My best friends boyfriend..., Oh god... Options

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

Me and my best friend both have boyfriends. Last year I thought hers was a jerk, but this year hes in my 5th period class and i think hes cool. We're really good friends this year. I dont have any feelings toward him, and he doesnt towards me. Its just we enjoy eachothers company. I feel that my bff is starting to get upset that i spend more time with him than she does, and there have been rumors about me and her boyfriend. But none of them are true. I have my own boyfriend. I like him. Me and Nick (bff's bf) are just friends. I know all of you would prolly say "If she doesnt trust you, shes not a good friend" but i know if i heard 10 people tell me that my bff was making out with my bf i would be a little worried. Just because we laugh at eachothers jokes and tell secrets and stuff the TEACHERS even think we are flirting! BFF was talking to my 5th period teacher telling her who everyone's boyfriends are... and 5th period teacher says "I didnt think angel would have a boyfriend cuz she always flirts with nick" I DONT! We have fun together! This is pissing me off because i only like him as a friend. Not as anything else. I dont want to stop being friends with him so the rumors would stop, because i think i'd loose a good friend. Im so lost. What do i do?

[HaN4RaNg]

screw what everyone says. they're a bunch of liers that either envy u, enjoy starting drama, or r crappy friends. tell ur best friend once and forall that u dont like her boyfriend. she shouldnt b so worried about u 2. afterall, guys r allowed to have girl friends and vise versa. u should spend more time with ur boyfriend. i know ur having fun with this dude, but u have to take into consideration that it gives off a bad vibe to the ppl around u as well as ur boyfriend and best friend.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

yeah i spend lots of time with Don and nick at the same time. (don is my boyfriend).

mostly when i hang out with nick, i hang out with don.

which is stupid people are saying i flirt with nick when don is right there...

[aznhunnie6o1]

mehh i had the same problem that your boyfriend has with my ex.. i used to think he liked my best friend cause he flirted with her alot [or atleast it seemed like it] and it really hurt me... maybe you should hang out with 'nick' less and hang out with 'don' more and have alone time with 'don' or else he might break up with you..

[mirage]

tell your friend straight out that you don't like her boyfriend that way.

[KingdomHeartsFan]

OOO better watch it. Im in the same situation ryte now. WEll, my best advice would be:

Don't try 2 flirt with him that much. no hugs, no kisses...etc, u get the point. Tell ur friends the straight facts. U don't lyke him! U only lyke him as a friend. *nods her head*

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

ew... i dont hug nick at all... let alone kiss...

[*stephinika*]

yeah i would talk to your friend and tell her not to listen to the rumours. cause that's just stupid. i have tons of really good guy friends but that doesn't mean i flirt with them or anything like that, thought it can sometimes look it.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

thanks. i will.

[KissMe2408]

lol yah screw what everyone thinks, especially your teachers! who really cares what they think neway? The only opinion that really matters is your friends. So if she's ur best friend, then just talk to her adn tell her your problem, she'll prolly understand. And about nick, just act like you always would with him, you could probably tell him about this situation too, wouldn't hurt

[*x____duckii*]

Just ignore people. Talk to your friend. Tell her that you don't like him that way. If she really is your friend, she'll obviously listen.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

thanks guys.