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breaking up =\, ... i just cant do it.
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post Nov 24 2004, 08:45 PM
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i have this boyfriend and he's starting to really get on my nerves.
i've talked to him to stop following me around school but he just says okay and still follows me.
anyway, what i want to ask is how do i break up with a guy... and like... not hurt his feelings that's not possible but what's the closest way?
because he's getting on my nerves and i cant stand him =\ people make fun of us and he's becoming my personal stalker.
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 08:55 PM
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whoa... juss say that you dont see things really working out and that to give you some space for awhile.
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 09:05 PM
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^ Yeah, tell him you don't like him always right behind you. I mean you want a boyfriend not a lost puppy, right?
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 09:07 PM
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You could tell him:

"I'm sorry, but I just have to break up with you. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, and I'm really, terribly sorry."

And yes, tell him that you need some space and just some alone time with yourself.

Something like that.

Hope it works out. cry.gif
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 09:16 PM
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hmmm ... be lyk ' its not u, its me ' LOL no thats corny ...

just tell him how u feel and if he doesnt understand then screw him.
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 09:16 PM
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yeah... i know he really really cares about me... but i just dont have the heart to tell him...
omigawd :S there's no other way to tell him than to not tell him... soo... i'll try that.. thanks throb.gif
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 09:17 PM
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QUOTE(caytexo @ Nov 24 2004, 9:16 PM)
hmmm ... be lyk ' its not u, its me ' LOL no thats corny ...

just tell him how u feel and if he doesnt understand then screw him.

lol that is corny.
that's like the line i hate when people use.
because truly they know it IS them and not... me. O_O and eww i wont screw him after i break up. that's just wrong, laugh.gif
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(caytexo @ Nov 24 2004, 9:16 PM)
hmmm ... be lyk ' its not u, its me ' LOL no thats corny ...

i used that. it worked but he stil kidna follows me
 
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post Nov 24 2004, 10:18 PM
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How about...

"IM sorry, this just can't work out. I DO lyke u. just not in THAT way. WE need a little time apart. "
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 01:49 AM
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oh goosness gracious. just say its over. things aren't working out. _dry.gif
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 02:52 AM
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Say you're creeped out. O_o

Just.. say you don't things are working out on BOTH sides.
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 03:26 AM
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Tell him that you need to be alone sometimes. If he's really bugging you that much, tell him things aren't going to work out if he keeps following you.
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 03:45 AM
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i don't think there is a possible way of breaking up with someone without hurting them. but good luck
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 07:00 AM
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I feel yah girl, I had the same situation a few years ago, but the thing was I was soo afraid of hurting him and plus i got really close to his friends and family. sad.gif But I finally got up the courage and said, "you know what, you're such a sweet guy and you really deserve someone that can give you all that you're looking for, but i don't think i'm her." And after i broke up with him i felt sooo relieved biggrin.gif So, basically just tell him the truth, he'll understand if he's a good guy, and it's highly unlikely when you go out with someone that when breaking up comes along that no ones going to get hurt. I mean everyone gets hurt in relationships, its ineviable. But if you feel this way, you better brake it off now, better sooner then later. and trust me you'll feel soo relieved after it _smile.gif

If you're worried about losing friends over it too, don't worry. Because after i broke up with the guy, his friends understood, n' they were cool. and if they don't understand then you really don't need to be hanging with those ppl. lol hope i helped ~K
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 05:07 PM
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same situation wit me . .. but too bad i got dat guy really pissed , which i was tryin to do , n he hated me n shitz , n start talkin shit about me


[QUOTE] guys r just so weird , just say , give me time .. . n lets talk things out before u do anything . . [QUOTE]
 
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post Nov 25 2004, 05:13 PM
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im a guy. and i think u should just crush his hearts.ahahhaha. since he's a jerk like u said lol.
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 04:45 AM
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do it if you are now hapi
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 05:32 AM
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QUOTE(caytexo @ Nov 24 2004, 6:16 PM)
hmmm ... be lyk ' its not u, its me ' LOL no thats corny ...

just tell him how u feel and if he doesnt understand then screw him.
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ahhaha laugh.gif agreed. good luck with that flowers.gif
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 05:37 AM
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breaking up with guy is easy.
guy on;y have tempory feeling
they get over it fast unlike girl.
just tell him in the nice manner as possible.
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 08:11 AM
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I would say "Right now, I'm not in a mood to have a relationship. So I need a big space. So I want to break up with you. It's not like I hate you or I found another guy. It's just that I want to have my own freedom for awhile."

Heh... I hope that helps?
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 08:13 AM
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be direct. he'll get over it.
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 08:52 AM
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tell him straight to his face.
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 02:20 PM
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yeah i had that problem with my bf a few weeks ago...but i'm not sure if what i do will work for you
i just told him what bothered me and like, how hes not giving me enough "room" ...heh, but it worked :]

man, love him SOO MUCH!
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 03:45 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Nov 24 2004, 3:45 PM)
i have this boyfriend and he's starting to really get on my nerves.
i've talked to him to stop following me around school but he just says okay and still follows me.
anyway, what i want to ask is how do i break up with a guy... and like... not hurt his feelings that's not possible but what's the closest way?
because he's getting on my nerves and i cant stand him =\ people make fun of us and he's becoming my personal stalker.
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something similar is happening to me...except the person isnt talking to me...
anyways, tell him that u need space...
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 05:52 PM
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just tell him this is not suposed to be offensive n tell him what your supposeed to do...
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 05:57 PM
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just tell him (nicely) that you think it'd be best not for you guys to go out anymore and give him the reasons. its better to do it than to prolong it.
 
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//edit// augh stupid computer...

sorry for the double post.
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 06:21 PM
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Just tell him straight to his face. "things aren't working out between us. i think it's best we remained friends." Why did you go out with him in the first place if you knew he was like this?
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 06:43 PM
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Well whatever you do, dont say I just want to be friends. That pushed my last boyfriend over the edge..
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 06:49 PM
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Wait, aren't you 11?

Guys can't love that much when they are 11.
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 07:10 PM
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Be strong; and get it over with.
Break it to him gentle- but hit him with the truth.
It's what he needs to hear. pinch.gif
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 07:39 PM
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say i really dont feel the way i did when we first started to date and i dont think its best for us to be together anymore. im sorry i dont want to hurt your feelings
 
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post Jan 22 2005, 08:03 PM
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i would just tell him to back off..and give u some space..but not like scream that at him..just in a nice way
 
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post Jan 24 2005, 06:17 PM
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this is hard....
 
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post Jan 24 2005, 06:20 PM
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errm you can always warn him about 3 more times. if it still dont work, tell him off and leave. cant be tht hard now..
 
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post Jan 24 2005, 06:25 PM
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try to tell him again to stop following you, if he dont listen... u gotta break up. tell him that u kno he cares bout u but u dont think u shud go out anymore bc u dont lyke the way ur relationship is going.
 
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post Jan 24 2005, 07:03 PM
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just tell him. no one wants to have someone drag out the fact they the other wants to break up. just tell him in the nicest way possible. tell him that y'all will still be friends. (if you want...) and if he gets all mad and hates you after that, that is his loss.
 
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juat say "you don't wnat to be in a relationship anymore"
 
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post Jan 25 2005, 01:11 AM
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don't be too harsh on him but try do it when you feel it is rite. you don't want to be in a relationship full of pity...
 
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post Jan 30 2005, 03:57 PM
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If you can't break up with him, then have a stalker for the rest of your life. Have fun with that.
 
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post Jan 30 2005, 04:08 PM
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use the oh so famous line
"i need some time"
 
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post Jan 30 2005, 06:01 PM
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just tell him get the f^!k away!!!!
 
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