Trouble with girl Options

[Justingamemaster]

Well i like this girl. We talk a lot. We always tell eachother we love eachother, so i toook it as a hint or something and asked her out one day. She said she doesn't love me that way, and she won't go out with me.

I think i should just move on but i freaking love this girl.

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what should i do?

[houjin_himo]

maybe you guys should get to know eachother more...maybe she just doesnt feel comfortable yet...dont give up yet....GiVE iT SOME TiME...try to get to know her more...and dont take ADvANTAGe

[Justingamemaster]

mmkay

Hahaha one of my friends said to charm her with like something she really likes...then pop the question once more.

[MusicalAngel]

Feelings like that need time to develop... just stay friends with her... feel things out... see how she responds... but be patient... that's the most important thing.

Good Luck!

[DrEaMgUy2kX]

get over it.

[silver-rain]

eh, i know what you're going through. the same thing happened with me and a friend, we were so friendly and stuff, but i didn't like him that much, but apparently he did, and he asked me out. and now, we're even closer and i think i might like him. so i suggest stay friends with her. maybe over time, she'll like you and you can try again.

[eversosweet]

stay friends with her, who knows maybe once you get to know each other better, she might like you. hang in there

[SuiE]

awwss.. i agree like just talk to her and get to noe her better and soon you can just pop the questions.. i noe how we girls are.. i say i love you to everyone.. but most i just love as friends.. the onlii person i reallii love is mah boiifriend =) teeheehee

[ShadowPixie]

get over it.

Jesus, thats cruel. ^

But anyways, wait it out, like everyone else said. Show her you DO care, without overdoing it(becasue some women dont like overly emotional reactions), but at the same time, dont let her forger you love her. Like what was said before, just be patient and ease into it.

~The Pixie is tha manliest of all creatures.~ -Jesse<(".<)

[MarilynBettieLup...]

get over it.

^ EWWW! Wut an ass face!

N E who, I can kinda relate to that cuz in highskool, there wuz this dude named Luke, he wuz cute & all, but I didn't really like him that way. He would always flirt & try 2 "holla", but I would play it off & kinda try 2 ignore him by chaning the subject like "Shut up! Seriously...wut's the answer"...etc. But then I think he kinda got the hint that I didn't like him like that, and then he kinda moved on, I guess, & started telling me how he liked these chicks & hella flirted, & it kinda got me jealous.

So wut I'm basically tryna say is, take time 2 kinda make it seem ur over her, talk to other girls & play around with them by hugging them & joking with them in front of her (but don't make it too obvious, like staring at her while doing it), but still talk 2 her all the time & be coo with her, joke with her (like when she would say she loved U, she wuz joking & meant it as a friend way...still mess around with her like that), show her U still care 4 her as a friend (like 4 her b-day or X-mas give her a card...not a present...and like 4 Valentines Day give her a little box of choclate...not flowers), & be her friend. She'll be jealous of those chicks, but she'll still knoe U care for her cuz U guyz still talk & stuff...hope I've been help .

[MarilynBettieLup...]

mmkay

Hahaha one of my friends said to charm her with like something she really likes...then pop the question once more.

^sorry, it's cuz I just read this...

but NO ! Don't do that! It'll make U seem desperate & annoying, & gurlz don't like dudes that seem desperate & annoying . If u give her a present, give it to her on holidays, not just cuz U feel like it. But give her sumthing little, like cards and little boxes of chocolates, like I mentioned b4. Haven't U seen movies where a dude HELLA likes a gurlz & gives her an outrageous gift, and the chicks like "It's beautiful...but I can't take it. I like u, but not like that"...and blah blah blah... I watch too many old movie...LoL . But yeah, again, I hope I've been helpful.

[goldenbanana]

....... same thing happening wit me.... she liked me before.. i made a mistake and asked her out later in the year... and she said no..... i try again the next year.... same answer

now im just being friends wit her, occasional hug now and then, really good friends good enough for me now...

[EddieV]

You know, I went through the exact same thing, not much you can do, well not that I can think of anyway...

[sheddingtears]

be patient.
why don't you ask her to a dance or something first?
then get to know her better and once you feel it's right, then ask her.

[Justingamemaster]

Thanks.

I also thought the buying her something idea was totally weird, but that's just me. Also, I really did notice that girls get jealous when you start to talk to other girls in front of them, sometimes i get jealous myself when girls do that to me.

Haha on her birthday i was going to buy her a giant thing of roses. I think that would be so cool...like in the places...when your in school, then someone (like say a student aid or something along those lines) delivers the flowers to her the giant thing of flowers.