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 Nov 19 2004, 10:53 PM
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okay so i have this boyfriend, but lately he's been really weird. he like keeps trying to hug me during school (which i am just really uncomfortable with him hugging me at school like in front of random strangers) and he follows me around not saying anything, so like i'll be walking and he'll be like 2 feet behind me not talking. and then like today during a class one of my friends said something and he went and sat on the other side of the room all alone for the rest of the hour not talking to any of us. and like the way he's been acting lately i just don't know if i like him as more than a friend anymore. There's also this other guy who is super hot and funny and i dunno... i don't know who i'm interested in, but i know the super hot guy likes me so it's like i'm kind of stuck. mehhh. meh meh meh. meh to the max. what should i do?
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Nov 19 2004, 11:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
the first part was cute~ but then the second part is kinda weird. like walking behind you all the time? i know how that feels i got a guy that's like that too now
 what did your friend say? well if you're not going out long maybe he's not comfortable with your friends yet. and well i think you should talk to him about it.... |
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Nov 20 2004, 12:33 AM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
tha 1st part is confusing. maybe he's kinda shy around ya. you 2 should talk about it. for the other guy, ionoe.. you should stick wit ya own decision, but remember, both guys have feelings.
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Nov 20 2004, 01:02 AM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
Dump him. It's not fair to him if you don't have feelings for him anymore. See what happens with the other guy.
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Nov 20 2004, 01:07 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
how come he sits a lone o_O. well dump him. if you don't have feelings for him, why waste your time? better go for the hot dude, before he has any second thoughts. and that walking thing, my friend is having that trouble right now. she thinks its annoying too. the only way to stop that is to js break away.
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Nov 20 2004, 01:39 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
QUOTE(avsugarhigh09 @ Nov 19 2004, 10:53 PM) he like keeps trying to hug me during school (which i am just really uncomfortable with him hugging me at school like in front of random strangers) and he follows me around not saying anything, so like i'll be walking and he'll be like 2 feet behind me not talking. and then like today during a class one of my friends said something and he went and sat on the other side of the room all alone for the rest of the hour not talking to any of us.  i found that part funny. he wants to hug you because he wants to move the relationship to that PDA level. follows you to class? perhaps he just wants to walk with his girfriend to class. i do that. that sitting alone thing is kinda weird. maybe he just wanted to be alone for a little bit. he'll be fine. only say something if he keeps doing it.so, if you're not ready to move onto this more "mature"(i guess) level of the relationship, tell him. seems like this guy really likes you. 
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Nov 20 2004, 10:59 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
he likes to hug you alot? but follows you and doesnt talk? thats crazy!
 and so is this guy! well dont get caught up with that new guy soo soon, talk with your boyfriend and see what is going on!
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Nov 20 2004, 10:54 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if you don't like him anymore, dump him. why lead him on?
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Nov 21 2004, 05:11 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Hmm, I wouldn't really be angry about the hugging part, thats a little ridiculous. I mean, its a sign of affection, and HE IS your boyfriend. But at the sametime, the not talking may be related to shyness, and the being alone may be the fact that whatever was said maybe hurt his feelings. You didn't actually specify what it was that was said to him. But anyways, if some hot guy is checking you out, and you really dont love your boyfriend, then go for the hot one. Now lets see, you said meh.... 5 times.
 5 kisses for you then.  (I gotta kiss any gal who says meh. Yes, kind of crude, but it has to be done.) So anyways, good luck with whatever it is you choose to do.
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Nov 21 2004, 05:55 PM
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wow tahts weird.. i wouldve probably lost interest in him if i were u if he is not super hot.. i wouldve gone for the other dude
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Nov 21 2004, 06:43 PM
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Go for the super hot guy
I mean no offense, but your bf is acting weird! It's like i dunno, maybe he got offended, and i dunno what's up with him following you If it were me, i'd give the hot guy a try! |
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Nov 21 2004, 10:37 PM
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Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
*resents the hot guy*
hello?!! its her BOYFRIEND. don't give up on him so fast. so he's hot? he'll still be hot a week from now. ask your boyfriend what's up with his behavior. you have a mouth. use it. |
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Nov 21 2004, 11:09 PM
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 Dieing Romance Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,804 |
It sounds like you're current relationship is working out, maybe you need to take a break, or maybe you two just need to talk things over, and you can have your chance to tell him how you feel about the way he acts.
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Nov 22 2004, 12:25 AM
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u make ur boifriend sound like some strange stocker
 loltalk to him about it? or if u really dont like him anymore, just let him go u have backup. hot one too  hahabut i just hope u dont hurt ur current bf so bad |
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Nov 22 2004, 05:45 PM
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give him a lap dance. it solves everything
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Nov 24 2004, 12:56 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
hmm he sounds weird...not good..if u dont think something will work out u hav a right to break it up .
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Nov 25 2004, 08:03 AM
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we broke up.
have not told guy number 2 (the hot guy) my feelings feeling nervous. |
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Nov 25 2004, 07:37 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Man... I'm sorry to hear you broke up.
But in any event, you now need to tell the hot guy your feelings. Don't waste time, or else you'll be screwed. The nervousness is expected, but you ahve to get past it if you wanna get together with him. So, hurry!
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Nov 25 2004, 08:40 PM
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Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
QUOTE(avsugarhigh09 @ Nov 25 2004, 8:03 AM) we broke up. have not told guy number 2 (the hot guy) my feelings feeling nervous. ok well nothing to lose now. tell the hot guy how you feel. if he feels the same, yippee. if not, oh well. |
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