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[jennyjenny]

Change. I mean, everyone needs to change... But I mean... I think change is mostly bad...

Think of it this way: You're all mad because you're boyfriend/girlfriend's broken up with you. Why did you break up? You broke up because they've changed. They want to move on.

And with your friends. I mean, everyone probably serperates and goes into new "groups" when you're in highschool. It's cause poeple are changing. And the innocent person you though were your best friend in kindergarten, is now a slut.

Don't you wish that nothing will change? And that you want to go back to kindergarten... and have nap time with your best friends?

But now your best friends are backstabbers.

If you ask your friends now.... the ones that didn't go to elem. school with, ask them who their old friends are... I bet they are people that you would NEVER expect to be friends with.

I mean, people say that change is good. But really, it's bad. And evil.

What do you think?

[ANG33ZY]

I agree. Change sucks, but I guess it's part of life .. everyone has to deal with it.

[ShadowPixie]

Yes, some change is bad. But you've only named change happening in highscool, to people you knew. Yeah, it's bad, but thats not the only change happening in life. Some change is excellent, some is horrible. Seems the changes you've listed are all bad, but just remember that not all changes are gonna happen in highschool, and not all changes are gonna be bad. Kinda repeated myself there, but I think you get the idea.

~The Pixie is tha manliest of all creatures~ -Jesse<(".<)

[azn hunni xox]

Yes, some change is bad. But you've only named change happening in highscool, to people you knew. Yeah, it's bad, but thats not the only change happening in life. Some change is excellent, some is horrible. Seems the changes you've listed are all bad, but just remember that not all changes are gonna happen in highschool, and not all changes are gonna be bad. Kinda repeated myself there, but I think you get the idea.

~The Pixie is tha manliest of all creatures~ -Jesse<(".<)

Agreed.

I mean some changes are for the worst, but some changes are also for the good. You know, leaving elementry and going to high school? That's a change, but it's good... People growing more... becoming more respectful of other people, isn't that good?

[MarilynBettieLup...]

Yeah, I remember that happened 2 me in middle skool...not really in highskool. My best friends now are the ones I made in the 7th grade in middleskool, & we still talk & keep in touch & hang out 4 our b-days & holidays. Yeah, I have friends that turned into sluts, but I still love them because they're STILL good people & trust worth...I dunno, I'm lucky when it comes 2 friends cuz I usually pick the right ones . My best friends, though, had friends that I couldn't believe they even said "hi" to ! But yeah, U'll get over it & u'll see them in the street after U've graduated, and go "HEY! Haven't seen U in a minute!" and talk, and get their # to keep in touch...presonal experiance. Once U get over it, U'll realize why U were their friends in the 1st place all over again . Just hang in there & u'll realize that life w/o them's not so bad, U'll miss the "old" them, but U'll get over it...

[Winter]

People say change is good. But sometimes I really wonder if that's true.

I remember the times when I was middle school or kindergarden and how we just had so much fun. We were all really good friends.

Then you go off to high school and everything's changed. Your studies become so much harder and you get so much more homework. You see your good friends becoming sluts or moving on without you.

Yeah, it hurts.

But think of it this way. You grow more mature. You set your priorities straight. You know what you want in life and you\re gonna try your best to achieve it.

So I guess I'm just saying there are pros and cons in everything. It's just how you wanna see it.

[vivien]

oh god
i have lots of experiences on that
it hurts me a lot

once i had a really really good frd at elem. sku. her family is quite traditional, so does she. after we went to high sku, ppl made fun of her bcuz she didn't follow the trend. then she changed 180 degrees, and became a bad girl, never talked to me again. actually, she didnt changed into some "in" person. instead, most ppl think she is sooo weird. such a "change" makes her even worse.
now when we see each other, we seem to be strangers. i wish she has never changed. she was quite talented... but bcuz of a little criticism, her future is not gonna follow the original gd path.... wt a pity

[lonelydevil426]

change does suck but sometimes something else better will follow...most likely not in my case

[xTINAA]

change can be bad like you stated but there are times when it could be good. lets talkabout a relationship. the guy abuses the girl. she needs to change what`s going on by getting out of the relationship, right? and change HAS to happen or nothing would ever happen. we would never be able to grow. in order to have progress things need to be changed. another example. slavery. if we didn`t change that and we kept slavery...think about how it would be.

[teenprincess]

I actually like change. If things stayed the same forever life would get kind of boring.

[sheddingtears]

And with your friends. I mean, everyone probably serperates and goes into new "groups" when you're in highschool. It's cause poeple are changing. And the innocent person you though were your best friend in kindergarten, is now a slut.

^ that's so freaken true. i hate how some of them stopped saying hi or stopped hanging out with you just because they've changed.


though, change sometimes is good, like from an snobby whore to a nice, unselfish person.

i think it matters only how you deal with the changes around you.
if they're a slut, then oh well, you can't really force them to change back so you can be satisfied. just move on and don't let someone who you used to laugh and play with stop you from being happy. just find someone new.

[*x____duckii*]

Sometimes change is good. It helps you realize some things. But some change is also bad. I remember I used to be friends with this girl in kindergarden, but when I saw her again, it seemed as if we were strangers. That got me really sad.

[LiNHy POO]

wow thats really true. i wish there wasnt change too, but what could ya do? it happens... but there are times that the change can be good, and it can be bad at first but it can get better.

[B1onde_1ns1de]

Think of it this way: You're all mad because you're boyfriend/girlfriend's broken up with you. Why did you break up? You broke up because they've changed. They want to move on

i totally agree...that just happened to me..he just said sumthings changed...and i just want it to change bak..everything was so much eaiser wen we were younger...