Does he lyke me..?, as a best friend, or crush? |
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 Nov 25 2004, 08:32 PM
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I have a best friend that i have fallen 4, and i dunno if he has fallen 4 me, but I personally think so. My friends do 2....i think. I talk 2 him on the phone and on aim 4 a long time. One of my friends told me that he told her that he had a crush on me. But then agen, he flirts a lot. I've started hugging him 2. He doesn't seem 2 mind..that much....oh yah, i read sumthing in the boys locker room (i no. i shouldn't go there) that a boy may lyke u if he can sing 2 u comfortably. well he lykes singing 2 me, but....he wants 2 become a singer....he lykes 2 flirt A LOT with me 2, so i can't tell if he really means it or not., and i can't ask him if he lykes me, cuz he'll probably hide his feelings...i dunno if u guys get wut im saying, but im really confused...
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Nov 25 2004, 08:37 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
It's ok, everyone goes to the guys locker room. From what your telling us I think he does like you.
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Nov 25 2004, 10:32 PM
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 vertically challenged Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,342 |
Depends on the guy.. Of course he'll like you if you guys are such good friends. But does he like you THAT way and does he want to be with you differently? Well every guy is different probably.. my guy friend did the same thing and I found out he does like me in that way, but he doesn't want to be with me that way differently so your best bet is to just ask him if ur so curious
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Nov 25 2004, 11:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
QUOTE(s0emotionalx3 @ Nov 25 2004, 10:32 PM) Depends on the guy.. Of course he'll like you if you guys are such good friends. But does he like you THAT way and does he want to be with you differently? Well every guy is different probably.. my guy friend did the same thing and I found out he does like me in that way, but he doesn't want to be with me that way differently so your best bet is to just ask him if ur so curious I agree =] I was going to say the same thing 
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Nov 26 2004, 03:09 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
well..he could be just one of those guys who very close
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Nov 26 2004, 03:36 AM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Well, Jessica. I understand your problem...Because you practically talk about it oh say...everyday. Well with *him*, y'know, he's kinda unpredictable. From my point of view though, he does use you sometimes, but I do personally think that he has feelings for you. Ahem...yeah.
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Nov 26 2004, 03:40 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,630 |
ew, flirtacious guys *gags* haha, jk. i personally dont like em, they're so unpredictable and hard to take them seriously cus they're so playful. if i were u, i'd b straight up and tell him u like him. dont ask if he likes u, he'll tell u if he does or not when the time is right. but atleast let him know how u really think of him.
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Nov 26 2004, 11:35 AM
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im kinda iffy on this...
- most guys i know like hugging grls, it doesnt necessarily mean that they have a crush on u... - if he wants to become a singer, then i dont think its really that out of the ordinary to sing to you... but as i look at all this again...this is kinda how me n my bf got togetha... we started hugging cuz one day he wanted a hug n i dont normally hug ppl...we talked on aim all the time n that evolved into talkin on the phone...he sings wen he listens to music... my advice= give it some time, it took awhile for my bf to come around n admit that he liked me 
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Nov 26 2004, 12:09 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
just stay as friends, but don`t seem turned off by him. keep him guessing, not you.
if he likes you, congratulations! |
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Nov 26 2004, 12:30 PM
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A.) i hug everyone. it's just a friendly gesture. it doesn't mean that he's totally into you.
B.) i hate it when everyone talks about how they talk on AIM or the phone for hours. so what? have you ever even hung out with him? done anything together that dosen't include sitting on the computer the whole day? why don't you invite him out to the movies with a group of friends? C.) why don't you just ask him out? the worst he can do is say no. so what? there are plenty of other fish in the sea. D.) well if he wants to become a singer...i don't think that's really something special only for you. obviously he probably sings to alot of people. you know? so sorry...i don't think you can count that as a way to tell if he likes you or not. sorry. i know alot of the stuff i said was pretty harsh/mean i guess? i'm just kind of in a pissed off mood. |
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Nov 26 2004, 12:31 PM
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I don't know. How should we know? Are we him? No. Make your life simple and go ask him.
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Nov 26 2004, 01:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,769 |
hmmm.......i guess u guys r ryte...
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Nov 26 2004, 04:52 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
 why dont u just pretend to flirt to someone(a guy) and see how he takes it???
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Nov 26 2004, 07:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,769 |
I did that before. It was a huge mess. He got really upset, cuz i flirted with his BEST FRIEND, and then ppl started 2 think that I lyked his friend more than i lyke him
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Nov 26 2004, 08:32 PM
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that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Then, Jessica, stop flirting with Kason. It makes him think that you like him instead. Just ask him. You never tried that, did you?
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Nov 26 2004, 08:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
QUOTE(unfortunatekiwi @ Nov 26 2004, 9:30 AM) A.) i hug everyone. it's just a friendly gesture. it doesn't mean that he's totally into you. B.) i hate it when everyone talks about how they talk on AIM or the phone for hours. so what? have you ever even hung out with him? done anything together that dosen't include sitting on the computer the whole day? why don't you invite him out to the movies with a group of friends? C.) why don't you just ask him out? the worst he can do is say no. so what? there are plenty of other fish in the sea. D.) well if he wants to become a singer...i don't think that's really something special only for you. obviously he probably sings to alot of people. you know? so sorry...i don't think you can count that as a way to tell if he likes you or not. sorry. i know alot of the stuff i said was pretty harsh/mean i guess? i'm just kind of in a pissed off mood. YOU TOOK ALL THE WORDS OUT OF MY MOUTH.  Listen to the Kiwi. Just ask him out. |
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Nov 27 2004, 12:03 AM
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uh i dont think so..i hug like ALOT of boyz in my school nd there all like my bez friends kuz they alwayz got mah bakk..i thihnk its more of a buddy thing...wen i started believin that wen i lyked this guy..mann wuz i wrong...but juz have faith that he does [in this sitchuation!!]
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Jan 24 2005, 06:00 PM
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umm i think he likes u butt im not sure.. cuz im in the same situation and i cant tell >.<
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Jan 24 2005, 06:23 PM
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see if you can lead him on
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Jan 24 2005, 07:30 PM
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He probably does... The same thing just happened to me!!! And he asked me out on Friday..Good Luck!!!!
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Jan 24 2005, 07:35 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
I think he does. Try to find out other ways to be 100% sure. Like you could ask his friends some questions, etc. iono...lol
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Jan 24 2005, 07:38 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
it depends..if this guy is usually shy and he flirts a lot then maybe he does. my best friend flirts a lot..and i have long conversations with him..and he likes singing to me [? haha he sings country songs in the car..not really to me though] erm so yeah..i suppose just observe and try to find out.
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Jan 24 2005, 07:54 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
uhm, can't you just ask him?
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Jan 24 2005, 10:50 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(teenprincess @ Nov 25 2004, 5:37 PM) It's ok, everyone goes to the guys locker room. From what your telling us I think he does like you.  agreed  ask him about it [:!
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Jan 25 2005, 01:34 AM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
Guy's are soo different.
but from what you stated i think he really likes you 
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Jan 25 2005, 01:35 AM
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He doesn't like you as either, you stupid piece of shit. He wants you to die.
/end useless advice. |
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Jan 25 2005, 03:51 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ that's not nice.
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Nov 27 2004, 1:09 AM) just stay as friends, but don`t seem turned off by him. keep him guessing, not you. omg sooooo true. that's my motto or kinda like my strategy..  haw haw.anyway, i think you should try flirting with him and HIM ONLY for a day.. see what happens. and i don't get how you guys can just go straight up to a guy and tell him you like him. isn't it.. awkward?  i get so freaked out at the idea of gettin turned down 
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Jan 25 2005, 05:12 AM
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ask him.
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Jan 25 2005, 05:17 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
QUOTE(angelic_grl @ Nov 25 2004, 8:32 PM) I have a best friend that i have fallen 4, and i dunno if he has fallen 4 me, but I personally think so. My friends do 2....i think. I talk 2 him on the phone and on aim 4 a long time. One of my friends told me that he told her that he had a crush on me. But then agen, he flirts a lot. I've started hugging him 2. He doesn't seem 2 mind..that much....oh yah, i read sumthing in the boys locker room (i no. i shouldn't go there) that a boy may lyke u if he can sing 2 u comfortably. well he lykes singing 2 me, but....he wants 2 become a singer....he lykes 2 flirt A LOT with me 2, so i can't tell if he really means it or not., and i can't ask him if he lykes me, cuz he'll probably hide his feelings...i dunno if u guys get wut im saying, but im really confused... whats with all the "2"s  i agree with you. i think he likes you too (: glucks |
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Jan 25 2005, 05:18 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
not necessarily. i hug guys a lot. i talk to guys online for a long time, and i flirt w/ guys. but does that mean they like me or vice versa? no. and, i have a close guy friend who can sing comfortably when he's with me. or maybe that's cuz he's a singer...hahaha
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Jan 25 2005, 06:36 AM
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naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ you're right. same here.
soo i guess the best way would be asking him beware, though. analyze his answer carefully before replying. guys can be very tricky. |
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Jan 25 2005, 08:38 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I swear there's like 4059784085089 topics on these kind of problems.
It seems like you like him.. so just ask him. Simple. |
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Feb 6 2005, 08:11 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
ASK HIM OUT
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