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 Nov 14 2004, 10:06 AM
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There's this guy i like and we used to be rivals but then we became friends. during the summer we gotten really close but when school started, he started hanging out w/ all these "popular" girls and at first he would still walk home w/ me. but then later i heard that he thinks i'm creepy cuz he knows that i like him. now we're not even friends anymore and i'm sure that he thinks i'm a stalker cuz we just happen to be coincidentally bumping into each other all the time. i swear, i didn't know that he would be there. but then he and his friends keeps saying that i'm a stalker. how do i deal w/ this? and is there any way that i can be friends w/ that guy again?
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Nov 14 2004, 10:57 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
ahh, i'm in the same situation. i still like my ex, but he doesn't like me back, and tries to avoid me. but somehow, coincidentally, we always bump into each other and i'm sure he think's i'm stalking him...anyways, try talking to him about it and tell him how you feel.
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Nov 14 2004, 11:03 AM
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hmm thats wierd,just try to avoid him! dont talk to him dont pay attention to him!
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Nov 14 2004, 11:04 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
tell him staight up to his face and say," I am not f*ckin stalking! How do i know that you are the one that is stalking me!" just say what you really feel.
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Nov 14 2004, 12:26 PM
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he's really mean
 anyhus talk to him bout it, ask him what his problem is.
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Nov 14 2004, 01:28 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Odd.
Tell him straight-forward that you're not stalking. He obviously got a big ego. 
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Nov 14 2004, 05:43 PM
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pretty conceited, isn't he? if he's going to be thinking ridiculous things like that, then don't worry about him.
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Nov 14 2004, 07:25 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
 wow that must be the worst feeling in the world  I always run into ppl i dont wanna see and occasionally be called a stalker but i know its not true and i dont try to make it true so i just let it slide, eventually the person will stop thinking they're OH-SO-GREAT-ENOUGH to be stalked by you anyway and they'll get over it |
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Nov 15 2004, 10:20 PM
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xinistical member Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,328 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Nov 14 2004, 10:57 AM) anyways, try talking to him about it and tell him how you feel. i already did...he lost his trust in me already and now he won't believe anything i say... |
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Nov 15 2004, 11:48 PM
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 Lookie Se7en!! Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,534 |
I ammm a stalker....
 haha but yea...forget about taht guy he seems really conceited so just move on you don't need him 
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Nov 18 2004, 05:01 PM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
maybe you should just move on and forget about him...hes probably a cacahead that likes to toy with peoples emotions
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Nov 18 2004, 10:22 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
he's not a good friend if he just stopped talking to you to be with "popular" people. so leave it at that. and if they accuse you of stalking let them be ignorant. simply say that you're at the wrong place at the wrong time apparently. he isn't worth your time. he'd make the effort to be with you if he were a good friend. spend your time elsewhere with people who deserve your friendship.
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Nov 19 2004, 07:47 AM
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xinistical member Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,328 |
at first he was nice to me and i thought that i could somehow change his mind about me but apparently not...now he's become a jerk (influence from those friends) and so i guess i'll give up. but it's still kinda hard to...i still think that he's just putting up a mask, that the real nice him is still there...
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Nov 19 2004, 09:45 PM
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He thinks you're creepy and stalking him? And you LIKE him?
I would be over him if I was in that situation. |
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