How to tell, a guy u like him? |
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 Oct 28 2004, 04:27 AM
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Frankly I'm a pretty straightforward person. I like to just say wat I have on mind staight out ~ course there are times when i keep my mouth shut~ but just wondering ~ how do u tell a guy u like him and for it not to sound really awkward???
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Oct 28 2004, 08:16 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
ask him who likes and get him to ask you and be like "you." ? i dunno.
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Oct 28 2004, 08:27 AM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
just tell him what you want to tell him. like "i like you" try that for the record.
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Oct 28 2004, 10:21 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
ask him out ...
You - Hey bob! Bob- Hey whats up? You - What are u doing on blahday? Bob - nothing why? You - Yo want to come to the/a/blank BLAH with me? Bob - Sure... You - Good , its a date! There you go.... Or u can just be all cute and give him a notce And if u somewhat find some courage,just tell him |
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Oct 28 2004, 11:14 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
have a friend tell him!
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Oct 28 2004, 03:59 PM
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catastrophic sweetness Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,334 |
OOOH boy. I wish you luck. I'm a pretty straight forward person too, and this was my downfall, what to say. Don't get nervous and plan the scene out, have a general idea of what you want to say, but don't have a speech. But generally just go up to him, preferably when he's alone, and just say, "look, it's hard for me to say this, but I like you, more than as a person and as a friend, but I like the idea of you being something else to me." Something around those lines. Good Luck!
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Oct 28 2004, 05:51 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
im straightfoward. i tell him if i like him or not. BUT if i know he doesn't like me, i don't bother. i just try and get over him.
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Oct 28 2004, 08:55 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
lol im ridiculously chicken to tell the guy
 im more of a.. guys go first kind of girl... 
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Oct 29 2004, 01:08 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Write him a note!!!
 x3, cindy |
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Oct 29 2004, 08:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,340 |
Drop some major hints maybe? I guess if you act really flirtatious (sp?) that he would just get the hint... right? I'm not sure.. the only time I told a guy I liked him was right after he told me he loved me. I was like ummm.... can I tell you something? heh... I can rememver the whole conversation... It was so stupid - so if he says he loves you - make sure he doesn't love you as jsut a friend... in my case he liked me but since we went to different schools we didn't figure it would work out.. yeah...
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Oct 29 2004, 09:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,035 |
hmm..well i believe u should kno this person, kinda close mayb? um...hint him in some ways but not exactly telling him, and see his reactions, if its good then i guess u could find a place with jus u and him and tell him, since you dont seem to b the shy kinda person =] not me, i'm the kind that believes guys go first
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Oct 29 2004, 09:49 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
i agree with the above
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Oct 29 2004, 10:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
theres way too many topic like this. but anywayss yeah i agree with what the other people above me sed =]
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Oct 31 2004, 09:19 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(mz anita xP @ Oct 29 2004, 9:03 PM) hmm..well i believe u should kno this person, kinda close mayb? um...hint him in some ways but not exactly telling him, and see his reactions, if its good then i guess u could find a place with jus u and him and tell him, since you dont seem to b the shy kinda person =] not me, i'm the kind that believes guys go first ^^agreed.  tell a friend to tell him = 4th grade. writing notes = 7th grade. ^^you only do those if you`re in those grades. seriously.  you should get to know him more. don`t just like him off the streets just because he`s a cutie/hot/sexy. you might find out alot of things about him which can make you change your mind (esp. when he has a girlfriend! don`t freakin` try to steal him unless she`s ugly. ).
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Oct 31 2004, 11:20 AM
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 grape is a favorite Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,863 |
hmm well theres always the straight forward approach, that many of you girls im sure have used
but than they're are a few ladies, who arent as forward.. QUOTE Drop some major hints maybe? I guess if you act really flirtatious ^^i usually use this approach at first, i also have my friends help out a little bit...than if any questions are asked...ill come out and tell him. |
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Oct 31 2004, 08:18 PM
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 Gackt owns you. Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,953 |
hmmm.. i'm a pretty shy person i believe in the "guy should say or ask first situation"..lol.. but it always end up that the guy i like who was.. single.. is already dating someone else.. 'cause a girl asked him out..
  but i might have a few suggestions.. like, talk to him and ask him how his day was and so on and so forth then you're gonna end up having his phone number.. that's what my friend did... 
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Nov 3 2004, 12:33 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Oh gawd, i tried once. We were just sitting on the swings while our siblings were playing baseball...i told him and he freaked out and fell of the swings, *smacks forehead* Straightforward doesn't work for me.
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Nov 4 2004, 04:49 PM
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catastrophic sweetness Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,334 |
QUOTE Oh gawd, i tried once. We were just sitting on the swings while our siblings were playing baseball...i told him and he freaked out and fell of the swings, *smacks forehead* Straightforward doesn't work for me. Is it okay if I find that story extremely funny? |
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Nov 4 2004, 05:38 PM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
say ''I like you" it's not that hard...lol
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Nov 4 2004, 05:57 PM
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 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
ah yes. you flirt and flirt until he asks you out. or u can just tell him. =)
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Nov 4 2004, 06:00 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Go up to him and confess. theworst he can say is ...not interested...take a crazy chance..
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Nov 4 2004, 06:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Oct 28 2004, 8:16 AM) ask him who likes and get him to ask you and be like "you." ? i dunno. Actually that would be a great way. :D |
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Nov 4 2004, 07:04 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
okay here we go.
u: hey him: hi u: i like you him: cool u: yup not that easy but worth a try. and he might not even say cool. i duno |
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Nov 10 2004, 10:52 PM
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 LOVE ME ;] Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,829 |
take chances. you only live once and you just never know whats gonna happen
casually say "i like you" the first time you see him that day. sure it may ruin the friendship.. but it was never a true friendship if you liked him and wanted to be more than friends. it never works.. your feelings will get in the way. might as well find out for yourself before you waste too much time on him |
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Nov 10 2004, 11:38 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
I don't. Or I javen't in a long time. I remember in 5ht grade I wrote a little note to this guy Ii liked and he was my friend and all. Every since then he never talked to me the way we used to and he started picking on me like the rest of the my class. Once we got into 9th grade I know he was like "Dang, I wish she still liked me."
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Nov 10 2004, 11:44 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Oct 28 2004, 8:16 AM) ask him who likes and get him to ask you and be like "you." ? i dunno. lol exactly ill do |
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Nov 11 2004, 01:30 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Maybe you can just flirt a lot and hopefully he'll get the hint. Goodluck =)
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