My Best Friend Hates Me... Options

[HoLLiStErQT8908]

Hey. Okay, I have a best friend and her name is Brittany Keyes. and she has been "dating" this guy Matt Holman for about a month now. But its the thing where like "we make out but we're not an OFFICIAL couple" type thing. So he's not really her boyfriend. But this past weekend I hung out w/ him and a few of my friends and like we were flirting. I'll admit that. and like he was like "so are we gunna have a foursome or what?" and I said "oooh yeah, you know it" and JOKINGLY acted like I was undoing his pants. So come Monday, I told my friend Jamie about it *whom had KISSED Matt not even a week before* thinking I could trust her. Turns out 6th hour, she tells Brittany EVERYTHING. Brittany gets PISSED. However--she's not mad at MATT or JAMIE but for sum reason is only mad at me. Do you think she has a right to be mad at me, since I didn't really do anything? I mean I could've done more w/ him if I wanted to but I didn't. PLEASE HELP ME. She still won't talk to me and I won't to know if I'm in the wrong here. THANKS!

[acidophilus]

Um...don't "kiss and tell?"

[xbladeoffire90x]

Yup, next time don't tell Jamie.

Tell exactly what you told us to her.

If she's a true friend she'll probably eventually forgive you.

[gigiopolis]

I think it's your fault.

Now why would she be mad at Jamie? Think about it - when telling Britney about you and Matt, would Jamie tell Britney about how they kissed? No. No one in their right mind would say that. And even if you told Britney after she got pissed at you that Jamie kissed Matt, Britney probably wouldn't even believe you. After all, you were hitting on her "boyfriend".

She's not mad at Matt because he's not even her real boyfriend. If she cared enough they'd actually be together officially. The real reason she's pissed off is because she think she can't trust YOU, her best friend.

That's the reason she's pissed off at you. It's not because you hit on her boyfriend, as I think she wouldn't care so much about it. It's because she thinks you've abused her trust.

Here's the moral of the story:

DON'T FLIRT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND'S (SUPPOSED) SIGNIFICANT OTHER.

Here's another:

DON'T TELL JAMIE SECRETS.

[eversosweet]

Yup, next time don't tell Jamie.

Tell exactly what you told us to her.

If she's a true friend she'll probably eventually forgive you.

^^ i agree.

don't tell jamie next time, well if she is your best friend then i think she will or might forgive you.

[xj_liana_tx]

honey, first.. no real/full names here plz (in this case i think ur usin both)
and .. u do have to take responsibility in this. i mean murders get caught by blabin stuff to everyone because they can't keep it inside. and i mean, u can't blame her cuz u did admit that u were flirtin.

[Shattered_Hope]

if yur gonna say anything..kiss and tell only to the source..the friend..so that you can explain anything that would confuse her and make her mad at you....but normally...you DONT kiss and tell..

[*wind&fire*]

she isnt your best friend if she hates you... just explain it all..

[*Weird addiction*]

yes she has the right to be mad at u cuz u were flirting with the guy she liked and didnt tell her but told someone else...!! dunt do that again!!

[sammi rules you]

how old are you?

all these people making out all the time..
my advice: don't make out with a buncha people all the time. =) sounds like you guys are a somewhat..slutty kind of group. not trying to insult, but..you act like that happens all the time..

[angelbaby317]

I think it's your fault.

Now why would she be mad at Jamie? Think about it - when telling Britney about you and Matt, would Jamie tell Britney about how they kissed? No. No one in their right mind would say that. And even if you told Britney after she got pissed at you that Jamie kissed Matt, Britney probably wouldn't even believe you. After all, you were hitting on her "boyfriend".

She's not mad at Matt because he's not even her real boyfriend. If she cared enough they'd actually be together officially. The real reason she's pissed off is because she think she can't trust YOU, her best friend.

That's the reason she's pissed off at you. It's not because you hit on her boyfriend, as I think she wouldn't care so much about it. It's because she thinks you've abused her trust.

Here's the moral of the story:

DON'T FLIRT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND'S (SUPPOSED) SIGNIFICANT OTHER.

Here's another:

DON'T TELL JAMIE SECRETS.

agreed.

Even though your were 'joking' you were still flirting. (Which you admitted) If I were her I'd be mad at both you and Matt. (not Jamie cause I wouldn't of known about her) I think you should go apoligize and tell her you didn't mean to hurt her. But be nice when you say it. No attitude, cause then your not really sorry.

[literemix24]

^ Agreed. Don't go makin' out w/ your best friends signifigant other..xP

[milky_yumm]

not my fault.............

[3ssx]

does she noe the truth?.. maybe jamie said you DID undo his pants..
next time dun trust jamie...
if she was ur best friend.. and knew that ur were joking... she wudnt be mad at u

[whywasisostupid]

jamie is a back stabbing beotch
and
u shuldnt have flirted wit ur best friends boyfreind, even though they werent `going out` officialy
and
never tell jamie nemthing
and
tell ur best friend the truth of waht really hapened

[smthngcrprategrl...]

she does have a reason to be mad. just she shouldn't just be mad at you

[sheddingtears]

She shouldn't really be mad at you since she doesn't "own" him or anything, but I guess she's a little attached to him since they made out and all. I think she should actually be mad at the guy since he flirted with you too. But try to place yourself in your best friend's shoes. Would you be mad if your best friend started flirting with the guy you've made out with?

[christiee_nax]

pshht. she actually wants him as not just a make out partner and she's pissed at you for flirting with someone who wasnt even offically with her. well next time you shouldnt have done that anyways. and yup, dont exploit stuff that arent supposed to be told.