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 Oct 22 2004, 05:35 PM
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I know this is so pathetic...please don't point out the obvious...
Anyway there is this guy I really like and I don't even have the courage to talkin to him...what shoud I do? |
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Oct 22 2004, 08:25 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
I have the same problem... I hate being shy.
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Oct 22 2004, 08:33 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
think of something to motivate you to talk to him. or umm try talking to him on like aim or something. its easier talking there
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Oct 22 2004, 08:42 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Try and be his friend at first.
[shrug] I've done it before.. it's not that hard if you start out being just like you want a friend.. >_> |
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Oct 22 2004, 08:45 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
go on a journey with the tin man and the scarecrow and find the wizard.and then u will find courage..
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Oct 22 2004, 11:11 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
i used to be shy XD but then i started talking to guys i didn't like..and then i got used to talking to guys i did
 lmao..tin man & scarecrow  funny..well..yeah that's what i did 
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Oct 22 2004, 11:51 PM
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just start slow... start talking to him
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Oct 23 2004, 12:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
ooh ooh if ur onli shy around him then try to be friends wit one of HIS friends first..
if ur shy around guys in general then u gota start talking to guys you DONT like n just build up the confidence |
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Oct 23 2004, 01:34 AM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Converse through Notes, Internet, Telephone.
Then, Suck it up, and be "not-as-shy as i used to be" |
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Oct 23 2004, 10:29 AM
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wow....tell ur friend to tell him that u like him!! hope that helped cos all the guys ive liked know i like 'em,through eye contact or i tell 'em my self...i dont want to lose my chance....cos that's what'll happen if u dont tell 'em...
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Oct 24 2004, 09:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,035 |
i'm really shy too, its either others talk to me or i wont talk =T i guess you jus need to b friends with him first, i really dont know =T
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Oct 24 2004, 10:15 PM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
Everyone is shy. Even if they say they aren't. It's just a matter of time where you'll say, "I'm going to talk to him today!" and you'll go up to him and say "Hi". And simple "hi" is a great start ;D!
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Oct 24 2004, 11:36 PM
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 my own special world... Group: Member Posts: 465 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,648 |
well im waaaayyy to shy..one of my friends called me a prude the day he met me
 well now..were friends..*hmph* prude..yeah right!!  but i would either talk to them online or juss tell a friend to tell him that i like him..i don have the courage to talk to guys on the phone or in person..hm im alittle better tho. |
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Oct 24 2004, 11:50 PM
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neat banner Group: Member Posts: 281 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,994 |
Well u gota get over your fear and just go talk to hym cuz u aint gunna gte no where if u just be shy. U gotta gte over your fears
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Oct 24 2004, 11:54 PM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
write a note
if not that, talk on msn 
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Oct 25 2004, 12:10 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
i used to have the same problem...
1. get to know his friends 2. get to know him through his friends and build a common ground 3. once you've got similarities established, talk to him A LOT 4. then after you're certain you still like him, start flirting 5. and one thing should lead to another, if its "meant to be" and uhh... the worst thing you can do is write a note. sorry, but it is. my friend's done that before and she just got humiliated. |
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Oct 25 2004, 12:19 AM
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~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
QUOTE([X) poised,Oct 24 2004, 9:10 PM] i used to have the same problem... 1. get to know his friends 2. get to know him through his friends and build a common ground 3. once you've got similarities established, talk to him A LOT 4. then after you're certain you still like him, start flirting 5. and one thing should lead to another, if its "meant to be" and uhh... the worst thing you can do is write a note. sorry, but it is. my friend's done that before and she just got humiliated. depends on the situation, i was going from the standpoint that shes to afraid to really talk to him at all, which in that case a note could open the doors a little and possible make her feel more comfortable around him depending on his reply *even better if he starts talkin to him* besides, notes are sweet 
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Oct 27 2004, 07:47 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
whats so hard about approaching a guy?? just go up and say "Hey." and thats it..
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Oct 27 2004, 07:51 PM
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...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
whats so hard about approaching a guy?? just go up and say "Hey." and thats it..
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Oct 27 2004, 07:51 PM
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...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
whats so hard about approaching a guy?? just go up and say "Hey." and thats it..
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Oct 27 2004, 07:51 PM
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...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
whats so hard about approaching a guy?? just go up and say "Hey." and thats it..
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Nov 8 2004, 11:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
you're just like me. i hate being shy when it comes to guys. grr.
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Nov 12 2004, 12:38 AM
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QUOTE(teenprincess @ Oct 22 2004, 3:25 PM) I have the same problem... I hate being shy. me too, and its worst tat im a guy!
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Nov 12 2004, 07:17 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
i got the same problem being shy...
but one day i just came up with **** it... doesnt matter, in the words of my best friend "Go 4 It" |
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Nov 12 2004, 08:32 PM
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i dont dare to talk to my crush either, i will make a fool of myself, try to make it seem like pure frendship and if he gives out signals, try to decode them, if he doesn't like u then u can't do n e thing
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Nov 12 2004, 09:37 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(mz anita xP @ Oct 24 2004, 9:22 PM) i'm really shy too, its either others talk to me or i wont talk =T i guess you jus need to b friends with him first, i really dont know =T hi anita =D think of it this way, either u tell him which gives urself a chance to get with him or stay in that corner and mope about it: no intention of offending u lol im jus hoping it'll get u all enraged and u'll be like yeah ill go talk to him since thats the wya ill get closer to him |
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Nov 13 2004, 08:52 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
lols umm...yepp..juss start talkenn a lil bit to him at first. Then progress to more 'n more talkenn =]
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Nov 13 2004, 09:44 PM
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Hmm, that's what happened to me last year. The whole year passed with him and me not talking, and it was just horrible! He would always talk to my friends, and it hurt so bad... And we gre further apart... So unless you want that to happen to you... I dunno, I guess just try and talk to him? I know how hard it can be... but you havta think of how much it can hurt you... And how much easier it is to just of started that one conversation...
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Nov 13 2004, 10:21 PM
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 Stay Cheezin Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,829 |
I had the same situation like a year and a half ago wif my current bf..I was shy and we didnt know each other well so we introduced each other talked a lot more and then I myself admitted how i felt so u shudnt b afraid of rejection juss be friends and see how things sail from there..cuz sumtimes if u get to knoe a person first u'll realize u might not like them afterall..good luck =)
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