advice for a guy, from a girl Options

[eloCiN]

need a couple of advices..

tho there are a couple of posts alrdy like this, but im kinda to lazy to look.. i saw one, but didnt really help me.. maybe if i start a new 1 it would

well this girl.. i dono really how to talk to her.. shes outgoing.. nice.. friendly.. were friends n stuff.. i dono how to talk to her like to start a conversation.. you people tell us to say stuff like "hi, what u doin" that isnt much of an answer. like how?? a good topic to start on?? a good way to start a conversation

and also.. she has a birthday after mine.. and im thinking of like taking her to the movies or somewhere to chill to celebrate her n my bday, what ya think??

thanks

[KingdomHeartsFan]

that's a good idea...if u can talk 2 her and ask her!! lol. don't worry. Im sure u can find the courage inside urself and ask her. and 4 the conversation thing, try starting out w/ the things she lykes 2 talk about.

[sweetest-emotion]

yea do wat kingdomheartsfan said. go out then and also just talk about stuff that u and she likes. ask her wat kind of music she likes, and if you don't agree, then say it! girls like a lil challenge, and plus if a lil "argument" comes along then it'll hopefuly start a convo, and you can even put in a few cute "punches". lol. i say just go with it. if you've herd a funny joke, then tell it, if you see sumthing random while ur with her, point it out to make you both laugh. but most importantly SMILE! it shows the girl that not only are you having a good time, but that you're having a good time WITH HER. girl's luv to be with someone but we also like to be someone's attention. just go with it and good luck! knock em' dead!

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

talk about one of her hobbies, do u know anything shes interested in? and if its just a random momment, just go up to her, notice anything around her or whats she doing and talk to her about that and gradually work ur way into asking her to go somewhere with u.