i need advices, i m havin problem with my bf |
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 Nov 12 2004, 11:02 AM
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just call me bitch  Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,176  |
wat does time out mean? why he wants a time out...realli when theres too much goin on with his life he tends to need a time out? or he just doesnt like me anymore...i realli dunno....i want advices from guys i want to noe wat guys r thinking.....sigh....i m so upset rite now.......
  
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Nov 12 2004, 04:36 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
A)you're clingy.
B)give him space. C)your grammer is annyoing him. D)he wants you to leave him alone until you go back to second grade to reveiw spelling lessons. it HAS to be one of those. |
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Nov 12 2004, 05:24 PM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
QUOTE(airam @ Nov 12 2004, 1:36 PM) A)you're clingy. B)give him space. C)your grammer is annyoing him. D)he wants you to leave him alone until you go back to second grade to reveiw spelling lessons. it HAS to be one of those. that was pretty mean, especally from some one like you, you shouldnt make fun of people when they are feeling down. jeez. Neways, eternal_s, when us guys say we need a time out, it usually means something is happening to us that we need to deal with on our own, and its not neccesaily your fualt, it can be that we are goign through depression with some tragic event, that we are not with it anymore, but most of all it can mean that we dont wanna hurt our girlfriend *aka you* incase we get mad from what ever drama is happening. You said it yourself that he is going through stuff, just let him do that and try to understand, u can talk with him about it but if he says he needs to deal with it on his own then let him. good luck |
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Nov 12 2004, 06:34 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Nov 12 2004, 5:24 PM) that was pretty mean, especally from some one like you, you shouldnt make fun of people when they are feeling down. jeez. what do you mean, "from someone like you"? |
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Nov 12 2004, 06:36 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
yeah, what do you mean "from someone like you"...
she was always super-bitchy anyways... you bf wants a break, that's what "time-out" means. |
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Nov 12 2004, 07:09 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
He.. wants a break..
Or it could mean he wants to break up with you and he thinks it's nicer to do it this way rather than saying "I want to break up." |
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Nov 12 2004, 07:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
he want a break, either he dosn't like u anymore or he is too busy and want to focus on something else which is... not that believable...
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Nov 12 2004, 08:38 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE([X) poised,Nov 12 2004, 6:36 PM] yeah, what do you mean "from someone like you"... she was always super-bitchy ohmigawd, you don't have to rub it in :( :( :( butitistrue |
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Nov 12 2004, 09:45 PM
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 Saap!? Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 |
you know time-out...break...a little time alone...anything familiar to you
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Nov 12 2004, 11:00 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
QUOTE(airam @ Nov 12 2004, 4:36 PM) A)you're clingy. B)give him space. C)your grammer is annyoing him. D)he wants you to leave him alone until you go back to second grade to reveiw spelling lessons. it HAS to be one of those. umm no dont say that plz becuz that is so hurtfull and mean it hurts for even me reading this.. okai hun he prob saying this becuz he wants to break up with u and u noe wut u should ask him y and a reason |
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Nov 12 2004, 11:04 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(airam @ Nov 12 2004, 4:36 PM) A)you're clingy. B)give him space. C)your grammer is annyoing him. D)he wants you to leave him alone until you go back to second grade to reveiw spelling lessons. it HAS to be one of those. yes... maybe hes not used to havin a gf yet or something, if he needs time give it to him. and durin this time out, dont ask him too many questions or the time out will be longer |
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Nov 14 2004, 04:42 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(LiLaZnGirL122 @ Nov 12 2004, 11:00 PM) umm no dont say that plz becuz that is so hurtfull and mean it hurts for even me reading this.. okai hun he prob saying this becuz he wants to break up with u and u noe wut u should ask him y and a reason is it hurtful because it's true? |
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Nov 15 2004, 12:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
he probably does not want to include you in his messed up life
he needs time alone to gather his thoughts |
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Nov 16 2004, 09:41 AM
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just call me bitch Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,176 |
QUOTE(airam @ Nov 12 2004, 4:36 PM) A)you're clingy. B)give him space. C)your grammer is annyoing him. D)he wants you to leave him alone until you go back to second grade to reveiw spelling lessons. it HAS to be one of those. is realli mean to say somethin like that...but i take ur advice  bein bitchy thats wat some ppl want to do when they want to stand out lolthnkz ppl apperciated every little advice u guys gave me |
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Nov 18 2004, 04:55 PM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
you have big iSSUES or ur OBSESSiVE...haha and i agree with conster TOO
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Nov 18 2004, 05:50 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
well sometimes a little time away is healthy in a relationship .. it gives you the opportunity to sit back and evaluate yourselves. you have to find out the value you share being together and what they mean to you. if in the time out he comes back and you guys are better than you needn't worry. however, if you find he constantly wants time outs and takes a long period of time .. maybe it's best for you to stay separated .. it can often be a subtle hint that he's losing interest but doesn't know the nicest way to say it to let go. and most certainly you don't want to hold on and wait hurting when you're not sure of how he feels. the safest bet is to speak to him about it and see what he says and work on it together. if it's meant to be it'll work out in the end. if it's not the right time .. you have to just let it go and move on.
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Nov 19 2004, 10:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
don't assume things or think beyond situations like this.
just be patient and give him time. don't worry. |
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