Breaking Up, When do u think is the time to breakup?? Options

[scarlet]

Aight ppl, a simple question;

When do you think is the right time to break up in a relationship with the person you're In Love with??

I just wanna kno what your opinion on this is... like; when, why, where, what, how, etc...



Ok, personaly I think a relationship should stop when one or both sides feels extremely miserable and betrayed, when it comes to the point where he/she can't take it no more and tried to deal with it but it's just impossible. Well like, a simple fight and disagreement shouldnt cause this really, cus every relationship needs effort and sacrifice. And when these sacrifices is just tooo much or isnt balanced between their hapinnes in both sides, it's time. Where it takes place shouldnt matter that much, as long as there's enough privacy around. Then, I would talk about it and let that person know how I feel and explain why this happens before I actually broke up with the person. but hey, this is just my personal opinion what's yours???

[inthemudhole]

Er.
When you have lost the feeling for each other.. or at least the feeling is no longer mutual.
Or if they've/you've done something horrific to you/them.

[_sarcastic_]

when? i think its when both sides lose interest for each other, when the relationship isn't going any where or it was a BIG fight. or cheating
why? because you just don't feel the chemistry anymore, maybe they've made you really mad and pissed off or they've cheated on you (maybe more than once)
where? well when the time is right i guess
how? just by telling them, or ask them how they feel about the relationship. talking to them


i don't really know cause i haven't broken up with anyone before

[Nicolatofu]

When you don't feel the same way you felt about him/her when you first started dating when he/she irritates you more than you enjoy him/her around. i dunno, that's pretty muchit with me!

[Winter]

You said someone you're still I love with so I'm gonna answer to that.

For me, it's when you are so caught up with each other, you're letting everything else fall apart. At first you think, 'It's alright we have each other.' But it's not okay.

I broke up with an ex I loved very much because being with him took a lot of my time. He wasn't around much so when he was, we could spent hours or even days together. And while he was away, I thought of him too much. So I decided to break up with him and just concentrate on me.

[ShadowPixie]

It's time for it to end when there is no more love between the two of you.

[xbr0kensmil3]

when you both decide to take a break

[kiSHBall]

my opinion, when one person in the relationship doesnt have feelings anymore
it takes two people to create a couple, not one.. so ya.
otherwize i dont see any other reason why u should break up with someone u are so totally IN LUV with

[LostInMyKryptoni...]

in my opinon it's time to break up with someone, when you cant trust them anymore, or you feel like they dont respect you or they aren't honest, or if things just dont feel right, you just gotta follow your heart when the time to break up comes, you'll know.

[christiee_nax]

when you've lost the feeling completely. you dont feel as strongly as before anymore. you're starting to daydream aboiut company of other men, you start hiding things from them, you're not as open anymore and vice versa

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[177emories]

if i'm in love with him why would i wanna break up... possibly NEVER.

[sammehmyst]

When nothing goes right.
When you feel uncomfortable.
When s/he disrespects you intentionally.

Etc.

[jnukes]

when you lose interest in each other


and basically all that sammehmyst said

[bad_girl]

u shouldn't break up with someone u are IN LOVE with.

[lilJdawg]

Uh. My defination of breaking up.

" when you lose feelings with each other, when things aren't working out as it seems to be, when you lose intrest in each other & don't want to be together any longer "

[tooeffingcrazy]

Why would you want to break up with someone when you love them...

[MrElsewhere]

When there isn't that special feeling anymore.

[Cinnamoneyes]

[color=blue]Aight ppl, a simple question;
[b]
Ok, personaly I think a relationship should stop when one or both sides feels extremely miserable and betrayed, when it comes to the point where he/she can't take it no more and tried to deal with it but it's just impossible. Well like, a simple fight and disagreement shouldnt cause this really, cus every relationship needs effort and sacrifice. And when these sacrifices is just tooo much or isnt balanced between their hapinnes in both sides, it's time. Where it takes place shouldnt matter that much, as long as there's enough privacy around. Then, I would talk about it and let that person know how I feel and explain why this happens before I actually broke up with the person. but hey, this is just my personal opinion  what's yours???

ehh.. that makes me sad. That says I should break up with my b/f. Which hasnt been to far from the mind. Guess it's just been put into perspective.

[Cinnamoneyes]

[color=blue]Aight ppl, a simple question;
[b]
Ok, personaly I think a relationship should stop when one or both sides feels extremely miserable and betrayed, when it comes to the point where he/she can't take it no more and tried to deal with it but it's just impossible. Well like, a simple fight and disagreement shouldnt cause this really, cus every relationship needs effort and sacrifice. And when these sacrifices is just tooo much or isnt balanced between their hapinnes in both sides, it's time. Where it takes place shouldnt matter that much, as long as there's enough privacy around. Then, I would talk about it and let that person know how I feel and explain why this happens before I actually broke up with the person. but hey, this is just my personal opinion  what's yours???

ehh.. this makes me sad. It basically says I should be breaking up with my b/f anytime now. Which hasnt been to far from my mind. Guess it's just all put into perspective.