showing that you love her Options

[x shootingstar x]

well well.. my *number* post. anyway... if you, a guy, LOVE a girl.. how would u show them?
sometimes.. girls hug guys a lot (but not too much) cuz they love them.. or just miss them. BUT what do GUYS think about when they hug you? or you hug her? most guys say the same thing.. and yall probably know wat im talking about..
but what do you actually do to show her that you love her?

do u feel comfortable singing to her? or do you sing to just anyone?


hug her?

wait for her after class?

call her a lot?

miss her a lot?

hold her hands a lot?

look into her eyes a lot?

smile to her a lot?



etc..

express your thoughts.

[grlzl0vemeeh]

i dont have a gf! haha but hey im on my way but if i had one id do all of the above cuz if she dont show that you love her she might not like you and go looking for another guy

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[Chaos13]

i ussually give her a warm long hug and say lovey dovey things. kisses when leaving.

[xj_liana_tx]

all of the above.. but dont make her think that ur obsessed, its scary.

[bigpoppaproppy]

me and my gf are both in college, her school is about an hour and 20minutes north of me

She's not huge on talkin on the phone, so I call once in awhile...but ill send her random little emails, I come home every week for fire dept. training anyway so I see her alot...i talk to her on AIM daily....etc

[x shootingstar x]

wow thanx.. i thought no one would reply.. =D

[*Statistik*]

I like a girl in our grade..she knows that i like her..i've never talked to her but i look at her face almost every day

[inthemudhole]

It depends on the girl.
Don't act all clingy and obsessive.. but make sure that your love for her is shown clearly.. I don't know, maybe phone calls and hugs at first..

[SarahxJoy]

Just for you guys to know, you don't have to go ALL out every single time you want to show you love her.
Little things are what makes those big special surprises meaningful.
I don't know about other girls, so I'll speak for myself, the simple things count too.
Possibly even more than the bigger things.

[RIcEB0IAnTh]

I would do all of the above for her if I can.

[*wind&fire*]

look long into their eyes

[innovation]

i ussually give her a warm long hug and say lovey dovey things. kisses when leaving.

doesn't work for girls who don't give in easily to flattery.
frankly, i don't trust guys who use flattery and kisses, etc. to their advantage. i don't trust guys like that. but eh. i'm paranoid. personally, i would say talk to her, and not about superficial things.

eh. i guess it depends on the girl.

[x shootingstar x]

well i'm a girl.. and for me.. hm.. i like it wen he hugs me tight and squeezes me.. but then.. if he like.. overdoes that.. it's dif.. i guess there's a limit and a line. But if he doesn't hug me at all, i wouldn't like that very well. I"m just wondering what actions would a guy do to show THE girl, that he loves her.

[madRooney]

well well.. my *number* post. anyway... if you, a guy, LOVE a girl.. how would u show them?
sometimes.. girls hug guys a lot (but not too much) cuz they love them.. or just miss them. BUT what do GUYS think about when they hug you? or you hug her? most guys say the same thing.. and yall probably know wat im talking about..
but what do you actually do to show her that you love her?

do u feel comfortable singing to her? or do you sing to just anyone?

do u just wanna kiss her?

===> yes

hug her?

===> yes

wait for her after class?

===> no, make myself look stupid

call her a lot?

===> not a lot... maybe sometimes

miss her a lot?

===> yes for sure

hold her hands a lot?

===> maybe sometimes

look into her eyes a lot?

===> yes but secretly

smile to her a lot?

===> not sure


etc..

express your thoughts.

[x3_ken]

well..i do sing alot to her..=P

[islandkiss]

well..i do sing alot to her..=P

why yes, yes he does.

[*krnxswat*]

I turn her to look over there, and when she realizes nothing is there and turns back around, I flatulate in her face.

[x shootingstar x]

but i'm still wondering..

if a guy claims to miss his gf, why don't he just call her?

why would he rather text message her on her cell.. but won't call her instead?

is it because he's shy? or is he just saying that?

he would either text her.. or don't call at all. he only calls rarely.
he says "i love you" sometimes..
kisses me (on the cheek) a lot the other day.. but it seems to be just a one-time thing.
I call him, and we talk for quite a while.. he feels uncomfortable talking about other girls.

i don't knoe.. i'm just wondering.. *sigh*

thanks everyone for replying.

[*krnxswat*]

How old are you?

[*Kathleen*]

I turn her to look over there, and when she realizes nothing is there and turns back around, I flatulate in her face.

Oh I love it when guys do that to me. Blah. I don't believe in love anymore. The things you questionned people about...are even things mere attraction would produce. As Nick mentioned above, I think love is deeper than that. One has to actually get to know the person and talk to them about things...and appreciate them as a person before they can actually, truly love them. I suppose that's just my opinion.

[tinababy143]

haha..funnie you ask..i just posted something like that in my lj...

Tell her you think that she's cool. Tell her why you think she's so cool. Talk to her in movie theatres. Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the ocean, she'll scream and fight you but secretly, she'll love it. Hold her hand and walk. Hold her hand and run. Just hold her hand. Pick her flowers out of other people's yards and give them to her. Tell her she looks pretty. Let her pay for stuff if she wants to. Introduce her to your friends as 'the coolest girl i know'. Sit in the park and talk to her. Tell her stupid jokes. Write poems about her. Just walk around with her. Throw rocks at her window at night, when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. Take her to shows of bands she's never heard. Hold her hand in the mosh pit. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Call her. Call her back if she calls you. Sing to her, no matter how bad you are. Carve your names into a tree. Get her mad, then kiss her. Give her piggy-back rides. Go see her favorite band play even if they really suck. Then tell her that they were great. Give her space if she needs it. Push her on swings. Stay up with her all night when she's sick. Make up pet names for her, but cool ones, not sappy ones. Lend her your cds. Write on her. Make her mixtapes. Write her letters. If she asks you to go to a show with her, go, even it it means a 5 hour road trip. Listen to all the bands she mentions. Dont tell her that her favorite bands suck. When shes sad hang out with her or stay on the phone even if shes not saying anything. Buy her ice cream. Let her take all the pictures of you she wants. Look into her eyes. Slow dance with her, even if the music is fast. Kiss her in the rain. When you fall in love with her, tell her.

[apple.]

hug her..

[*Kathleen*]

Mmm...

Tell her you think that she's cool. Tell her why you think she's so cool. Talk to her in movie theatres. Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the ocean, she'll scream and fight you but secretly, she'll love it. Hold her hand and walk. Hold her hand and run. Just hold her hand. Pick her flowers out of other people's yards and give them to her. Tell her she looks pretty. Let her pay for stuff if she wants to. Introduce her to your friends as 'the coolest girl i know'. Sit in the park and talk to her. Tell her stupid jokes. Write poems about her. Just walk around with her. Throw rocks at her window at night, when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. Take her to shows of bands she's never heard. Hold her hand in the mosh pit. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Call her. Call her back if she calls you. Sing to her, no matter how bad you are. Carve your names into a tree. Get her mad, then kiss her. Give her piggy-back rides. Go see her favorite band play even if they really suck. Then tell her that they were great. Give her space if she needs it. Push her on swings. Stay up with her all night when she's sick. Make up pet names for her, but cool ones, not sappy ones. Lend her your cds. Write on her. Make her mixtapes. Write her letters. If she asks you to go to a show with her, go, even it it means a 5 hour road trip. Listen to all the bands she mentions. Dont tell her that her favorite bands suck. When shes sad hang out with her or stay on the phone even if shes not saying anything. Buy her ice cream. Let her take all the pictures of you she wants. Look into her eyes. Slow dance with her, even if the music is fast. Kiss her in the rain. When you fall in love with her, tell her.

^ That would be my perfect guy. But anywho...do you people that mentioned hugging as showing you love her...honestly, is that all? You just have to hug her to show that? Heh. Wow.

[Levy2k6]

tell her u love her.... in a jokinly way if u have too...

make her laugh and give her a good time (no pun intended.....maybe)

[Knight]

The girl I like currently has no idea that I have feelings for her, and I'm afraid to tell her because I don't want to risk ending our friendship, so I can't really do anything to show it. Someone told me that I "flirt" by shooting long gazes at certain girls. This person said that it's sort of a "wow" look. I wonder how many times I do this to my crush...

[sheepy]

haha..funnie you ask..i just posted something like that in my lj...

Tell her you think that she's cool. Tell her why you think she's so cool. Talk to her in movie theatres. Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the ocean, she'll scream and fight you but secretly, she'll love it. Hold her hand and walk. Hold her hand and run. Just hold her hand. Pick her flowers out of other people's yards and give them to her. Tell her she looks pretty. Let her pay for stuff if she wants to. Introduce her to your friends as 'the coolest girl i know'. Sit in the park and talk to her. Tell her stupid jokes. Write poems about her. Just walk around with her. Throw rocks at her window at night, when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. Take her to shows of bands she's never heard. Hold her hand in the mosh pit. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Call her. Call her back if she calls you. Sing to her, no matter how bad you are. Carve your names into a tree. Get her mad, then kiss her. Give her piggy-back rides. Go see her favorite band play even if they really suck. Then tell her that they were great. Give her space if she needs it. Push her on swings. Stay up with her all night when she's sick. Make up pet names for her, but cool ones, not sappy ones. Lend her your cds. Write on her. Make her mixtapes. Write her letters. If she asks you to go to a show with her, go, even it it means a 5 hour road trip. Listen to all the bands she mentions. Dont tell her that her favorite bands suck. When shes sad hang out with her or stay on the phone even if shes not saying anything. Buy her ice cream. Let her take all the pictures of you she wants. Look into her eyes. Slow dance with her, even if the music is fast. Kiss her in the rain. When you fall in love with her, tell her.

thats the sweetest thing everr..

[x shootingstar x]

Tell her you think that she's cool. Tell her why you think she's so cool. Talk to her in movie theatres. Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the ocean, she'll scream and fight you but secretly, she'll love it. Hold her hand and walk. Hold her hand and run. Just hold her hand. Pick her flowers out of other people's yards and give them to her. Tell her she looks pretty. Let her pay for stuff if she wants to. Introduce her to your friends as 'the coolest girl i know'. Sit in the park and talk to her. Tell her stupid jokes. Write poems about her. Just walk around with her. Throw rocks at her window at night, when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her. Take her to shows of bands she's never heard. Hold her hand in the mosh pit. Let her fall asleep in your arms. Call her. Call her back if she calls you. Sing to her, no matter how bad you are. Carve your names into a tree. Get her mad, then kiss her. Give her piggy-back rides. Go see her favorite band play even if they really suck. Then tell her that they were great. Give her space if she needs it. Push her on swings. Stay up with her all night when she's sick. Make up pet names for her, but cool ones, not sappy ones. Lend her your cds. Write on her. Make her mixtapes. Write her letters. If she asks you to go to a show with her, go, even it it means a 5 hour road trip. Listen to all the bands she mentions. Dont tell her that her favorite bands suck. When shes sad hang out with her or stay on the phone even if shes not saying anything. Buy her ice cream. Let her take all the pictures of you she wants. Look into her eyes. Slow dance with her, even if the music is fast. Kiss her in the rain. When you fall in love with her, tell her.

beautiful. =D just ta let ya knoe.. i feel much much better.. i guess it was just me who needed reassurance. *relief* But wat TiNaBaBY074 said.. that is beautiful. so sweeeet!