i feel soo left out.., in a group of popular ppl |
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 Nov 20 2004, 12:48 AM
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okae .. well dis year .. me and my very best friend lily got different teachers! >:[ and we got different lunchtimes and everything. but twice a week i get lunch with her and i guess that's good enough. but anyways .. i was neva really popular .. but lily, with her classes, she's gotten to be friends with some of the popular girls and stuff .. and at lunch .. she hangz out wit them so i just kind of tag along .. but i neva hav anything to talk about with them .. because lily's friends don't really notice me or anything. and with the different teachers and stuff, we can't exactly talk about school stuff. and now we have different friends that don't know each other, so we can't talk about our friends either. and lily's popular friends .. well .. i just dont like em!! dey never say hi to me or anything .. it's lyk im INVISIBLE when im in that "popular group." i try making jokes and helping em out and stuff but no one cares. one of lily's popular friends, amanda, had like a bday party on wednesday .. and i kinna thot she'd invite me since i eat lunch with her and we SORTA talk ... and she invited lily and al the other stupid popular girlz of course .. but i wanted to kno why i wasn't invited so i went onto lily's sn and asked amanda .. dis is tha convo .. btw .. "ducky" is lily and "honey" is amanda:
ducky: hiyahhh! h0ney: LILLY!!!! HEYY!!!!!! ducky: yer parti ws fun, u kno h0ney: yea it was awesomeeeeeee ducky: why waznt my frend invited? h0ney: who's yOur friend? ducky: u know .. that girl .. who hangs out with me during lunch and stuff .. she's tall and skinny .. h0ney: oh ... her? i dont even knoe wtf is her name ducky: uh .. its bella ... h0ney: okae. i don't like dis bella .. shes like a total geek and stuff!!!! she needz other frends ..... ducky: ...... okay... but you talk to her at school durin lunch sometiems.. h0ney: because i feel sorri for her .. DURR! shez a wannabe popular girl, and shez really a retard nerd whos a loner and u kno i think she onli hangs out wit you becos she has no other frends ducky: so you really hate her? h0ney: i dont HATE HER, u bumm! h0ney: i just don't ever wanna be seen with her or evryones gonna think im a geek too im seriously really hurt .. i can't ever fit in .. and lily likes hanging out with amanda so it's not like i can do anything about it .... -sigh- |
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Nov 20 2004, 01:00 AM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
Jeez. It sounds like you guys are in middle school. Stuff like that deffinately doesn't happen in high school, or at least in my high school. I think you should just hang out with your other friends. Lily isn't your only friend right?
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Nov 20 2004, 01:33 AM
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You don't have to hang out with Lily all the time.
I used to have friends who were friends with the more popular and b*tchy girls in school. They made me feel like crap. But then I started hanging out with others in my class and I got to realise just how great they are. |
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Nov 20 2004, 01:45 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
[quote]h0ney: i dont HATE HER, u bumm!
h0ney: i just don't ever wanna be seen with her or evryones gonna think im a geek too[/quote[ what in bob's name is that?!! that doesn't sound like a friend to me. how about not having lunch with them for a few days. hang out with some kids from your own classes. |
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Nov 20 2004, 03:18 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
QUOTE(teenprincess @ Nov 19 2004, 10:00 PM) Jeez. It sounds like you guys are in middle school. Stuff like that deffinately doesn't happen in high school, or at least in my high school. I think you should just hang out with your other friends. Lily isn't your only friend right? Hey, it happens to me in high school too! Actually...maybe because here we only have elementary and high school, no middle in between. Meh. The thing here is that...does Lily treat you badly? Or is it only her "friends"? Because if she is too, then you should just ignore her. Friends like that aren't worth having, believe me, I've been through it before. |
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Nov 20 2004, 03:44 AM
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nope im in high and it doesnt happen in my highskewl either...
i have no problem with friends... you dont need them... just be yourself |
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Nov 20 2004, 08:17 AM
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Hmm...
This sorta happened to me... Like, one of my friends wouldn't talk to me.. like in school... cause poeple think i'm a geek. but like, now we do? when we have time.. and stuff... And... yeah... But maybe you should tell Lily this. But don't tell her how u went on ur screenname... just ask lily about amanda and stuff.... |
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Nov 20 2004, 08:22 AM
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i don't think it happens to my high school either, but lilly isn't your only friend right? tell lilly about this
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Nov 20 2004, 09:14 AM
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omg that sucks like hell!! im sooo sorry
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Nov 20 2004, 11:07 AM
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Talk to Lily. If she doesn't listen to you, then look for other friends and never go back to Lily and them ever again. If she also didn't listen to you, that would also mean she was never there for you. Just hang out with other people.
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Nov 20 2004, 01:49 PM
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ouch.. these things dont reallii happen in high school.. okay first of all who cares if they're popular or not? you tried you failed, and if they call you a geek and stuff why try again? make new friends that goes to your lunch period, make new friends thats in your class... and if lilly doesnt care about how you feel then forget her.. same thing happened to me but i was the one with the friends.. i tried to talk to her but she just went all snobby on me.. eh.. who cares? lols.. feel better sweetii =) and if they keep talkin bout you behind your back stand up for yourself.. worse comes to worse snuff her.. hahahahahahas.. jk jk jk :D but if it was me then i would cus they have no right to talk bout you like that.. and the way she says it it seems like lilly already heard it before.. ask lilly wat her friends think about you.. and see wat she says..
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Nov 20 2004, 02:22 PM
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You know dont feel left out cuz ur not being left out of anything.......they really are all bitches and chances are ur friend lily is prolly gonna get dumped in to trash eventually, i mean dont lose hur friendship cuz she has different friends, just dont show that ur hurt or anything cuz thats what they wanna see. Stay strong im sure she isnt ur only friend... u have others and just get closer with them instead of tryin to fit in with something. that trust me u dont want to fit into. All schools are like that and ur prolly not the only one going thru it...things will get better just make an effort to make other friends too. Ull make it
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Nov 20 2004, 04:06 PM
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I'm in high school and i can totally tell just by the way that "Honey" was talking you all are prolly in like 7th or 8th grade, cuz she deff. has some growing up to do. i would advise to get some real friends that appreciate you. if lilly still likes you as a friend, she would find time for you when she's not with her other friends. I can tell you that theres probably a lot of people who dont like those popular girls because they are so full of themselves. Sorry to hear about what happened
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Nov 20 2004, 04:13 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
aww im sorry to hear. im sure youve talked to uhh lillY? sorry. bad short memory. and if she doesnt stick with you i think you should find someone else to hang with at lunch. i hope you get it solved soon!
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Nov 20 2004, 05:03 PM
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meeh...popularity is so overrated...
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Nov 20 2004, 07:16 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
 Sounds like you guys are like.. 12 or something? Some people just need to grow up  Dont worry about people that do that beccause then they're not really worth your time. As for being left out of the group, dont act like they are superior to you. Act to them as they were ur equal. Even ask them for advice on something.. maybe a boy or a problem thats been bothering you, then that would give hthem a chance to get to know you better. Popular girls are such asses >.> 
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Nov 20 2004, 09:51 PM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
i don`t knw what to make of this..i can jst tell yu that yu have 2 choices..
1] act like nothings happened continue hang arnd with them 2] make more friends w/ otehr ppl. (: glucks. |
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Nov 20 2004, 09:57 PM
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very stereotypical.. i feel ur pain, hold ur head up high and just hang with whoever u feel comfortable with even though its not easy, at least you have frinds
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Nov 20 2004, 11:40 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
yeah, you should talk to your friend lily about this. but if they treat you that way, why hang out w/ them? they're obviously not good friends.
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