Broken heart, how do you pick up the pieces? |
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 Oct 31 2004, 09:24 AM
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 Melissa <3  Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,580  |
How do you do it?
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Oct 31 2004, 09:44 AM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
learn to cope, live a better live than ur ex, don't look back, and it's not a mistake.
ps. I never been dumped b4 so this is my philosophy. |
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Oct 31 2004, 10:52 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
dont think about him... dont look at him... dont talk to him if u cant handle begin "just" friends... spend more time with your friends and get out more to get your mind off him...
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Oct 31 2004, 10:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(moorepocket @ Oct 31 2004, 10:44 PM) learn to cope, live a better live than ur ex, don't look back, and it's not a mistake. ps. I never been dumped b4 so this is my philosophy. What she said is pretty accurate and most important. You need to learn to cope with life without him. You need to stop depending on him. You've only got yourself now. Do things for yourself. You'll find that life gets easier. Occupy yourself so you don't think about him as much. And if you think about the past, don't focus on the breakup. Think about all the happy times you've had together and be thankful. |
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Oct 31 2004, 12:59 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
u keep moving on , and when u have been in so many relationships u just become numb, yes, numb... well that is just for me... sad actually
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Oct 31 2004, 01:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you cant pick up the pieces...you can only gather then and try to make it stick together....a broken heart..is like broken glass.....you cant pick up the pieces ....you can only gather it. try and be positive...
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Oct 31 2004, 02:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
get back up, never look back, enjoy life, dont think about him
i dont really know, becaz i've never been dumped. |
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Oct 31 2004, 04:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 775 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,754 |
it gets easier after time. A lot easier
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Oct 31 2004, 05:06 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
you dont. or just try to find a person for comfort. well thats what i did. but yea my hearts still pretty much broken& in pain. but hes who just makes me forget about him at times.
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Oct 31 2004, 06:51 PM
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Melissa <3 Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,580 |
QUOTE dont think about him... dont look at him... dont talk to him if u cant handle begin "just" friends... spend more time with your friends and get out more to get your mind off him... That's exactly what I'm doing. And I called up my best friend. I need her a lot now. QUOTE learn to cope, live a better live than ur ex, don't look back, and it's not a mistake. ps. I never been dumped b4 so this is my philosophy. I wasn't dumped. I let the relationship go because he wasn't on the same page as me. I was like on...page 200 and he was still on page 50.
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Oct 31 2004, 06:55 PM
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Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Oct 31 2004, 10:57 AM) What she said is pretty accurate and most important. You need to learn to cope with life without him. You need to stop depending on him. You've only got yourself now. Do things for yourself. You'll find that life gets easier. Occupy yourself so you don't think about him as much. And if you think about the past, don't focus on the breakup. Think about all the happy times you've had together and be thankful. im a he!! |
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Oct 31 2004, 06:56 PM
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Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
QUOTE(Edele @ Oct 31 2004, 6:51 PM) I wasn't dumped. I let the relationship go because he wasn't on the same page as me. I was like on...page 200 and he was still on page 50. im just saying. |
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Oct 31 2004, 09:22 PM
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Time heals a broken heart. And if he ain't on the same page as u, don't stress it as bad if he can't read at ur level I guess. Lol~
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Oct 31 2004, 10:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
time is everything..
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Nov 1 2004, 11:17 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
my heart is still broken actually..still dunno how to put it back together.
I recently found myself having a crush on someone and i guess tht got me occupied from my ex.. |
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Nov 2 2004, 09:22 AM
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 i brake for hobbits Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,766 |
look at the quote in my signature...
 i live by that quote.. and it's so true. just let your friends and your music envelope you until you find a new love. and as for your ex... it obviously wasnt your true love, since you broke up with him. don't let yourself be miserable because of him... find someone else that deserves you.
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Nov 2 2004, 09:59 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(straightedge9 @ Nov 2 2004, 9:22 AM) look at the quote in my signature... i live by that quote.. and it's so true. just let your friends and your music envelope you until you find a new love. and as for your ex... it obviously wasnt your true love, since you broke up with him. don't let yourself be miserable because of him... find someone else that deserves you.o0o0oo0oh i luv yur quote...lols...no wonder you live by it...and your advise is totally right too x] |
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Nov 2 2004, 03:57 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
idk. u just try to keep living life to the fullest and always trying to have fun and not let it get you down i guess. thats what i did and i got over my last ex quick and fixed my broken heart. well actually it waz my frenz who helped me fix my broken heart. but yea thats another way. jus turn to frenz
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Nov 2 2004, 05:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
i think i ve never been broken hearted...and i m glad. just focus on other stuff if u can, and well, move on, or revenge if u like
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Nov 3 2004, 06:40 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
find someone new.
rawr. |
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Nov 3 2004, 07:19 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
like most people said, time heals you. you simply can NOT dwell on what has happened in the past. moving on is key.
when my ex dumped me, i found consolance in my friends and family, and gave myself some busy work. don't focus on getting somebody new to fill the void in your life. it may feel like your life is over, because it revolved around the person that broke your heart; but only you can make yourself whole again. |
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Nov 3 2004, 07:20 PM
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 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
dont look back. thats why your eyes were placed in the front, and not the back...(though that could be readily argued..) heh.
and time will be the healer. |
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Nov 4 2004, 04:29 PM
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catastrophic sweetness Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,334 |
It happened for a reason.
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Nov 18 2004, 12:56 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
move on and forget about him, live your life like the carefree one you had before your bf...boys=stress haha...i hope you get better (leave that part of your life behind...and dont think its your faul...think POSiTiVE)
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Nov 18 2004, 01:09 AM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Having been dumped in every relationship I've been in, I would think the best thing to do would be to try your best to forget, and move on. Lord knows we're all still young, and maybe we have to strike out a few times before we hit the home-run. (Forgive the cheesy metaphor) We just have to hang on because maybe tommorow, we'll find that right person. You just never know. I hope you can pick your heart and glue it together again. (I am actually going through that right now too, ironically). I wish you well.
~The Pixie is the manliest of all creatures~ -<(".<) |
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