online relationships, do you have one? Options

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[*Weird addiction*]

arrgh....a topic like this was made not long ago!!...

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[*Weird addiction*]

^^ur forgiven but i think the mods will close this...

[happygoluckyng]

no...I dont' think it works out...who the fu<k has relationships online...haha....srry no offense to anyone...my bad....{secretly lmao}

[yeseulx3]

online relationships?
it's all depending on honesty...
but i wouldn't date online.
it's amazing how many liars, pedophiles, and ...
you know.

[xxmzkrnpunkster4]

i use to go out wit a guy online and we talked on the phone all the time and we talked bout him comin up here and he did but once.we still talk on the phone and online.it is kinda hard b/c its a long distance relationship if they live in a different state and long distance relationships usually dont really work out.i found that out the hard way.

[kellyannie]

ive never had one but my friend used to and she would always talk to him online and on the phone and stuff i dont think its really that great because you dont really know who you are talking to unless you've met them before it might not be that safe i wouldnt recommend it

[xj_liana_tx]

i made this topic about 2 weeks ago, plz dont double the post

[*Azarel*]

I know a lot of people have boyfriends/girlfriends online... Is it hard? I mean, you don't get to see each other often, do you? Do you talk on the phone or on AIM? Or both?

I've had more than one long-distance/online relationship. Mainly one. But not really. It was more of a thing where we were going to wait until we could physically be together to be called "boyfriend/girlfriend."

Oh man. The relationship has to be built on a lot of trust, and it is hard as hell. I'd only seen him once before irl when he flew in from Jersey (to Cali). We talked via phone and AIM. The phone bit would've stopped once he went back to college (Canada), but he tried to "cheat" on me when he met my friend from NY, saying that it was okay because we weren't really together.

Let's just say that I don't even know either of them anymore. And regardless of it's an online relationship or just a long-distance relationship, it's difficult. I'm not doing it again for a long while.

[justin_park85]

yeh i used to have an online relationship, but we broke up. she never saw me, she never ever seen my pictures too, we never met, we never talked on the phone, but send email and IM on MSN and Yahoo. yeh it was hard for her, but she survived. i saw her pictures and she's also friends with susan (angel_roh) and susan showed me some of her pictures so yeh

[NatiMarie]

Nope.
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[inthemudhole]

Yeah.
Kind of in one now.. but he's not on much.

[sammi rules you]

i go more for those who i can see nowadays.

[whywasisostupid]

ive been in one. it lasted 2 months. rawr. twICE

[1--GIRL]

Never...

[eversosweet]

i'm in one right now, it is hard. you've gotta have ALOT of trust. i only see him three times a year, thats considered pretty good already

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

i used to...but it was kinda diffrent...first one i met her online, then we started goign out, n i found out she lived nearby (city away...just take the bus) and we did og out...second time i met her online, she lived in ny and i was in pa, and we did visit each other at least 3 times every month so i guess yeah

[XPLICITxDORK]

I HAVE AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP AND I TALK TO HIM ON BOTH AIM AND PHONE....IT WORKS OUT FINE.

[pympgangsta4real]

I did at one point, but she turned out to be my friend's cousin, so we took it to the next level. I suppose that's as lucky as you can get. I didn't really wanna have an online relationship, but when I found out that I can acctually see her and everything I was hooked lol. Otherwise, I'd never date online, nor do I even consider it anymore.

[xBaBiEGrLx]

i was in like one or two..then i found out that it doesnt work with the whole online thing..

[_sarcastic_]

i'm in one, sadly i only see him once a year

[*Kathleen*]

Sorry, but yeah, there's already a bunch of topics like this.

[hawyngurlie8o8]

self explanatory

[freeflow]

nope i dont believe in online dating ..

[hpsm2]

nahh

[tainted_faerie]

No, they are stupid. X_x

[annacgb]

I don't think so

[teaspoondesigns]

... Are you normally this retarded? If so, I wouldn't even date you online.

[*mzkandi*]

i am confused, do u mean online dating as in you have met the person, you guys like each other and you decide to date, or dating someone online that you have never met? if it is the latter then no way

[secretXoshadow]

well no not if it isn't anyone i've never met. but yeah kind of because my boyfriend moved to michigan ... and we wanted to keep our relationship going so we dated online.

xoxO
torrie

[bravodancer04]

... Are you normally this retarded? If so, I wouldn't even date you online.

can you stop being an a-hole before somoene shoots you? THANKS!

anyway, no, its kinda pointless

[Looow]

I find it very stupid.

[inthemudhole]

I think it's fine.
I did it once, but it wasn't anything serious.
I'm currently kind of getting involved with a serious online relationship.
I don't think it's stupid, and I don't give a shit if I get someone telling me that the person could be "some 50 year old pervert." People are too f*cking close-minded. Not everyone out there is the exact opposite of what they say.

Anyway, yeah...I do "believe" in it, and I've done it once before. I'd be willing to do it again.

[booger butt]

its not my personal preference.

[Shattered_Hope]

not really, no.

[aznxdreamer]

its alright. as long as your doing it for thright reasons?

[swe3ttemptasian]

its dangerous. Unless you're 100% sure that person is someone b/c your friend knows him/her.. or something like that.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

WTF?!?!?!...who doe like online dating...only if yu've seen the person b4 but if it's a hook up like javaline or something...why would yu do that?!?!..juss wait till GOD sends yu that special person

[Angel_Cece]

kinda dangerous?

[Teesa]

no way. you will never know who you're exactly talking to unless face-to-face, or webcam or something. and it can be highly dangerous.

[tinababy143]

no..its just...no..you dont know what the other person looks like for shure..they can send you whatever pictures they want..but that doesnt mean thats REALLY them..you dont know how old they REALLY are..and its just...lame..

[parallel]

I said 'hell no...you crazii' haha..gosh..there's just so much stuff that's wrong with online dating! I'll only name one though..how do you know what your bf/gf really looks like if you don't even know them? Sure they could've showed you a pic of themselves but how do you know that's really them?

[Ballpointpencil]

I've always said 'no', but now I can't generalize like that. I'll say that most online dating is idiotic. However, I recently met a newlywed couple in my church who met through that E-harmony thing that is always on tv, so I can't entirely discount it.

[xiaobing]

No
My Xanga

[nerdxcore]

no, it's not safe if you havent met the person.

[`SWTWiNKLE3YES]

no. i dont.

[blah1234567]

people who do that are REALLY desprite

[HoodieObsessed]

well, no, not really....but I mean, do you mean those like websites that set you up with someone? cause well, obviusly I ahvn't tried those, lol, I don't even know how they work but I guess no...

...hmmmmmmm, I certianely don't beleive in random guys you meet on the interent cause the last one (the only one) dumped me for a girlfreind where he lived, I mean, that was probabl yhte right choice, but I still dont' forgive him and then my friend has got htis online guy but she really doesn't care for him at all, he's so boring and lame, and WAY overly romantic and junk, and he's a nerd too but hes' not smart...I mean wha'ts hte point of being a nerd if your not smart?!? grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...err, ya, anyway, I guess I'll ahve to awnser no, I dont' beleive in onlien dating.

EDIT

and oh ya, he's failing english. hahahahhaha, way to end a relationship

[ANG33ZY]

no i don't believe in it.

[inthemudhole]

people who do that are REALLY desprite

Uhh, not really.

[Im So Vain]

nope too scuurred to. and i h8 when guys i dont know instant message me trying to hook up. i never know how to turn them down in a nice way. but even though i dont do it online dating it still seems to work out for a lot of other people for the most part.

[GodsBrokenAngel0...]

I think it's fine.
I did it once, but it wasn't anything serious.
I'm currently kind of getting involved with a serious online relationship.
I don't think it's stupid, and I don't give a shit if I get someone telling me that the person could be "some 50 year old pervert." People are too f*cking close-minded. Not everyone out there is the exact opposite of what they say.

Anyway, yeah...I do "believe" in it, and I've done it once before. I'd be willing to do it again. 

same here!!! lol

[lovescream]

I did it once. But it wasn't actually dating. He and I were just valentines.
Though.. I still likey himmm.. *Snort*
I think it's alright, though.
It's not stupid, because it could be that you're too afraid to date someone you know in real life. Or that person you met online is good enough for you.
Except you can't kiss him or anything.. :[ Eh. It's good enough as a start.

[zbrittanyz]

"Yeah, I guess you could say things are getting pretty serious... She's uh... she's got sandy blonde hair. She's uh... pretty good looking face, but I'm just getting really... just kinda TO'd because... I mean she hasn't even sent me a full body shot yet. "

Haha online "dating" is a joke. There's no such thing.

[*inkeepingsecret...]

i guess i do. alot of my mums friends met guys online on those websites that picks a guy thats good for you. And they all endend up getting married

[_confuzed_]

i think it's sorta sweet to have a person attracted to you because of your personality (if you don't send a picture), but when you actually date online and never meet in person it's pretty meaningless and a little ridiculous. if you say that you're seeing someone as well, then that's pathetic.

[shortiiex]

poeple are not true on it

[mai_z]

I don't believe in meeting people online and developing distant relationships with them, but me and my boyfriend don't see each other much, so we talk a lot online...does that count?

[noe_more]

no way!

[Litt0_TeeZy]

man...people really have weird poll questions these days...no i don't prefer it, but if you want..whatever floats your boat.

[Litt0_TeeZy]

[double post. sorry i clicked the thingy twice by accident.]

[laur3nw]

... Are you normally this retarded? If so, I wouldn't even date you online.

What's your problem? She was just asking a question. She didn't even say if she believed in it or not.
Anyways....I don't really believe in it, but it's just my opinion. It's up to the person whether or not s/he wants to do it.

[lila200098]

WTF?!?!?!...who doe like online dating...only if yu've seen the person b4 but if it's a hook up like javaline or something...why would yu do that?!?!..juss wait till GOD sends yu that special person

im wit her

[the_crox]

oh hell no.

[bunny--bunny]

No.

[twelveislands]

Yeah.
Been there, done that.

[queenofthelame13]

If you have never met the person you're dating, and you just met him in a chatroom then I have to say HELL NO!
It could be very dangerous and for all you know he could be some balding guy in his 40's still living in his moms basement.
So, no!

Jay

[queenofthelame13]

If you have never met the person you're dating, and you just met him in a chatroom then I have to say HELL NO!
It could be very dangerous and for all you know he could be some balding guy in his 40's still living in his moms basement.
So, no!

Jay





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[iheartsimba]

I think it's ok to MEET people online..but I don't really agree with it when you haven't me tin person yet, and you have a "relationship"..I think you can't really KNOW a person, unless you have met them in person.

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[fameONE]

I think it's ok to MEET people online..but I don't really agree with it when you haven't me tin person yet, and you have a "relationship"..I think you can't really KNOW a person, unless you have met them in person.

Agreed.

[illuminessence]

Do you know how easy it is to lie to ppl online about who you are???? I really don't understand how anybody can have an honest relationship online. It's dumb. I don't even think I need to say more.

[browniebabe121a]

my brother (who is kinda dorky) met his wife on the computer... and they are very happy!

[mouse_3k]

No I think its pointless and stupid. They might be a fake and they might cheat on you...Now how can you trust someone you didnt even meet once or somethin...common sense..

[sill]

Well, as long as it's possible to do, then I think it's fine.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a half now, we met on the internet (we actually live on the opposite ends of North America, I'm in Ontario and shes in California) and we carried it on for a month or 2 just on MSN. Then we started calling each other, and during the 2 week christmas break she came and visited me. Now, in about a year - 2 years we will be moving in together (I'm not old enough yet :P). I also know of another friend that had the same thing go on, they have been dating for 3 years, and they live together happily.

The only way in hell it's desperate is if you go to lavalife or some crap like that, if your actually Looking for someone on the internet to date, that could be considered desperate I suppose. I met my girlfriend by accident, as many people do. It really just depends how you came about your significant other.

Oh, and if your an angsty, close-minded slut, the above may not make sense to you, in that case...grow up :(

[Tung]

some people i know have online gfs/bfs. i think its really sad and desperate. but w/e. its their life lol.

[Lightner]

online dating is another excuse for people who dont have a life and can get a gf/bf

[starlette]

I'm sorry, you should go out and try to meet people first. I mean, people met and fell in love before there was internet, and people can do it today without it. I just htink its for lazy people who never want to leave the damn house.

[sill]

online dating is another excuse for people who dont have a life and can get a gf/bf

In many cases that's completely true. BUT there is some cases where it is not, me for example. I infact have a life, it just so happens that life is basically on a computer (programmer2win), and most of my time is spent on the computer doing things for work/school. You should try not being so ignorant.

[twelveislands]

Ick, How can you see it as desperate? It's only desperate if you go on online dating sites looking for a partner.

Sometimes you just have a friend online and you get to know each other and you know they're real (Webcam ) and after awhile you end up getting feelings for them. It's not that persons fault because they weren't looking for someone to have these feelings for. It just happens sometimes. And whats the point of holding back these feelings just because they're online. You can progress your relationship and end up meeting and actually have a 'normal' relationship with them. It's becoming less and less rare now. So might as well get used to it.

[simply_mystikal]

whatever floats your boat

[heyyfrankie]

my first reply would be no because of course there are people that pretend to be people that are not but my speech teacher met her current husband through the internet and they are happily married.
i would probably never do it, though.

[xOx_aGnEs]

nope.. i think itz for desperate ppl who cant date sum1 in real life

[*islandgirl4eva*]

No, definitely not. I don't think there can really be a satisfying relationship if there is no physical contact...and that doesn't have to mean in a sexual way.

[darklync]

almost everyone lies about themselves on the internet, or try to make themselves better then they r, so i would say no.....how can u start a relationship, which is primarily made up of trust, with a lie?

[XaZnX07]

well i am having one right now its kinda like long distant though cause i get to see her just not often yeah haha she lives in california while i live in missouri so yeah but i guess its fine i think they're pointless to but you know what it depends if you really care bout this person i really didnt want an online relationship but i just happen cause i really likked her so yeah

oh and i know a person that had an online relationship and in the end they got married so yeah i guess its cool

.:tony:.

[misoshiru]

no, but i believe in using spellcheck.

[_sarcastic_]

it depends if you've met the person or not.
if you have then i guess it's fine, but you'll need alot of trust
if you haven't than it's really up to you. you could run the risk of having someone bad

[sammi rules you]

i used to, but since i finally got less loserish and got boyfriends offline, i haven't. but if you want to, go ahead.

[racoons > you]

well obviously i believe it exists, but i sense that thats not what you meant.

why.... go out and get someone you can actually see

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

u must be crazy. u should know the person personally. that can be really dangerous.

[PrideOfAzia]

O.o as long as ur sure of who the person really is on the other end then i guess its okay...

[Ariel~~]

thats not safe! you might get some crazy wacko guy or a girl acting like a guy or whatever .. hehe . =]

[HongKongDong]

Sure why not, if it works for those people then why not. Why put them down? I just hope they make some smart decisions in that relationship.

[*salcha*]

OMG this reminded me of a convo my older guy friend, younger friend sent me. haha i introduced them to each other and stuff, right? then this happened...

sPuNkyMiMe5: do you like meeh as an online gf?
sPuNkyMiMe5: haha
sPuNkyMiMe5: jw
sPuNkyMiMe5: im weerd like that
NeEd a m3diC: lol
sPuNkyMiMe5: do you?
sPuNkyMiMe5: your cool
sPuNkyMiMe5: haha
sPuNkyMiMe5: yeh
NeEd a m3diC: um..
NeEd a m3diC: do i what?
sPuNkyMiMe5: like meeh as an online gf... hahahahha... jw
NeEd a m3diC: lol
NeEd a m3diC: sure then
NeEd a m3diC: whatever
sPuNkyMiMe5: an online girlfrend??
NeEd a m3diC: -.-
NeEd a m3diC: whatever
NeEd a m3diC: dont caure
NeEd a m3diC: care*
NeEd a m3diC: you can make me your online bf
NeEd a m3diC: lmao
sPuNkyMiMe5: really?
sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you like meeh like that?
NeEd a m3diC: sheesh, why ask so many questions
NeEd a m3diC: then no
NeEd a m3diC: :-P
NeEd a m3diC: hehe
NeEd a m3diC: jk
sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you? srry... i need to kno
NeEd a m3diC: what the heck
NeEd a m3diC: FINE
NeEd a m3diC: its online
NeEd a m3diC: so it doesnt matter :-P

ahahhahahah i am cracking up now.
oh oh even better, a night after their onlineness, they "broke up"
hahah.
man, this brings back old memories

edit: okay, but to answer your question, i guess it would work for some people if you're mature enough. i mean the guy and girl up there in the convo was a ninth grader (guy) and a seventh.

[xXYouMeBedNowXx]

Well, no. However there are quite a few cases where I might find it as an exception. For example, homosexual couples. I think it'd be pretty darn hard to find someone if you were, and trying to attempt to might have gotten you hit hard. For example, there really isn't any real way to be sure if someone is or is not homosexual, and asking when they're not may be extremely rude. Online dating may is possibility for people like that to make sure what they aren't and are shooting for, so hey, why not? However, I do think that people should find love on their own, without the clutter of wires or plugs.

[love vs absence]

i dont know.. not really.

[SwEeT_lAydEe]

dating online..hmm no i dont unless you really know that person lyke in real life buh if u dont..then .. ? how do you really know who that person is?

[hott_n_luvin_it]

OMG this reminded me of a convo my older guy friend, younger friend sent me. haha i introduced them to each other and stuff, right? then this happened...

sPuNkyMiMe5: do you like meeh as an online gf?
sPuNkyMiMe5: haha
sPuNkyMiMe5: jw
sPuNkyMiMe5: im weerd like that
NeEd a m3diC: lol
sPuNkyMiMe5: do you?
sPuNkyMiMe5: your cool
sPuNkyMiMe5: haha
sPuNkyMiMe5: yeh
NeEd a m3diC: um..
NeEd a m3diC: do i what?
sPuNkyMiMe5: like meeh as an online gf... hahahahha... jw
NeEd a m3diC: lol
NeEd a m3diC: sure then
NeEd a m3diC: whatever
sPuNkyMiMe5: an online girlfrend??
NeEd a m3diC: -.-
NeEd a m3diC: whatever
NeEd a m3diC: dont caure
NeEd a m3diC: care*
NeEd a m3diC: you can make me your online bf
NeEd a m3diC: lmao
sPuNkyMiMe5: really?
sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you like meeh like that?
NeEd a m3diC: sheesh, why ask so many questions
NeEd a m3diC: then no
NeEd a m3diC: :-P
NeEd a m3diC: hehe
NeEd a m3diC: jk
sPuNkyMiMe5: buh do you? srry... i need to kno
NeEd a m3diC: what the heck
NeEd a m3diC: FINE
NeEd a m3diC: its online
NeEd a m3diC: so it doesnt matter :-P

ahahhahahah i am cracking up now.
oh oh even better, a night after their onlineness, they "broke up"
hahah.
man, this brings back old memories

edit: okay, but to answer your question, i guess it would work for some people if you're mature enough. i mean the guy and girl up there in the convo was a ninth grader (guy) and a seventh.

haha what's the point if you do't even see them? it might be some forty year old fat guy lying on his ass all day watching star trek with his mom GAHROSSSS

[*Azarel*]

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