A STALKER, <<preys on helpless children Options

[islandkiss]

This guy I know WON’T LEAVE ME ALONE.

I knew him from last year. He liked me. And I hated him. Somehow, one day, out of nowhere, he assumes that we’re friends. I DESPISE HIM. GR. << this started when my ex and I used to date last yr. he tried breaking us up. He’d tell me all these lies about my ex. He actually found that amusing. This isn’t the only problem. He’s so rude and immature.

O, but that’s not the end of it. He literally stalks me. Today at the end of 8th period I was walking to homeroom and I turn around and boom!, he’s right there.

he knew it was my birthday today and so he brought me stuff. He’s been sending me the queerest emails lately. He’s been pissing me off. He told me to meet him at his house and all this crap about wanting to see me. I can’t stand it anymore. So today I sent him an email telling him how I felt. Well, that won’t (from experience) even help. It’s so obvious that I hate him but he’s just too idiotic to notice. what's ironic is that I'm afraid of him. what if he hurts me.. ah, there are just too many conceqences.


I NEED HELP.

EDIT.

i found this horroscope... read it....  and tell me what i should do
with ur present..ok? BECAUSE I DIDNT FUKIN SPEND MY MONEY FOR NO FUKIN
REASON!

Scorpio (Scorpion)
Born October 23 - November 21
  Scorpios are highly dangerous, even at a distance. They cheat and
lie, live for intrigue, and take pleasure in destroying.
Pathological sadists and masochists simultaneously, they will not find
any means too low or dishonorable if it can aid in reaching their
goals.

Going to great lengths, they will strive to create a positive image of
themselves, just so they can backstab an opponent when he least expects
it.

Their career is built on the bodies of their more scrupulous victims.
If a Scorpio just told you how much he values your friendship, be
certain he has already ratted you out to the boss in an attempt to curry
favor.

Scorpios are famous for their affinity to dirty jokes and cheap porno
movies. They will spread rumors about their sexual conquests, cruelly
smearing anyone unlucky enough to be involved with them.



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if ppl werent bitches and backstabbers mayb my life would be easier but
since they arent...well u get the point.

that's the email he just sent me awhile ago. I feel pretty bad. and I think he added in a few things here and there in 'my horroscope' In a way, I feel so relieved.

[Just_Dream]

Maybe he secretly likes you, but won't admit it. I mean, why would he tell you lies to make you break up with your ex? Maybe he wanted to be with you. And he wnats you to come over. But I mean, you should keep telling him. In fact, it's best if you have a buddy or something to walk wit every day to a class. You don't wnat to be alone with him. He's rude to you? Maybe he lieks you but doesn't wnat to show it, so he treats you that way. But then again, maybe you've got any enemy or something, who sent him to spy on you? IDK hahah but anyway, I suggest having a friend walk with you everyday. If you walk with a another guy friend, that would help, becuase you guy friend can make him back off.

[Oreo_bro]

Maybe he secretly likes you, but won't admit it. I mean, why would he tell you lies to make you break up with your ex? Maybe he wanted to be with you. And he wnats you to come over. But I mean, you should keep telling him. In fact, it's best if you have a buddy or something to walk wit every day to a class. You don't wnat to be alone with him. He's rude to you? Maybe he lieks you but doesn't wnat to show it, so he treats you that way. But then again, maybe you've got any enemy or something, who sent him to spy on you? IDK hahah but anyway, I suggest having a friend walk with you everyday. If you walk with a another guy friend, that would help, becuase you guy friend can make him back off.

read it again mod hun, she said he does like her


anyways about your problem. i would tell some one that is like your friend, or even a counsler/teacher/police *if u have them in your school*. May sound stupid to talk to the adults but it does work, and its in a way better then telling ur uber buff jock football player friends cause they may beat him up which i mean may seem nice now but u dont really wanna se a guy hurt badly do ya?


Also, like dream said, keep telling him, maybe have a sit down with him and explain the situation and how u just dont like him, if all eles fails, get pissed off lol but yeah..good luck

[*stephinika*]

yeah i agree with the two before me. but yeah just be really up front and tell him straight up. if he doesn't get it, tell him over and over again. if he STILL doesn't get it, beat it into his head. kidding!! anyways, yeah if you actually do feel endangered by him, tell someone who can make him stop like an adult or someone you feel like you can trust. good luck! i had a problem kinda like that before but not quite to those extremes. he backed off once i got pissed.

[Just_Dream]

read it again mod hun, she said he does like her 

Mm, calm down. Anyway, about that. I was confused because she says he's rude and immature and whatnot.. and he likes her? Also, he pissed her off? I was thinking maybe she THOUGHT he liked her.. because ther could be a chance that he doesn't. Who knows?

So Kelly, I mean, did you ask him if he liked you?

And hey, if he doesn't listen to you, yea maybe it's best that you do tell someone, preferably an adult. But don't overexaggerate or anything. Just tell him what he's done that has made you feel really uncomfortable. Don't say anything too drastic. But if that guy ever does hurt you in any way, whether emotionally or physically, you can always get a restraining order on him.


And oreo_bro, pelase, don't ever call me "hun" again. kthnx.

This post has been edited by Just_Dream: Oct 26 2004, 11:01 PM

[Oreo_bro]

Mm, calm down. Anyway, about that. I was confused because she says he's rude and immature and whatnot.. and he likes her? Also, he pissed her off? I was thinking maybe she THOUGHT he liked her.. because ther could be a chance that he doesn't. Who knows?

So Kelly, I mean, did you ask him if he liked you?

And hey, if he doesn't listen to you, yea maybe it's best that you do tell someone, preferably an adult. But don't overexaggerate or anything. Just tell him what he's done that has made you feel really uncomfortable. Don't say anything too drastic. But if that guy ever does hurt you in any way, whether emotionally or physically, you can always get a restraining order on him.


And oreo_bro, pelase, don't ever call me "hun" again. kthnx.

lol sorry, hun is just..dunno, same way girls say babe to lots of guys, hun is just something i say but yeah sorry if i offended u, didnt mean anything by it.

anyways, i think he may be doing that sutff cause of the same reason any guys does stupid things...to try and get noticed. Maybe he wasnt noticed last year, but its obvsious he likes her

he knew it was my birthday today and so he brought me stuff. He’s been sending me the queerest emails lately. He’s been pissing me off. He told me to meet him at his house and all this crap about wanting to see me.

thats pretty obvious that he likes her. but ne wayz, yeah

[*wind&fire*]

well it all hangs on what he says about the email... but i find emails to cowardly you should have told him to his face...

[nlgrl]

confront him in person! one day just go up and talk to him and say leave me alone i dont like you... you can be harsh but thats the only way^^

[islandkiss]

Mm, calm down. Anyway, about that. I was confused because she says he's rude and immature and whatnot.. and he likes her? Also, he pissed her off? I was thinking maybe she THOUGHT he liked her.. because ther could be a chance that he doesn't. Who knows?

So Kelly, I mean, did you ask him if he liked you?

And hey, if he doesn't listen to you, yea maybe it's best that you do tell someone, preferably an adult. But don't overexaggerate or anything. Just tell him what he's done that has made you feel really uncomfortable. Don't say anything too drastic. But if that guy ever does hurt you in any way, whether emotionally or physically, you can always get a restraining order on him.


And oreo_bro, pelase, don't ever call me "hun" again. kthnx.

ahh, I'm sorry for not being clear enough. but yeah, he does like me. he told.. everyone. I'm scared of him since he says he's suicidal and violent

[smile4me]

go to a responsible and trusted adult. fast. o.O

[Shattered_Hope]

tell someone....before things get out of hand..adn this is no longer stalking...its obsession.

[whywasisostupid]

whoa he reminds me of this guy i hate.

tried to break me and chris up, and i thought he was cool at 1st, and then it came to me that he was a gay fag....

i stil havent told him how i felt, but its kinda obvious that im ignoring him...

go thru it slowly wit him. tell him how u appericate being a 'friend' but take it down a notch. and to stop follwing u

[islandkiss]

whoa he reminds me of this guy i hate.

tried to break me and chris up, and i thought he was cool at 1st, and then it came to me that he was a gay fag....

that's exactly why I started hating him.


he even continued to do that even after we broke up.

[whywasisostupid]

seroiusly. confront him. this guy sounds lik a tottaly a$$ wit no life.

[happygoluckyng]

call the f**king cops...shit...I would be scared to go outside or anything...and on top of that...you shouldn't waste your time in here....go and call the police NOW!!! report him

[LiLaZnGirL122]

well first rite bac saying ima call da cops on u if u dont stop ORRRRRR if u hav a older sibling go tell ur bro or w/e to go beat him up or hav his frds come wit him jus to scarehim u noe having older siblings helps alot wen it comes to this shit or to hav less trouble call da cops if i was u i would b fu*ing scared!! gurl jus do wuts rite
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im sry wrong 1 ima pos this up in da other 1

[Dusck]

slap him! :)
tell the cops?
tell him to talk to a counselor!