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 Nov 14 2004, 02:59 AM
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ok. well, me & my boyfriend [of 3 months] broke up a little more than a month ago & i'm still not over him! i'm still madly in love with him & its so junk because he doesn't even want to be my friend anymore. like, we talk still, occationally. but it's not the same. its like...he's only talking to me to be nice & he doesn't really want to talk to me. i don't know what to do to get over him. i've tried everything, i started talking to other guys, made them start to like me almost went out with a few of them but then, i got irritated by them & stopped talking to them, i stopped talking to him, i stopped talking about him, i took down all his pictures off the wall, i put everything he ever gave me in a bag & threw it in the back of my closet, but nothing is working! everyone thinks i'm over him & that all i see him as now is a friend, but i don't! i still want him back. even after a month and 2 weeks. & it's so bad...because he treated me badly, and all we ever did was fight. but i miss it. i miss him. i miss how i used to be so happy whenever i was with him & how he used to tell me that he'd love me forever. blah. its stupid. i know. but does anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
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Nov 14 2004, 03:08 AM
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sexxy_babyy Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,620 |
yeah i used to feel like that too.. it a sucky feeling. maybe you should talk to him..about stuff that made you guys talk before. and maintain friends.. but i mean he should be ok with you being friends right? i find that a bit of an easier way to get over someone and meet new guys.. and get close to themm. you know? i mean i couldnt get over my ex!! it was soo annoying!! so i decided to just talk to my ex liek a friend.. and i mean you really dotn know if hes just being nice or not.. you know? and soo yeah i started hanging out only 5 guys at once u know?!? the hot funny kind.. ahha.. and that was the bestest. cause they made me forget about my ex. he made him become apart of the past..!! and now im dating one of those guys
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Nov 14 2004, 03:09 AM
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 Magic Crayons Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,315 |
its always good to keep in touch! :)
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Nov 14 2004, 03:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,133 |
juss be friends with him... there is such a thing called getting back with your ex. If you two are meant to be fate will bring you back together theres two type of girls well in your case guys one that you date and one for marriage u gotta think about it alot.
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Nov 14 2004, 12:05 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i'm going through that too- except my ex doesn't want to be friends with me. i suggest, try to be friends with him, talk to him about how you feel. maybe, you might get back together.
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Nov 14 2004, 01:23 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Wow, sounds like me.
Except I don't really like him anymore.. I just kind of miss him. The old guy he used to be. He's changed now. -_- I think that's why we broke up.. we both changed and lost interest. It happens. Maybe be friends with him.. I don't know, our original plan was to stay friends [his idea], but neither of us have really made the effort, and that's fine with me. Just don't be bitter exes.. I kind of am in a bitter ex situation, and it's not the best way to go.. So, just.. stay friends.. or talk every once in a while. Eventually your feelings for him will go away. |
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Nov 14 2004, 01:24 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I feel you. My way of forgetting my ex was just lose him out of everything. dont talk to him, dont check his xanga, dont do NE thin with him. tht helped me alot cause I found out like after a month of breakin up, he liked another girl tht was taken which REALLY pissed me off cause i thought he was my first love but eventually not. He was a fag NE wayz..
sadly, i miss him from time to time but then again, i remember all the BS he brought to my life and all the drama he caused so no..i dont miss him. I think Im a bitter ex but I got my reasons.. |
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