early age?, . Options

[tooeffingcrazy]

okay well my sister and her bf has been dating for quite a while now. 10 months already. well anywyas, he came over to our house (well snuck in cause my mom would faint if she found out my sister is oging out) for their 10 month anny. yeah he went to their rooma and they did stuff. but when they went downstairs they were watching t.v, but i was curious what they were doing, so i went down the stairs slowly and quietly and when i peeked over to the right, i see him on top of her, banging her. it was a awkward picture, and it was scary too. btw she is only 14 which really scares me. im not sure if im over reacting, cause i think 14 is quite young. hmm. i tried talking to her, all she does is scream at me like "GO AWAY SHUTTUP I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU" so there is no way i can talk to her about what hse has done. i asked her if she went to 4th base yet (all the way) and she said, were my clothes off. then i said "i doesn't need to be off" then she started scareming at me. im not quite sure if they had it, but the puzzle pieces fit together. so i was wondering if i should tell her best friend to talk to her about it, cause she obviosly won't listen to me. and i need to tell someone besides my parents. cause they will not approve of that. but if i tell her best friend, she might think she is quite awkward and they might not be friends anymore.

deng this is so confusing. so what should i do ?

[LadyXTor]

This is a very delicate topic. If you told her friend, your sister might hate you or have a grudge against you for a long time. But if you do tell her friend and she gets through to your sister, it could make a difference. So...it kind of depends if you still wanna be your sis's friend or you wanna save her before things get too serious. But, y'know...i'd try talking to her again first. Her friend might not even make a difference, things might leak out and yeah your sis's rep is ruined and...ahh i'm just assuming. Try talking again?

[eversosweet]

i think you should try talking to her again. yeah i agree 14 IS abit too young

[xbladeoffire90x]

maybe you little sister is scared..?

[*Weird addiction*]

try talking to her again...14?? she aint that young to get laid!!

[metabolic666]

Hrmm I guess try telling her what could happen if she did do it.

[XxtremeRickyX]

uhm basically what ever you tell her or a friend tells her won't make a difference for the simple fact that if she wants to do what ever your trying to say she's gonna do it anyways. Even if an adult tells her something it doens't matter because she's the one that has the choice at the end.

[xj_liana_tx]

first of all, i just wna say its probably really really awkward for ur sister to no that u no something, and actualy u ve seen it....... so i suggest that u dontn talk to her about it, and dont tell her best frind, cuz well.. frindship s weird, if it doesn't turn out good, she mite hate u forever (cuz maybe her best frind ll tell everyone else).. just keep it quiet, she needs to make her own decision, i mean, she s had her sex ed.

[inthemudhole]

try talking to her again...14?? she aint that young to get laid!!

Uhm, yeah.. it is pretty f*cking young, if you ask me.

Hmm.. I'd try talking to her again.. and if she won't respond, then I'd just threaten to "tell mom and dad.." that might have an effect on her.. if it does, then go ahead and tell them if she won't cooperate with her.

[shrug]

[jazzydancer9]

whoa... TOO YOUNG

[whywasisostupid]

wait. 14?? and he was bangin her?? whoa...tell her again and how she shuld not being doing that since she is only 14 and people will get the impression that shes a slut

[tooeffingcrazy]

thanks everyone =]. i guess i will just leave her alone, make her decide her own choices.