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 Nov 26 2004, 06:01 PM
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im over cuttin my self dont do it anymore but my bf doesnt trust me anymore he always thinks i do it when i go to the washroom nd stuff =S its rele creappeee that he styll thinks that after like 2months of me stoppinnn wat to doo??
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Nov 26 2004, 06:04 PM
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English, please.
 And I don't know if this helps...but... show him your wrists and that it's cut-free. Duh? I don't know if I answered your question because I didn't understand it.. 
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Nov 26 2004, 06:18 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Wow.
Uhm. Are you that illiterate offline, too?! Okay, anyway. Yeah. What Jenny said. Just show him where you would normally cut. Badabing, badaboom. <--Wow, I can't believe I just said that. |
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Nov 26 2004, 06:54 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
he doesnt trust you becuz he cares for you and are afraid you'll get hurt. in a way you should be glad??? but hmm...why dont you, for one..just tell him how you feel...tell him straight to his face..that if he keeps doing this..you'll leave them?? whoa..wait..thats kinda harsh..just tell him the situation.
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Nov 26 2004, 06:56 PM
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...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
[ edit ]
*him [ /edit ] |
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Nov 26 2004, 07:06 PM
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 tomorrow is a new day Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,956 |
there are many things to show him that you have changed. One as someone mentioned show him your wrists and two TALK TO HIM. If he loves you then he should trust you just have a down to earth conversation with him. Since you guys love eachother it wont be to hard for him to understand. Good Luck
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Nov 26 2004, 07:38 PM
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hes only caring for u. look at it as a good thing. spend a lota time with him and dont try to xcuse urself away from him a lot, thats what gets guys thinking that ur doing something that they shouldnt b seeing. but anyway, its sweet of him to still care even if he does doubt u. hes only watching out for ur health
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Nov 26 2004, 07:42 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
your a black cutter (were)??? ME TOO!!!! (i was) no worries, i had the same problems. Just be like *cant u trust me for once damn...see NE new wounds?? no so back off* or somethin. somethin straight out
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Nov 27 2004, 12:15 AM
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he jus kares bout u..i guess you hearin that alot, but just tel ya man that he gotta chill and trust you ..thaz why ya in a relationship rite?
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Nov 27 2004, 12:33 AM
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well if he doesnt believe u wen u tell him, then he isnt a true good boyfriend. u could always pull up ur sleeves and show him that there are no new scars.......yeah thats all i can think of at the moment
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Nov 27 2004, 06:22 AM
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I used to hurt myself too. I told my ex and we talked for a long time. After a while I quited. But there were still times when he's get scared when I cried and stuff. Coz that's when I tend to hurt myself. I noticed how worried he got so I talked with him and told him I wasn't going to do that anymore because i ddin't want others to get worried, the way he was then. so yeah, just talk to him about it.
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Nov 27 2004, 07:30 PM
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way to be the 1000038528 person to make a topic like this =)
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Nov 27 2004, 09:51 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
show him ur wrist and say 'does it look like i cut?'
or maybe in a nicer way but neway i cut myself today. not purposly. i ran up the the stairs and the little thing just cut me . ow |
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Nov 30 2004, 02:56 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
uhh can you um correct what you have said up there... i had no clue what you were saying.. the only part i understand was that your boyfriend doesn't trust you that you stopped cutting...ehhh
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