This may be a stupid question..., but i need advice. Options

[LostInMyKryptoni...]

i know i've posted on here like 3 times asking for advice and i really appreciate everything people have told me but i have another stupid question. well let me start of by saying i am not really good w/telling what guys think and even telling if they like me well my friend james, one of my good friends, has this friend named Luke, and well i've met him a few times thought he was cute, and seemed really sweet, today i told james what i thought about luke and well a few days ago i had this dream about them coming over to my house and we went up to the school at night and watched some sort of dance, and well today i say Luke after school talked to him a bit and went home and later James called me asking me if Luke and him could come over and then us all go to the International Banquet at the SCHOOL, and i asked my parents and they said yes, i had forgotten all about the dream until the French club started doing the "Can Can" and James had told luke that i thought he was cute earlier, and james kept leaving me and luke to eitehr talk to people or to take pictures of the clubs doing dances and so me and luke just talked and i asked him if james talked to him and he said yes and he started smiling but then he told me that the thing is his ex broke up with him a while ago to go out with someone else, and so at that moment i just like dropped the whole thing cuz i dont like to bring it up incase he wasn't over her, well I didn’t want to go home after it ended so we went to the park but since I’m not allowed in other people’s cars, and I told James that so James asked Luke if he could drive His car. and luke walked with me to the park which is next to the school, It was nice. Then we all sat at the park till around 9pm and me and luke kept looking at the stars and talking and he gave me the flower he took from the table and it's a paper mashea flower and we all just sat there then we decided to leave and James again drove his car and Luke walked me home, and he walked me up to my door and he gave me a hug and i said i would invite him inside but my parents are *err* and it's late, and he said yeah, then he kissed me! a peck on the lips and he looked at me and i had this stupid smile on my face and then he kissed me agian just a kiss on the lips but see i dont know what to think if he likes me or what, i'm confused, cuz i'm really shy around guys and it was a totally unexpected but great thing and i havn't known him that long so i'm just like *confusion* lol. if anyone has any advice or wants to call me stupid...lol. it would be appreacitaed. i know that was a stupid question some of ya'll are thinking, but i dont know...i'm not sure....

thanks,
LostInMyKryptonite

[shortAY_07]

well, it seems like he likes you! i could be wrong, but unless he's trying to pull a fast one on you and be a jerk, a kiss is usually a good sign. :)

[Oreo_bro]

*fog appears across the room*

*lights flash*

*a lone shadowed figure is seen in the fog*

*the fog blows away*

THIS LOOKS LIKE A JOB FOR OREO_BRO! *booming voice*

k yeah im an idiot,

but lets see, from what your saying, he was told that you thought he was cute. And when u asked hima bout that he smiled,

good sign number 1,

2, he and you talked alot, walking together and you guys seemed close

good sign number 2,

3, he huged you at your door and gave u a kiss then you BOTH smiled, good sign number 3.

4, he kissed you again, badabing bada boom, good signs all around.

I belive he does in fact like you, go with the flow, dont let him take advantage of you of course, but be mindful and let things happen that are okay.


good luck!

[LostInMyKryptoni...]

well now i am confused. i went to school and we talked in the morning, and he said that he doesn't want to lead me on in anyway but he didn't mean to Impulse those kisses, and my friend james better explained to me what he meant and it was that he went to the car and when he sat down, he said "she's a good kisser" then he stated saying he shouldn't have done that cuz he's not ready for a relationship, and i understnad that because his ex left him for his friend, so it confused me a bit, but he said that i was sweet and he wanted to get to know me better....so i dunno, my friends think that he does like me and maybe he's just scared that it was too soon 4 him 2 do that or maybe he's not over his ex.... idk...what do ya'll think?

[Oreo_bro]

He likes you

he's just afraid of hurting you. He may still have feelings for the other girl, and what he did, the kissing, is sorta like..."the moment is now" sorta thing. U know, things are happening and u just cant help it. He ment the kisses, hes just unsure if he should have, but he did mean them..

yeah im weird

[houjin_himo]

HE LiKES YOU...or hes just so horny....haha...dont go to fast...but he seems like a guy that you could FALL fast for

[ShadowPixie]

He likes you. More than just a friend. That much is obvious. But, then again, make sure he is sincere, and ready for a new relationship, and take it from there. Don't write him off yet. Give him a little time, and I'm sure it could work out between you two.

~The Pixie is the manliest of all creatures~ -<(".<)

[LostInMyKryptoni...]

Thanks ya'll have really helped me to understand part of the situtation, he is a very sweet guy and i really hope that maybe me and him can become better friends, but he is the kind of guy i am going to have to tell my parents dont judge on the way he dresses, because my parents dont like the whole "alternitvie" look, which sucks. but ehh their my parents. well he is the kind of guy i can fall for fast, i mean he's sweet, and really amazing, we do have some things in common. well the only thing that scares me is the fact that i've been hurt so many times before and i dont want to be just a friend with benifits....maybe if i put the note u could see what i mean.... this is the note he wrote. word for word.

SQUISHY!, hey what up, i hope you feel better, not to help you but i'm getting sick too. so anywayz i feel better that we understand each other, and it was confusing of me to do what i did. I Sry! but i too am glad to meet you and you are sweet and so Squishy and hopefully we do get to know each other better...i think aj influences me in wanting to be a whore...but i see that it's just confusing and you dont seem to be a person who's loking for that kind of relationship...or are you? because i'm all for Make out buddies . well i'm really sorry this is short and sloppy too. <3 LMA

i really dont know what to make of the note besides that he's just not looking for a relationship right now and i understand that, i mean i wouldn't be either. but i did tell him that i really dont know what kind of relationship i am looking for, but i do like commitment in mine and not just friends with benifits and i didn't know what a "make out buddie" was until james (both of ours, best friend) explained it to me, but i'm glad he told me he didn't want to lead me on, cuz i've been hurt before and it sucks. and that was pretty much it.

it seems like this just keeps going..... any more idea's?

that's the only part i really dont get...the note...i mean i get that he likes me and he meant the kiss, but the note. lol