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need some advice |
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ok i met this girl Natallie on Cross Country @ my school. I found out she liked me and i liked her etc..... Well shes really cute, i mean i even get props from some of my friends, were so right for eachother, Im christian, and shes sorta faded so its a bonus if i can bring her back into it, our personalities are a perfect match, and we really like eachother. So you can see its none of that. But the problem is i dont "feel" anything. I mean, you know when your with some1 special you get that "feeling" not necesarrily love, but a good feeling. I dont have that. Were so perfect for eachother, and i can totally see a relationship ahead, but i just cant get that feeling when im with her.
For example, friday nite i went with her and like 8 other friends to go see the grudge. She was totally scared and spent the majority of the movie in my arms. Later we went to the mall that is connected to the theatre, and held hands the whole time. I was doin this cause i see other people doing it, and i was hoping i could feel a togetherness with her. We hugged, held hands all the stuff i see the couples do, but i just didnt feel anything special. I asked one of my friends(girl) about it. She said that it would build with time. But all the couples i know had the feeling on the first date. What should i do to have her feel special to me. I really like her and wanna pursue a relationship with her, but i wanna get that special feeling with her. |
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i think you should go for it, i mean your friend might be right, i does take time.
it took time for me and my bf. it took me quite a while to get that really special feeling.. ![]() |
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QUOTE(eversosweet @ Nov 7 2004, 9:11 AM) i think you should go for it, i mean your friend might be right, i does take time. it took time for me and my bf. it took me quite a while to get that really special feeling.. ![]() yeah, I agree. Just because it takes someone an hour to feel that feeling doesn't mean you have to too. Everybodies different. If you like her this much continue too. Don't let a feeling get in the way when its possible it could come later. |
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*Weird addiction* |
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i think that if u dont have this "feeling" now ull never have it...leave her
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![]() Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,881 ![]() |
yea i was talkin to some people today and they all said the same thing. to just give it time. i guess ill "be with her" but not date her as of yet. jsut take it slow and maybee a connection will build
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![]() ...and this is me.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 ![]() |
there are no shortcuts when it comes to relationships or "special feelings"
The outcome may be worth the wait..time will in the end decide what happens. |
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