ever find (that made any sense?) give it time. some one whom you could relate to.
you don't need friends like them that ditches someone half way. |
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Dec 8 2004, 09:52 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Dec 8 2004, 9:42 PM) hang in there girl. you'll soon find the 'bestest' friends you can ever find (that made any sense?) give it time. some one whom you could relate to. you don't need friends like them that ditches someone half way. what she said. your time will come... keep your hopes high, kay? 
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Dec 9 2004, 05:23 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,957 |
tats how I feel b4 too, but den later I found a group of freidns to hang out with, they are not totally have things in common wit me, but dun matter as long as u can be urself and have fun around dem den it's fine, sumtime striving for the perfect friend might not always be a gud choice, I mean best friends doesnt mean they have to have everything in common, u noe what I mean?
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Dec 9 2004, 05:24 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
hang in there, you'll soon find people who you can relate to, ones who are true friends.
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Dec 9 2004, 06:57 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
 awwwwww... don't worry! You're not not accepted. Have you ever think about it this way? If you and your friends had the same thing to talk about then it'll be pretty boring. So maybe you can try doing things your other friends likes ^^ and for those group of friends that ditched and ignored u. Find someone else to hang out with! ^^ because with friends like those. who needs enemies? 
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Dec 9 2004, 08:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
well with the less "popular" people. i dont think you should hang with them. because obviously it doesnt work out. i mean you guys do and like different things.
maybe you should try what they like to do. other than american eagle and boys 
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Dec 9 2004, 10:45 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
aww don't worry about this. ditch them and make new ones. There's always someone who has same interests with you so try to find that person. Yeah. It's happening to me too. My old best friends started ignoring me but I found new friends so it's alright for now. =]
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Dec 10 2004, 02:38 AM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
"Popular" people tend not to be very good friends, because they will move on with people, just as they do with their freaky fashion mood swings.
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Dec 10 2004, 10:08 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(espionage @ Dec 10 2004, 2:38 AM) "Popular" people tend not to be very good friends, because they will move on with people, just as they do with their freaky fashion mood swings. Then again, you can't stereotype "popular people", because it all boils down to - What is being popular? |
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Dec 10 2004, 11:09 PM
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 Canadian Boyfriend, I think it's time Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,705 |
Wow...that's odd because that is the exact same situation I am in right now, except for the fact that all of my friends are guys and all they talk about is sex. It sucks a lot because I can't tal about girl problems with anyone..It sucks major balls.
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Dec 11 2004, 02:22 PM
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i know wat u mean. iv been there.... don't worry sooner or later u'll find ur tru friends just wait and see.... ur "pouplar" friends don't seem like good friends.... there mean.... i wonder why they diched u and stuff. just find new friends. hang around in gruop socials or something. u could find friends there. even if ur new friends don't have anything in common with u, there still friends. ^.^ just b positive!
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