wtf s wrong about being a COMPLETE virgin? Options

[xj_liana_tx]

ok, well this is wat happend. i was like chillin with my frinds and stuff and at one point of the convo, we started to talk about guys (i dont mean to exclude all the guys here) and everything, and like i was like "well i ve never had a bf so i wouldn't no.." and then ther s a period of silence, and they were like shocked like i shrunk into the size of n ant or something, and they kept askin me questions, and i was like no i haven't kissed a guy, and stuff. and they were just.. shocked.

i mean, yeah i m a complete virgin, so wat?? wtf s wrong about it, i mean i m not perfect and i dont wna be a slut and go out n make out with everyone i no (i dont wna get mono).. its like they just regarded me differently after that.

i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am?

[*tweeak*]

yeah, if you think youre discluding the guys it should go in girls locker

but yeah, i am too but most of my friends are too (or were until this year) so its not that bad yet.

[whywasisostupid]

i dont wna get mono

uh...the chances of gettin mono is actualy very small i think. im not sure.

ur not weird. but. i dont know anyboyd whos never made out/kiss or wahtever. maybe u shuld have kepy ur mouth shut about the whoole 'no boyfreind thing'

[mz anita xP]

theres nothing wrong for never doing any of those =] your friends shouldnt react this way, i mean like if they're really your true friends, they would know you well enough and wouldnt mind about who you are. if you dont wanna go outs yet or make out or anything yet, then dont. its your choice, no theirs. whatever they believe in shouldnt affect you at all. you're not a loser and you're not weird.

[angelbaby317]

don't listen to em. If you don't want to you don't have to. And if you want to stay a virgin til your married thats fine too. (I know I do!) The guy for you will come along someday. Just hold in there. And yeah, people will make fun of you, but pay no attention to them. Kinda like Jessica Simpson. But theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you find one that does tell you why its wrong, let me know. Cause I'd like to know too.

[*tweeak*]

uh...the chances of gettin mono is actualy very small i think. im not sure.

ur not weird. but. i dont know anyboyd whos never made out/kiss or wahtever. maybe u shuld have kepy ur mouth shut about the whoole 'no boyfreind thing'

the chances of getting mono arent that slim. my friend go mono from her fist boyfriend last year. she tried to cover it up and say that she had a fever, but even her older brother admitted the truth

[rueyaroo]

you could get..sexual diseases through kissing.....

[avalon*]

there's nothing wrong with it =) everyone's different and hopefully your friends will respect that. you should do what you want and not what everyone else thinks you should do.

[Saeglopur]

Tell them, "At least, I won't end up being pregnant with a man who'll leave me and end up not going to college and living in some beat up trailer because my moma disowned me and won't let me back in the house."

[Shattered_Hope]

theres nothing wrong with it...youll find yur guy someday, why rush?

[MusicalAngel]

There's nothing wrong with it. I'm a complete virgin and some wish they were too. It's not bad... keep doing what you're doing... cause its right

[sammi rules you]

there's nothing wrong with that at all. go you for not being a total slut.

[mizz_mithy]

i think kids these gae are going wayyyy to fast. this girl is 13 and we were talking she goes "i'm not a vrigin. i lost it to fred" (i forgot the guy's name). i was like whoa there. then all these girls are sittin on the boys lap and talkin about making out. we're only in middle skool. i agree with you. there's nothing wrong with it.

[christiee_nax]

geez they should understand that its your own descision to do what you want. what kinda friends do that to you!

[scandalous_chic]

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[christiee_nax]

yah. i wouldnt wanna be pregnant at my age.

[EvraeMorbid]

Even though, I'm not a virgin, I can say I'm perfectly happy with who i lost it to and when I did it(a Childhood best/f). It's great you can hold your head up high and admit that you've never done anything. My scardy ass would of been lying. Well, back then anyways,not now. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Do what you feel is right, and I'm sure ten years from now they'll be going 'Oh..i wish I waited..ect ect.' It's cool to have that kind of restraint it just shows how much smarter you are than people who make out with everyone other guy.

<33
Evrae

[imadorkabledxd]

ehh society makes you think that you should have a boyfriend and etc...but you know what, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it

[thaichic192]

Nothing wrong with it. That's me, sort of... It's a good thing though. My dad would kill me if he found out I even gave my friend a peck.

[jambaJUICE]

Nothings wrong with being a virgin.
Maybe they`re just surprised that since you`re pretty, and a cheerleader, they figured that you shud have had a boyfriend and done stuff*shrugs*.

But there is a lot of stuff wrong with being female.

[ryfitaDF]

don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you.

[*krnxswat*]

Nothing.

[xj_liana_tx]

thanx guys, these r really good advice and support. ok just to accentuate the point here, wat i mean by a complete virgin is not mainly about how i abstinent, but its sort of about how i um... (lowers head) never made out and never had a bf?? (runs away), but go on, sry to interrupt.

[milky_yumm]

i anno. i thinks its kinda odd, but all my friends had there first b/f at the age of like, 10! i know...sad, but true (me included. ..actauly earlier, much, if you cont in prek hoe we would ger married, HAHA, good times good times... ) but thats just me. i think its cool you dont care about that stuff, your prolly really good in school unlike a bunch of my friend who dont focous on that at all any more... ... but i wouldnet be that PROUD of it... i mean like, dont be all, i have never had a bf and you have so , HA im better than you. and, i dont think you would .. just sayin.

and from the picks ive seen of you you seem pretty and nice, i dont see why you havent been asked out yet...or have you...

[dani41790]

no... that doesnt make u a loser at all

[WickedDreamer]

*cough*media*cough*

[dreamerOi]

nothing. im a virgin as well. half the people i know are& the other half arent. i think if your not a virgin at this age well it could have been a mistake most likely or youll feel as if he wasnt the right guy. depends. but always a reason. im a virgin because i want to have it with someone i may marry. or love trully.

[nlgrl]

i dont think theres nothing wrong with it...

[DoOdOox3]

haaha girlyyy
therez nothing wrong with you
i wish i could be as pure as you [not sayin im a slut pft]
itz really awesome that you are protecting yourself. you respect yourself... thatz really important.
dont worry about it. you are not a loser. no way =]]
X

[royalfreshness]

ok, well this is wat happend. i was like chillin with my frinds and stuff and at one point of the convo, we started to talk about guys (i dont mean to exclude all the guys here) and everything, and like i was like "well i ve never had a bf so i wouldn't no.." and then ther s a period of silence, and they were like shocked like i shrunk into the size of n ant or something, and they kept askin me questions, and i was like no i haven't kissed a guy, and stuff. and they were just.. shocked.

i mean, yeah i m a complete virgin, so wat?? wtf s wrong about it, i mean i m not perfect and i dont wna be a slut and go out n make out with everyone i no (i dont wna get mono).. its like they just regarded me differently after that.

i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am?

I don't think there's anytyhing wrong with that either. But I don't tell my guy friends that I've never had a BF (I'm a complete virgin too) except for one of my really close friends and he wasn't shocked or anything. I just know alot of people that would get shocked so i keep it to myself. xD.

[*Weird addiction*]

its not bad but its wierd u know neva kissed a guy??...but its not bad

[ryfitaDF]

thanx guys, these r really good advice and support. ok just to accentuate the point here, wat i mean by a complete virgin is not mainly about how i abstinent, but its sort of about how i um... (lowers head) never made out and never had a bf?? (runs away), but go on, sry to interrupt.

if you want a b'f then get one. if you want to kiss somone then do it. but don't feel bad that you havn't. in some cases you should even feel proud. look at people fighting with their significant other and go "ha! i never had to deal with that"

[shortiiex]

i never had a bf,too. there is nothing worng with being a virgin..that saves trouble of being pregnet

[*AngelicEyz00*]

yes, you're a loser, go have sex with your brother, now!

it's like whatever, i don't see the big deal with being one or not being one

[xj_liana_tx]

and from the picks ive seen of you you seem pretty and nice, i dont see why you havent been asked out yet...or have you...

well i ve been asked out, i ve just never said "yes", cuz well, i dont like them and i dont see the reason y i should just go out with them and go "o look i have a bf." or just purely use them.

[milky_yumm]

^yeah, that makes sence...=]

[asianteahouse]

making out with boys or having a b/f isnt the greatest thing in the world. trust me, i know, ive been through it, and i regret it so much.

[gigiopolis]

Well...in that case I think there's something terribly wrong about your friends. Because most of the people I know are complete, UTTER virgins who haven't gone out with a guy or received a peck on the cheek either.

[aznhunnie6o1]

your friends are real jerks... -___-"

theres nothing rong with being a complete virgin.. u just havent found the rite dood to be yours.. i havent kissed anybody befor either! -high five-

x3, cindy

[CrimsonArchangel]

don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you.

Power to that.

Don't let them get to you. Kids these days are just rushing through life. Being shocked at you not being a slut is quite immature.

Power to you!

[kalyps0]

There is nothing wrong with it. I didn't have a bf until 2 years ago when most of my friends did like 4-5 years ago and were kissing/making out by the time I finally got a bf. And now I have done stuff but that only started about 2 months ago.

Most of the time people are jsut shocked because a lot of people are doing stuff young now.

[inthemudhole]

I respect you.
Seriously, I do.
<--Virgin.

Are you taking kissing/cuddling/holding hands/having a boyfriend as part of the virginity?

Then I guess I'm not a "complete" virgin if you take that into consideration.. but I haven't really even gotten to first base.. just a peck or two.
Anyway, I'm rambling.

[xocrziiblondeox]

ive had a few bfs... never made out or anything like that thou... so dont worry about wut other people think cuz u should talk ur own time.. in the end ull be glad u did.

[short_Stuff516]

i think it's great that you are still. in a society that pressures girls more and more to have sex earlier, i comend you for holding off.

[*jooleeah*]

Haha, there's nothing wrong with being a complete virgin. your friends are just being jerks. also, just because you kiss someone or makeout with someone doesn't mean youre a slut.
um. anyway, it's good that you don't go around making out with random kids. it shows you have respect for yourself.

[islandkiss]

what's wrong with 'being a complete virgin?'


you control your own life and make your own decisions. so what if you feel like you aren't ready to take on 'bigger' things? << my point is, is that you aren't the only person who hasn't experienced these things, like I am, and there isn't anything wrong with that.

[azngurlinda808st...]

Just because all of your friends are not complete virgins, it doesn't make you a loser because you are one. It's your choice what you want to do or not so don't feel pressured to do things just because your friends have. Have a bf/make out with someone only when YOU are ready.

[kiSHBall]

personally i think that being a complete virgin is a GOOD thing.
but then again, i'm only one person.
so to answer your question.. no, there is nothing wrong with u =)

[eunie04]

there is absolutly nothing wrong with being a virgin

[sheepy]

no way. if your friends cant take you for who you are; then thats just too bad for them.

[Just_Dream]

It's better that you are a "complete virgin" as you migh put it. That means whoever is special and lucky enough to be your first boyfriend and get your first kiss, then he'll be the perfect guy for you (hopefully). Wait, how old are you? 15 or 16? Anyway, I think it's great that you saved your first kiss. There's alot of people I know that have dated when they were in middle school, especially when they were only 12-13. At that time, everyone went on a dating spree and went out with others and had those 1-week relationship things. I can't have those; I've only been in 2 other relationships besides the one I'm in now and the shortest was 1.5 months.

I respect you because you don't care about wanting a boyfriend right now because you do have your whole life to find a significant other. I wish I had saved my first kiss because I regret wasting it.. Every day, I regret wasting it.

[houjin_himo]

i think theres plainly nothing wrong with being a virgin....everybody's unique and has different beliefs...your friends are semi-caca heads :D

[ANG33ZY]

There's nothing wrong about it.

[miss barnes]

Nothings wrong with being a virgin.
Maybe they`re just surprised that since you`re pretty, and a cheerleader, they figured that you shud have had a boyfriend and done stuff*shrugs*.

But there is a lot of stuff wrong with being female.

i agree completely. looking at your pics, i would have thought you would have had a bf before but i guess looks REALLY CAN be deceiving. theres nothing wrong with being a virgin

[[x].j.u.l.i.e.[x...]

i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am?

no you're not, be proud of your virginity becuase so many people these days have lost it, i mean thats great you have morals and stuff...so no your not a loser for that <~ you deserver those

[misoshiru]

there's nothing wrong with. as using the way you use it, i'm a "complete" virgin too and so are many of my friends. and i'm a junior in highschool too.

[d . O . r . k]

I don't see anything wrong with it, because I too am a complete virgin.

[megan_x3]

theres nothing wrong with u , its just that ur frds doesnt know u dat well . dat makes up a big deal dat u hadnt had a bf yet . its not ur fault . =)

[smileyworld010]

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[ApunBindaas]

Nothing is wrong. I give you more props for that. It's just that people like to talk and you just happen to be the victim.

[tresa1992]

don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you.

Yes, I agree. You're just trying to protect yourself, and you probably wouldn't want to take things too fast. Do what you want to do, not what others are doing.

[Nicolatofu]

There's nothing wrong, i don't think. You'll have a boyfriend when your ready, and when you find someone who cares about you. Don't let them get to you. You don't have to do anything with a guy to be heard or cool.

[fallen_angel1137]

There's nothing wrong with being a complete virgin, but there comes a time when you **should** have a boyfriend. I mean if you're like 15-16-17etc...its kind of abnormal, but thats your choice. I mean you can always have a bf but not have sex with them....which would make you still a virgin..totally up to you though. And, btw, getting an STI or STD is very slim..unless that person has one first and mono...is very unlikely....

[angeloncloud9]

there's nothing wrong with it, it's just society is changing.

[177emories]

so what exactly is mono?

[*StanleyThePanda*]

so what exactly is mono?

Mononucleosis (often called "mono") is an infection caused by the Epstein-Barr virus. Signs of mono include fever, sore throat, headaches, white patches on the back of your throat, swollen glands in your neck, feeling tired and not feeling hungry.

Sometimes. The main serious concern with mono is that the spleen will enlarge and even rupture (tear open). The spleen is like a large gland. It's located in the upper part of your abdomen on the left side. It has functions that relate to your blood.


Although a ruptured spleen is rare in people with mono, it's wise to be aware of the signs and call your doctor right away if you notice any of them. Signs of a ruptured spleen include pain in the left upper part of your abdomen (under the left chest), feeling lightheaded, feeling like your heart is beating fast and hard, bleeding more easily than usual and having trouble breathing.
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So yeah. I hope that helped.

[oO_BrItTiShBaBe_...]

No, I'm actually really glad to hear that there are others out there like me. I plan on staying a virgin until marriage, and that is no reason to look down on someone. If they will treat you differently because you are a virgin, then they are not real friends at all. Pardon me, but that is immature and retarded of them.
Ok I'll shut up now.
But you rock, keep it up girl!!

Ta.

[HikaruTakekawa]

no ur not a loserr and sometimes its a good thing that you havent had a first boyfriend or your first kiss yet cuz you can save something like that for someone you really like, so later on in life when you reflect you can tell ur kids or ur friends that your first boyfriend or your first kiss meant something important to u cuz he was special and set an example for them.

[jr0h]

ok theres nothing wrong with that at all....

not being a virgin is wats wrong!

just cause theres like more girls who arent virgins then there are virgins doesnt mean its supposed to be bad for the virgins..

im a virgin and im proud of it.

[you suck]

dont rush into things!
n ps, u dont only get mono from kissin! i got it n i had kissed ne1 in that time period. but it sux.
n they arent good friends if they treat u like that!

[smthngcrprategrl...]

ur not weird! ur normal actually. you'll get a boyfriend when you find a guy who you really care about and he cares about you back. and bsides it's ur decision not ur friends.

[weirdness]

nothing being a complete virgin. im a complete virgin *high fives*

[irock89]

Tell them, "At least, I won't end up being pregnant with a man who'll leave me and end up not going to college and living in some beat up trailer because my moma disowned me and won't let me back in the house."

that's true right there.. i mean ... me too.. few guys have been asking my phone numbers and i kinda threw some harsh phrases on them like "I DON'T HAVE A PHONE NUMBER..WE GOT DISCONNECTED" to get them out of my way.. and also i didn't like them.. and also.. that happened to me .. my friend was so --> but then.. she said.. "that's okay" and said "you don't want to end up with a man who'll leave you pregnant and stuff.. not finishing ur education and live in a ghetto trailer for life and ur children's gonna do the same thing as you did.." and i felt really relieved.. kind of like the quote from above!

[domsweetie]

You're no loser, i think your friends who stared at you like that O.O have more advantage of being the losers. :)
uhh..Did that help?

[*StanleyThePanda*]

No, I'm actually really glad to hear that there are others out there like me. I plan on staying a virgin until marriage, and that is no reason to look down on someone. If they will treat you differently because you are a virgin, then they are not real friends at all. Pardon me, but that is immature and retarded of them.
Ok I'll shut up now.
But you rock, keep it up girl!!

Ta.

heck yes.
you rock
I am also waiting til marriage.

[tallaznkate]

ME TOO

[LiLaZnGirL122]

aww ur frds r stupid >_< da farthest i gone ish a hug lol ur not a loser ur tite =)

[Too Asian To DIE]

thats what make sum people different than other people... if everyone was the same then the world might as well go to hell

[thundergirl14]

i don't know. i don't feel anything is wrong with that

[angelrevelation]

what do you mean complete virgin?

well anyway there's nothing wrong with that. i guess since your friends think its degrading... maybe they're very err... experienced? and think that since they all have done it then you probably should have already too...? but i think its perfectly fine

[Teesa]

there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

[y0urelectrikk]

Thats the way I am..

I never made out with a guy and all that stuff. All my friends do and they make fun of me for it

[Trolling]

It happens to me too... I get ragged on by my guy freinds... But the girls are like "Loser" in their minds... *sighs* At this rate Imma grow old and die alone -.-

[rOckThISshYt]

Well, I personally couldn't do that because I love that kind of things. But it's good that you don't. I get so pissed if my friends do the crap I do with guys (not saying that I'm a slut or anything). So, I think it's a good thing. Don't worry 'bout it, babes.